Bad first sexual encounter... couldn't get hard.

Don't feel bad, this happened to me with my current girlfriend, our first time together. I am in my mid 30's and recently divorced. I have never had any kind of problems getting erections, but after getting back into the dating scene, it was like being a teenager again, I was very nervous. My current girlfriend and I were friends for a couple of years before we hooked up. I was nervous as hell, and our first time together, it just didn't happen, no matter what I tried. She was really cool about it even though I felt like a total loser at the time. But obviously, she really liked me for me, and didn't even think twice about it and told me about how nervous she was too. So the next time went much better Don't sweat it dude. Relax and enjoy.

Sometimes people are just too nervous. If you are in a relationship, you should discuss sex and health, experience etc. also some people had too high expectations for sex. Just be in the moment and enjoy yourself. If the girl really likes you and you really like this girl, you will take the time to learn what pleases the both of you.

I didnt have any probs... but i hear alot of guys do have this problem and this thread reflects this.

My advice is: if you think your a loser, then you are a loser, if you think your a "bad ass mother that dont take crap off of nobody, youve a) watched too much of cool runnings or you are a bad ass mother that dont take crap off of nobody.

When you understand this, you will have no problems.

and on another note: pussy = good