No disrespect, but your reply is an insult to my intelligence. There is nothing new at what you said, I've heard that like a million times. I'll try to explain it to you again, and maybe you will understand. But I'm warning you: It may change and ruin the way you see the world so if you don't want that don't read further.
All the things you described caused by society, not biology. I know this fact is hard to accept, but it's true. All the alpha male characteristics you described created by society, do you know why? Because in human populations that are far away from western influence there's no such a thing! They had no social status and they didn't use money, they was VERY different from us. Like the Polynesians not long ago, they didn't wear cloths so kids grew up naked and developed a very healthy sexuality. They reached the age of 14 years old and had sex and didn't make a big deal out of it. There was no rape, no prostitutes and you could not sell playboy to nobody because they had nothing to do with it. They also had no fetishes and when a man was talking to a woman he looked straight in her eyes, not in the boobs. They were sane, we are not sane because we have all those sick phenomena.
You know what else I didn't like about your reply? That you assumed you know who I am just by using your dichotomous thinking. Actually you have NO idea who I am and what I've been through. I dated plenty if women and all those dates was my initiative, so I'm not afraid of anything. It has nothing to do with fear, I just got sick of that stupid ass society. And yes I tried for fucking YEARS to improve myself and lift
weights and all this and it didn't brought me anything but a heartache and the feeling that I don't worth anything because I'm a man.
And yes, this 350lb woman has every right to blame society because she IS beautiful. But we have grown in society that gave us a fault set of values, they made us to believe what is beautiful and what is not and also what is important for us (Appearance) and what is not important for us (knowledge, intelligence etc). Only sick people can be so superficial and care about boobs and ass and all that shit and ignore the important stuff.
When you say "It's a lot easier to blame someone else than it is to change yourself, isn't it?", what it basically means to me is: You have to be like everybody else, all men fight each other to get some so you need to fight too and I don't care how stupid it is and how you hate it, just fight and throw away your individuality and preferences because everybody should be the same. God I hate people!
Sex is essential for a good, healthy life, just like food, water, roof over your head etc. It should be in abundance, I'm not going to fight for such a basic thing that everybody should have! I really prefer to have a sex doll so I would be able to have sex whenever I want without bagging for a brainwashed woman like a fucking loser.
I know this topic has nothing to do with the original Thread, but it's way more important and interesting. I'm mean, come on guys, who really cares about what women want? We do PE for ourselves. If a guy wants 9 inches it doesn't matters if everybody says 8 is enough, he will work to get 9.