AdmiralLongDong;333431 said:
RE: the endless boner.
I am going to make a conjecture here about those endless boners. Women your age don't really know how to assert themselves in this situation. They tend to think it's their job to get you off, which is great if your the guy. As you get older women become more cynical and demanding. If you make it to 40 and are still single you'll know what I mean.
The best way to make your self come faster is to stay at the foreplay stage of things longer than you would want to. Kind of like edging only with a girl instead of your hand. Try to make out longer and give girls long back rubs. Tease yourself. Don't let yourself stick it in her as soon as it seems like she is a little wet. Make the girl feel like she is so amazingly beautiful that all you want to do is be near her. Kiss her lips without shoving your tongue in her mouth, just go slow and pay attention to her breathing and how turned on you are. I know it sounds like a head trip, but it works. If you make yourself really work for that penis in vagina part of things and focus on the me and you intimacy part you'll see what I mean.
If you spend twice as much time on foreplay, you'll get yourself so turned on that you will come faster, she will be more turned on, and you'll have more intense orgasms.
I always spend a long time on foreplay. I like to run my fingertips over her body and just rub her body for a while. When it comes down to the real action I'll go down on her for 5, 10, 15 minutes until she's screaming and her fingers are running through my hair like, holding on like it's her only grip on reality and her legs are putting me in the best of chokeholds.
When I get in there I still last forever it seems. I'll paste my best experience from a different forum....
"May 8th 2008
It was one of my friend's birthdays so she wanted to have a BBQ out at nearby park. A bunch of us went out there and had a dandy time. Burgers and brews and all that good stuff. Good friends, good conversation, good times.
We later head to a party at some nearby apartments. I'm decently drunk at the moment. I see my fuck buddy at this party and spit a little bit of game but she was being a little bit of a bitch, so I talked to this other jewish girl with huge tits. I ended up going outside to sit on the steps with my friend who's birthday it was. She was FUCKED up, her face was just full of fail.
If enough people want, I'll throw up a picture later, because it just encompasses my awesome mood for the night, and the hilarity of the situation.
Anyway she gets WASTED and vomits and such and passes out on the grass and me and some friends take her home and bring her up to her suite.
My fuck buddy and her are dorm-mates. My fuck buddy texts me saying "Hey, I just saw Hayden Christensen on TV and thought about you..."
I text her back a while later saying her dorm-mate is all fucked up and she might want to come back...and she responds with "I don't want you, etcetc" all kinds of bullshit like that. When she gets back to her room she decides to kick me out of her room, so I go back to mine down the hall.
Less than 5 minutes later I get a text saying "I'm sorry..."
I text her back "Why don't you come over and apologize..."
She comes over and it's about midnight...clothes come off and as always I start eating her out and she now has me in a chokehold with her legs, fingers gripped onto my hair, gasping and moaning. I was hard as stone at this point. She came 3 times.
After this I spread her legs and she took looks at my dick and puts a big grin on her face and just nods. I push in real slow and she takes it all, eyes closed, breathing really shallow. I start pounding her with her legs hooked over my elbows and she starts moving so we're slamming against each other in perfect synchronization. I unhook her knees and we keep going, she keeps rolling her hips in the most amazing way and has her legs hooked around mine. She started cumming and shortly after I finally came, and during this orgasm she spread her legs and pulled me in with her legs as deep as she could take me and both of us let out this insane primal scream. I just laid there inside of her for a minute and absorbed everything that just happened. Then I pulled out and we both passed out.
That was the first time...
When we woke up again at about 8 that morning I rolled over and looked her in the eyes and asked...
"Wanna do it again?"
*Smile/Nod/* "Yeah" In a quiet breathless voice. It was hot.
We started out on our sides fucking face to face and it felt nice, definitely. Then I rolled her over until she was on top, normally she never does this, but she was enjoying it and was riding me pretty hard, I kept my back and hips tilted right so she could get some seriously full penetration. She started breathing really fast and shallow and her eyes rolled back into her head and she came like a freight train and fell down on me gasping. I rolled her back over and we get setup for me to hit it from behind.
Right as I enter her from behind she gasped. I started thrusting in and out reaaaal slow, longdicking her with the most perfect form. Taking it out all the way to the tip of the head, and pushing it allll the way back in rubbing over her G Spot and into the AFE zone, taking a few seconds per direction. We slowly picked up the pace and she's pushing back against me and I'm pounding that ass. Dear God it felt good.
On her hands and knees I feel her start shiver in orgasm and I release the biggest load into her that I think I've ever had. I came so hard I felt like I temporarily transcended reality and was on a different plane of existence. It felt so good I felt like I was having a seizure. It felt like every nerve ending of my body was orgasming at once. We just fell over to the side and laid there panting in ecstasy.
We got up and got dressed and went to breakfast down at the dinning commons and saw a bunch of other friends there. As soon as they saw us walk in, they knew exactly what was up. We must've had sex written all over us. That orgasm I had with her on her hands and knees, in a dark, messy dorm room at 8am on a Friday morning was the best orgasm that I have ever experienced. Period."