P.E. and masturbation fucked up my penis (honest truth here)

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Has anyone else experienced this recently I have been down because of what I have done to myself I feel so stupid for trying these exercises. 1st off when I was 17 I pulled my penis a bit far by accident and ended up getting weaker erections after as a result. It takes now 80 - 90% for my penis to get hard. I wish I hadn't found these exercises out because I noticed when I done a jelq after my penis erection got a bit weaker and when I piss there is less force like. This put me off P.E. forever. I am not here to convince anyone to stop, it's your choice but I am just saying that some risks are too much and I will no longer be doing any P.E ever again. I feel the damage is done now and have put off getting a girlfriend for sex because of my fucked up damaged penis. Infact embarrasingly when I was away abroad (I was 20 I think) I went to a brothel and got tossed off and was going to get a blow job, and even though the women was hot because of my damaged erection I could barely get it up I felt so down because of it I am serious as well. I wonder if seeing a doctor is now too late if this is so I guess I only have myself to blame.<:( Physically getting a erection takes longer I find looking at adult entertainment (especially Lesbian adult entertainment) or thinking sexual thoughts gets me an gets me an erection fine, I still get spontaneous erection like when I was 14 but the difference is my dick has lost it's erection strengh.
 
Do you think I should consider seeing a doctor even after 6 years after what happened? I feel the damage is lilkely bad enough I would have to surgery. Not much bothers me in life but this does and I can't seem to forget about this after all this time. Perhaps I should just face the fact I will be stuck now with a slighty broken dick and anticapate E.D. when I get older even though I rarely drink alchohol or smoke.
 
I am so sorry to read your story. I would definitely see a urologist to get his take on this. You need more information to come to these conclusions. Be honest with him. Tell him the whole story. They've heard it all.

You also might try giving up watching all adult entertainment. Sometimes it's the adult entertainment that can "desensitize" you.
 
Have you tried kegels?Perhaps your male hormone level is low?Sorry your going through this, if we can help, we certainly will do our best for you!
 
Thanks guys I don't know whether I'm overating. I wondered if maybe I masturbated too much and that could be making my erections even weaker but I doubt that. I don't know how to go about seeing someone and if surgery were to be done I would worry something would go wrong and worsen my condition. You hear all these horror stories of penis surgery gone wrong one guy on a documentary had a basic circumcision done but his penis ended up bleed afterwards and now he can't get an erection at all now. This is just one story. Too say I'm worried about getting help about this is an understatement and it would be hard to keep something like this a secret especially if I were to get surgery.
 
Girthius said:
Have you tried kegels?Perhaps your male hormone level is low?Sorry your going through this, if we can help, we certainly will do our best for you!
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Well I have tried kegals before and experienced mixed results one day I would have really hard erections and very stiff, like I had before the problems occured. Other days they would be normal or worse very weak and found I would have to wait the whole day to get a decent (normal) erection. I doubt lots kegals could repair damages tissues.
 
I think if you can get a hard erection on day and not the other it is mental and not physical. I know that since I have been peing that my erections can get harder than they have ever before but. I have become kind of descensitiesed because I'm doing this for an hour every day and have been with the same partner for 2 years. but if we do some roleplay and spice it up oh my God I'm so fucking hard its incredible. I was never able to get that big and hard before Pe its kind of a trade off I think but to me its worth it.
 
I agree with Rob. If you can get a hard erection one day and not the next, then the problem is not physical. You had better stop worrying about surgery and all the rest. Start focusing on something (someone) else.
 
thats some crazy sht, why I take it slow, don't do that many exercises or I stop for a day or so if I feel somethings wrong, don't tug to hard in stretches, always worried if something would happen. but i'm gonna have to throw my agreement with the above and say if you can get hard on some days it's probably not physical. you still may want to see a doctor because there are a lot of possible causes
 
Maybe you should start trying a new diet. I don't know what you are eating, but the healing power of raw vegetables and fruits and seeds would be something worth exploring. I read a story recently about a woman who was given 3 months to live with cancer, doctor said put put a fork in her, she's done. So her husband searched the internet for anything or anybody claiming alternate treatments for cancer, finds heaps of people espousing the power of foods that are ready to eat from the ground not processed in a factory(makes sense to me, maybe they grow that way for a reason, like, so we can eat them) and she gives it a shot. Well, the woman healed herself and if you're at your wits end I reccomend you try this too.
 
Du,

I have went through that at one time. I have High Blood Pressure for years and the Dr. said that it affects your erections and also the medication can affect your erections - depending on what kind of BP pills you take. I was taking one BP pill and I couldnt get an erection. I talked to the Dr. and he told me it was the meds - so he changed it and my erections came back.

My wife told me the same and she tried and tried every thing to get me hard and my wife is very sexy and sexual, but very rarely could she get it hard. I actually bought a huge rubber cock (like a sleeve) that I fit over my cock and used that to fuck my wife for a while and get me off - my wife loves it too. We did alot of experimenting with sex and with my rubber cock and she found that she can take it in her asshole as well and she loves the length (probably about 10x7girth) .

But as far as Penis Enlargement hurting, I feel its not the Penis Enlargement, because it helped me get more rigid, harder erections. My wife said she can feel the difference in her asshole when she tries to squeeze my cock with her asshole muscles. I gained more girth also from Penis Enlargement, this may be the reason that my wife feels more full in her asshole too.

Good luck man and we are here to help ya.

Other meds may cause the problem also.
 
i'd say check with a urologist and consult a psych doctor. like rob and a few other said before, it's more than likely a depression thing, or the fact that you convinced yourseld that you can only get an erection a certain way, or you damaged your dick to the point where you can't get it up. i think that would put some sort of affect on your erections. the mind is a very powerful thing. talk it out with a professional and see the doctor, other than that? idk i feel for ya man
 
I think another factor could be that when I was 10 upwards I masturbated often prone It sounds stupid now but I like the way it felt but I found out recently that it puts a lot of pressure on the penis and can (you guessed it) can cause erection problems, for example problems getting immediate erections or getting weaker erections in general. Apparently those who have masturbated prone too much can experience seriously delayed orgasm which I would think would be a good think for sex?:( I am glad I no longer do it but I did masturbate prone for many years when I was very young and through most of my teenage years and hope that hasn't contributed to my slight problems with my erect penis.

You see the site here:

Healthy Strokes - Masturbation and More
 
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I doubt very, very much that masturbating prone caused your problem--only that if you masturbate a lot, just like watching adult entertainment a lot, it can sometimes desensitize you for regular sexual intercourse. If this is some kind of psychological block, which is what it sounds like, there are many, many ways to overcome it. Anyway, I'd have a doctor check me out, just to make sure.
 
TheNextBIGThing said:
I think another factor could be that when I was 10 upwards I masturbated often prone It sounds stupid now but I like the way it felt but I found out recently that it puts a lot of pressure on the penis and can (you guessed it) can cause erection problems, for example problems getting immediate erections or getting weaker erections in general. Apparently those who have masturbated prone too much can experience seriously delayed orgasm which I would think would be a good think for sex?:( I am glad I no longer do it but I did masturbate prone for many years when I was very young and through most of my teenage years and hope that hasn't contributed to my slight problems with my erect penis.

You see the site here:

Healthy Strokes - Masturbation and More
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WOW, :O you started jackin' off when you were 10 years old ? :O
 
That's an interesting study. I still find it hard to believe that it applies to everybody. I used to masturbate against everything that moved and didn't move!!

rofl

I guess I didn't do it prone that often. I guess if you do it only one way, then maybe it can become a fetish. I don't know.

Hopefully, you'll reach a point in your sex life when you can let your sex partner masturbate you. My Mrs. drives me right up the wall when she masturbates me. She knows how to do it so that I get long-lasting whole body orgasm. Some of them last for a minute or two.

THEY ROCK!!!

What I'm saying here, pal, is that there is hope. Give it time. You'll grow out of it. That article has some good tips, by the way.
 
TheNextBIGThing said:
I think another factor could be that when I was 10 upwards I masturbated often prone It sounds stupid now but I like the way it felt but I found out recently that it puts a lot of pressure on the penis and can (you guessed it) can cause erection problems, for example problems getting immediate erections or getting weaker erections in general. Apparently those who have masturbated prone too much can experience seriously delayed orgasm which I would think would be a good think for sex?:( I am glad I no longer do it but I did masturbate prone for many years when I was very young and through most of my teenage years and hope that hasn't contributed to my slight problems with my erect penis.

You see the site here:

Healthy Strokes - Masturbation and More
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I think there is some truth to this. as a teenager that is how I masturbated and I had super delayed orgasms. I could have sex for 3 hours and not cum even if I wanted to. only through the gift of Penis Enlargement have I now been able to controle my orgasm and have one when ever I want.

Its so awesome I can pop in 10 minutes or 2 hours and I can come twice in an hour somting that I could never do before even as a teenager. that alone makes Penis Enlargement worth every bit of risk to me. it has made my sex life so much better. I thank DLD everyday for this site!!!:)
 
GashKing said:
Du,

I have went through that at one time. I have High Blood Pressure for years and the Dr. said that it affects your erections and also the medication can affect your erections - depending on what kind of BP pills you take. I was taking one BP pill and I couldnt get an erection. I talked to the Dr. and he told me it was the meds - so he changed it and my erections came back.

My wife told me the same and she tried and tried every thing to get me hard and my wife is very sexy and sexual, but very rarely could she get it hard. I actually bought a huge rubber cock (like a sleeve) that I fit over my cock and used that to fuck my wife for a while and get me off - my wife loves it too. We did alot of experimenting with sex and with my rubber cock and she found that she can take it in her asshole as well and she loves the length (probably about 10x7girth) .

But as far as Penis Enlargement hurting, I feel its not the Penis Enlargement, because it helped me get more rigid, harder erections. My wife said she can feel the difference in her asshole when she tries to squeeze my cock with her asshole muscles. I gained more girth also from Penis Enlargement, this may be the reason that my wife feels more full in her asshole too.

Good luck man and we are here to help ya.

Other meds may cause the problem also.
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Here are some of the pics of the slip on rubber (sleeve) cock we use.

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wow ive been doin that prone thing for the last like 6 years but when i have sex i still cum really easily. most of the tiem i have to focus on NOT cumming cuz it comes so fast lol... umm i never knew it was unhealthy though :/ now i gotta learn how to do it by hand lol
 

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good luck limppy
 
My friend to be honest I think this is PURELY mental. The same thing happened to me when I started Penis Enlargement in October 06 I went good for about 4 weeks then noticed what I thought to be a T-vein (it wasn't) so I got paranoid and stopped getting full erections because of it. Went on for about a month. I stopped Penis Enlargement completely and didn't cum/masturbate for a long while. Then to make matters worse when me and my girlfriend did stuff I came right away. Like she started to go down on me and soon as I felt her lips wrap I fired off. That freaked me out even MORE. So then finally after some research (on this site) I came to the realization that I wasn't suffering from a Penis Enlargement injury and the threat of pre mature ejaculation was all mental I took some advice from DLD and it all came back to place. The erections are back to solid steel and even a little bit harder too ;) Went the other night almost an hour before firing off during a blow job. Just relax about it stop being so stressed out. Cool off on the jacking it and ease up on the adult entertainment and just don't worry about it.


You're penis is JUST one part of the whole package remember that.
 
ithiel said:
why would you need that thing? Dont you got your own?
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Du,

to be honest with you and I have always spoken the truth and told it the way it is. My wife loves big cocks ! She and her friends use strap-ons and they just love me when I prance around the parties with the rubber slip-on cock! Some of the members actually have cocks this size of the rubber sleeve cock.

Alot of couple's use Sex Aids to enhance their sex. My wife love to feel full and she said that this is probably the most she can take ?

So its about keeping the lady happy and it keeps me happy to see her happy !
 
GashKing said:
Du,

to be honest with you and I have always spoken the truth and told it the way it is. My wife loves big cocks ! She and her friends use strap-ons and they just love me when I prance around the parties with the rubber slip-on cock! Some of the members actually have cocks this size of the rubber sleeve cock.

Alot of couple's use Sex Aids to enhance their sex. My wife love to feel full and she said that this is probably the most she can take ?

So its about keeping the lady happy and it keeps me happy to see her happy !
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I hear ya.
 
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