New here, with some serious problems -_-

[Nikorasu]

I have recently started dating this hot girl, and we love hanging with each other. Plus we both have quite the high sex drive for each other.
*cue the large but*
I barely last all that long. best amount of time was 3 minutes...i think. However, things get worse from there. because recently i have been having problems getting up at all when we are trying to have sex. Plus when i do get up, at about 75-80%, i lose wood inside of her.

i've started the newbie exercises...any other ideas? Also, is it bad to masturbate right after jelqing, and then shower to warm down?

 

[rebel2011]

Read some threads on premature ejaculation. Plug it in to the search box and you will find everything! Someone was talking about it just yesterday I think. There are a few ways to help but mostly its in your mind.

Jacking off after girth is bad because basically it deflates your penis and the theory behind girth is to leave it swollen past the point of a normal erection. This in theory helps stretch the internals and create more places for blood.

 

[stillwantmore]

Speaking from my own experience, I'd say it's likely stress related. I know if I'm stressing about anything during or even before sex, it can affect my performance. School, life in general, money, car problem, whatever. Masturbating after Penis Enlargement has ZERO effect on gains. If you're using condoms, a suggestion I have which helped me in the past with improving sensitivity...even the most "sensitive" condoms are nothing like the real thing no matter how "barely there" they are...apply some water based lube to your penis before putting the condom on. Use lube on the outside of the condom as well. Foreplay that you both get turned on by will also help big time. Just rushing right into sex because "it's time" to have some can cause arousal problems. Also, the more time you spend on foreplay...and getting her off before you have actual penis in vagina (or whatever you're into) sex, will make how long you last less important. Learning to hold back when you start to feel the urge by pulling out or stopping movement for a few moments and doing that multiple times will help delay your ejaculation and make sex longer. Personally if I back off and then go again multiple times if I'm having a problem lasting, will make me last longer. After several times of backing off and starting again, I get a little less sensitive.

Women are more likely to talk about how long you DON'T last if you don't get them off. Get them off before you do at least once every time and they'll tell their friends how great you are whether you're a "minute man" or not.

 

[DLD]

Speaking from my own experience, I'd say it's likely stress related. I know if I'm stressing about anything during or even before sex, it can affect my performance. School, life in general, money, car problem, whatever. Masturbating after Penis Enlargement has ZERO effect on gains. If you're using condoms, a suggestion I have which helped me in the past with improving sensitivity...even the most "sensitive" condoms are nothing like the real thing no matter how "barely there" they are...apply some water based lube to your penis before putting the condom on. Use lube on the outside of the condom as well. Foreplay that you both get turned on by will also help big time. Just rushing right into sex because "it's time" to have some can cause arousal problems. Also, the more time you spend on foreplay...and getting her off before you have actual penis in vagina (or whatever you're into) sex, will make how long you last less important. Learning to hold back when you start to feel the urge by pulling out or stopping movement for a few moments and doing that multiple times will help delay your ejaculation and make sex longer. Personally if I back off and then go again multiple times if I'm having a problem lasting, will make me last longer. After several times of backing off and starting again, I get a little less sensitive.

Women are more likely to talk about how long you DON'T last if you don't get them off. Get them off before you do at least once every time and they'll tell their friends how great you are whether you're a "minute man" or not.

My twin brother! Exactly perfect advice.

 

[Turnover]

This does not sound like so "serious" of a problem, in fact it can actually be some fun for you. All you need to do is have sex as often as possible and the more you have the longer you last!!

 

[Nikorasu]

thanks so much for the advice. i'll be putting all of this to good use.
and if we could have sex that often, we would.

 

[Medicating]

Agreed with Priapus.

My downfall is doggystyle. It makes me cum instantly but i can't resist it so i usually slip into it after about 5-10 minutes, however it gets my girl off even quicker than it does me so she's happy with that. If i didn't get her off, i'm sure she'd be pissed.

 

[Medicating]

FFS. Why does it keep posting my messages twice?

 

[Turnover]

FFS. Why does it keep posting my messages twice?

You need to click 'Post Quick Reply' only once. Sometimes it will not respond to the first click, but it is just taking a second to load. If you click it twice even a quick double click it is going to post your message twice.

 

[DLD]

You need to click 'Post Quick Reply' only once. Sometimes it will not respond to the first click, but it is just taking a second to load. If you click it twice even a quick double click it is going to post your message twice.

I pushed it 40,000 times once, must be why my post count is so high

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Cheatin' beeyotch!!

i pushed it 40,000 times once, must be why my post count is so high

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Niko,

One good piece of advice I can give you is: Slow Down... literally, slooooow down. Most gals have a much slower response time than guys, and they NEED relaxation time while building up the stimulation.

(Who was it that said, "Women need a reason to have sex, men only need a location.)

While at the same time you can "learn" how your own body responds, what drives you crazy...what drives you over the edge.
And the slower you go the more control you can learn. One mistake a lot of us make is to just go faster and faster (with anything-tongue, fingers, cock, toes, eyebrows...you get it) until the sweet ending is forced out, prematurely. For both of you.

Slow down, take your time with whatever you're doing and you'll find that half of the pleasure, or more, is "riding the wave" , that rare, freaky, oh-so-sweet spot between losing and retaining control. With the right amount and rhytHydromax of foreplay (emphasis on "play") a women's entire body can become an errogenous zone. When that happens just blowin' in her ear'll make her lose her nut.

And if you can keep yours while she's blastin' hers all over the sheets, then you're doin' good my friend.

And:

There's only three ways to get good at something: Practice, practice and practice. Make it a game, KEEP it fun, and focus on "right-fukkin' now" instead of any might-never-happen later.

 

[Turnover]

I pushed it 40,000 times once, must be why my post count is so high

This place is practically dead without you. 40,000 more please.