morning wood is gone...

[pogzee]

guys for the past few weeks i have only been doing length work and not a single girth exercise or a single jelq....
but i realized my morning wood has gone and i have suddenly become a deep sleeper....this happened when i recently started smoking again after 6 months and i have been drinking quite a but also ....but like 2-4 beers a day ..its kinda regular also....this has effected my sleep ..i mean made me a deep sleeper....
also i am kinda depressed with my life due to my size.....

what could be the cause ???

 

[Bacheelor]

guys for the past few weeks i have only been doing length work and not a single girth exercise or a single jelq....
but i realized my morning wood has gone and i have suddenly become a deep sleeper....this happened when i recently started smoking again after 6 months and i have been drinking quite a but also ....but like 2-4 beers a day ..its kinda regular also....this has effected my sleep ..i mean made me a deep sleeper....
also i am kinda depressed with my life due to my size.....

what could be the cause ???

Too high tension on your [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words]?

 

[GirthGains]

guys for the past few weeks i have only been doing length work and not a single girth exercise or a single jelq....
debut i realized my morning wood has gone and i have suddenly become a deep sleeper....this happened when i recently started smoking again after 6 months and i have been drinking quite a but also ....but like 2-4 beers a day ..its kinda regular also....this has effected my sleep ..i mean made me a deep sleeper....
also i am kinda depressed with my life due to my size.....

what could be the cause ???

Depression alone can make you sleep more. Along with stress and bad habits. It is normal when the penis is fatigued from stretching to lose morning erections. If you take a day or two break they should come back if this is what you desire.

 

[ChilDsh]

Neither do i,DLD said its ok,he doesnt get a lot of morning woods either,so dont worry about it

 

[DLD]

guys for the past few weeks i have only been doing length work and not a single girth exercise or a single jelq....
but i realized my morning wood has gone and i have suddenly become a deep sleeper....this happened when i recently started smoking again after 6 months and i have been drinking quite a but also ....but like 2-4 beers a day ..its kinda regular also....this has effected my sleep ..i mean made me a deep sleeper....
also i am kinda depressed with my life due to my size.....

what could be the cause ???

Morning wood is in no way a mathematical constant of EQ, it is only something that happens to some men and not others. All men get wood throughout the night but for some it is just not in the morning. I can tell you straight off, limit the booze, this can cause many problems outside of PE. Drinking too much alcohol will effect your eq big time...ever hear of whiskey dick? Your depression is most likely due to the routine you have with drinking. Depression becomes worse with alcohol and it also can serious fuck with your sleep. I drink myself but it is very disciplined, one glass of red wine every evening, that it. I am a firm believer is moderation and discipline. I am not a believer in quoting anything, I would see a man be much stronger if he was able to control his drinking rather than quick all together. For some this may seem impossible but it really isn't it is a practice in discipline. Whenever I quit something and say to myself "I can never do that again" it brings a deeper desire to do it, a compulsion of sorts. But when I set limits I empower myself and this has spread through my entire life.

 

[pogzee]

so i think its overalll..........evrything is adding to not getting mornign wood....and not getting is also naturall
i should reduce drinking to once a weeek and quite smoking again...
as bacheelor said it can also be high tension with [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words] cuz i feel it is high tension

thanks guys

 

[DLD]

so i think its overalll..........evrything is adding to not getting mornign wood....and not getting is also naturall
i should reduce drinking to once a weeek and quite smoking again...
as bacheelor said it can also be high tension with [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words] cuz i feel it is high tension

thanks guys

Good to see our advice is helping you Brother.

 

[pogzee]

DLD i usedto wrap my penis with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ACE[/words] wrap at night ......but when i usedto get boner the wrap would kinda get bunched up at be or slowly start sliding off from base area......what should i do here???
and i tie the wrap very very losely

 

[Aimingforthetop]

Mate. Take a deep breath. Empty your mind and ask yourself this question out loud: "what is making me depressed?"
(Preferably under private circumstances as discussions with ones self usually ends up in visits to the asylum if done in the public.)

Mate you have been here for some time and i have read alot of the things you are writing. And you are smarter than this.

Now i don't know if it is attention. Or a clap on the shoulder or what the reason for this thread is.
And don't get offended by me saying it out loud. Im not trying to dis you.

But honestly. You don't need this. You know better mate.

Ask yourself what is wrong. And then just answer it.

And then deal with the problems.

Your a good man.

Don't let the society victimize you.

"No body wanna be a winner. Everybody just want to have something they can whine about... Preferably in a group. That is the peak of 2100 society" aimingforthetop

As they say. Only deucebags quotes themself.

But mate.

Be honest. Why?
You know you don't need this. When you think about it.

 

[pogzee]

Mate. Take a deep breath. Empty your mind and ask yourself this question out loud: "what is making me depressed?"
(Preferably under private circumstances as discussions with ones self usually ends up in visits to the asylum if done in the public.)

Mate you have been here for some time and i have read alot of the things you are writing. And you are smarter than this.

Now i don't know if it is attention. Or a clap on the shoulder or what the reason for this thread is.
And don't get offended by me saying it out loud. Im not trying to dis you.

But honestly. You don't need this. You know better mate.

Ask yourself what is wrong. And then just answer it.

And then deal with the problems.

Your a good man.

Don't let the society victimize you.

"No body wanna be a winner. Everybody just want to have something they can whine about... Preferably in a group. That is the peak of 2100 society" aimingforthetop

As they say. Only deucebags quotes themself.

But mate.

Be honest. Why?
You know you don't need this. When you think about it.

very inspiring words aimingforthetop...........it made me think of other things i should focus on aswell

 

[Aimingforthetop]

there is always an internal dialog going on in your head (for bill gates that is: "KILL THE Penguins!". sorry programmer joke)

but people get depressed because they don't stop and listen.

"But aiming! i make good money. i have a beautiful wife a lovely penthouse apartment. im in good shape health. why am i being sad?"

now the guy knows. he is gay. he hates the city and loves the country side. and he is into cub bear fetish. and his prefered meal is beef jerky.

but he will not listen to the voice. he is trying to silence it.

and so he gets depressed.

i got a good job and it is well payed.

but it is not my dream job. i wanna be an innovator.

now i also want to travel the world. which im doing with this job.
+ i get a lot of free time. which gives me the posibility to workout like a mad man (something that i love aswell)

so i am compromising with my self.

by doing what im doing i am making my dreams easier to conquer.

but never go the opposite direction of what you really wanna do. and NEVER let anyone tell you otherwise. this is what i see as the prime of your life. and what you should do. if you should cut contact with your parents so be it! (my opinion. easy to say in a free country etc.)

but ye. listen to yourself.

what is it saying:

be silent.

shhhhh

eeeeeeh

"what was that?"

eeeeeehhhhggg

"diud you hear that?

egggghiii

"be silent and hear it!"

eight inches


"ahhh i thought so "

 

[DLD]

there is always an internal dialog going on in your head (for bill gates that is: "KILL THE Penguins!". sorry programmer joke)

but people get depressed because they don't stop and listen.

"But aiming! i make good money. i have a beautiful wife a lovely penthouse apartment. im in good shape health. why am i being sad?"

now the guy knows. he is gay. he hates the city and loves the country side. and he is into cub bear fetish. and his prefered meal is beef jerky.

but he will not listen to the voice. he is trying to silence it.

and so he gets depressed.

i got a good job and it is well payed.

but it is not my dream job. i wanna be an innovator.

now i also want to travel the world. which im doing with this job.
+ i get a lot of free time. which gives me the posibility to workout like a mad man (something that i love aswell)

so i am compromising with my self.

by doing what im doing i am making my dreams easier to conquer.

but never go the opposite direction of what you really wanna do. and NEVER let anyone tell you otherwise. this is what i see as the prime of your life. and what you should do. if you should cut contact with your parents so be it! (my opinion. easy to say in a free country etc.)

but ye. listen to yourself.

what is it saying:

be silent.

shhhhh

eeeeeeh

"what was that?"

eeeeeehhhhggg

"diud you hear that?

egggghiii

"be silent and hear it!"

eight inches


"ahhh i thought so "

Excellent insight and I can relate on many levels. Getting to your dreams is something that is done piece by piece. If a dream were easy it would not be a dream And you are also right with the fact that we can be living in Heaven but feel like it's hell and for others they can be in the middle of hell but living in Heaven.

 

[pogzee]

there is always an internal dialog going on in your head (for bill gates that is: "KILL THE Penguins!". sorry programmer joke)

but people get depressed because they don't stop and listen.

"But aiming! i make good money. i have a beautiful wife a lovely penthouse apartment. im in good shape health. why am i being sad?"

now the guy knows. he is gay. he hates the city and loves the country side. and he is into cub bear fetish. and his prefered meal is beef jerky.

but he will not listen to the voice. he is trying to silence it.

and so he gets depressed.

i got a good job and it is well payed.

but it is not my dream job. i wanna be an innovator.

now i also want to travel the world. which im doing with this job.
+ i get a lot of free time. which gives me the posibility to workout like a mad man (something that i love aswell)

so i am compromising with my self.

by doing what im doing i am making my dreams easier to conquer.

but never go the opposite direction of what you really wanna do. and NEVER let anyone tell you otherwise. this is what i see as the prime of your life. and what you should do. if you should cut contact with your parents so be it! (my opinion. easy to say in a free country etc.)

but ye. listen to yourself.

what is it saying:

be silent.

shhhhh

eeeeeeh

"what was that?"

eeeeeehhhhggg

"diud you hear that?

egggghiii

"be silent and hear it!"

eight inches


"ahhh i thought so "

got it brother....
its about thinking positive ....whatver i think my life will be like that.....
its about fighting a problme or situtaion and not giving in...
so clearyl i will be 8 inches soon

and i think you should post one motivational line evreyday in a thread .....it helps many of us..or atleast me lol

 

[Aimingforthetop]

Thank you for the kind words mate.

The last thing i want you to think about.

And this is hard!

Every problem is an opportunity in disguise!

Problems is where the true value info is being held.

Ok lets build up a weird ass scenario.

Your playing wow.

And your lvl 29. And you just can't seem to defeat this boss.

No matter what you do.

So eventually you start to look through everything.

Your items. Your specc. Everything.

And eventually. It turns out... You are still using lvl 1 skills.

You have some of them at lvl 5 but you never changed them. So you are shooting small pew pew magics. With no dmg.

You change this. And not only can you defeat the boss. You also became alot better in general.

The problem became the solution.

My latest problem. (And this is real life)
I got a shoulder injury.

So started to look through ways to fix this.

It turns out my posterior chain was fucked my shoulders had a forward tilt (i thought that i had fixed that)

So im talking with all the people who is smarter than me on these subjects. And eventually i get in contact with this huge ass bodybuilder. Who gives me advise and goes through every exercise that im doing.

Now 1 and a half month later. My back looks like a fucking kite due to the v shape that i got. Turns out i have been doing something wrong in my pull downs for years and now fixing it. My posture looks great due to specific training of that matter. And 1 week ago i had to deliver a drug test as the local gym thought i was on roids.

So basicly my shoulder injury gave me steroid like results. Just swallow that for a moment.

Now could i have reacted otherwise? Ofcourse.

Every untrained person i met told me it was due to overtraining. I could have taken a 2 week breaks felt good about it told myself this was how it is. And that i couldn"t do anything And probably never moved through that plateau.

Telling people in the future that people beyond my level was natural freaks or on roids.

You see? Attitude towards resistance WILL differentiate between you being the king or a fucking loser (sorry for the bad english)

By accepting that you don't need to be perfect. And the fact that what is happening in your life right now is fucking interesting. Is what will change you.

And ye im saying this now with a secure job etc.

But i said the same thing when i was a newky starting guy who could barely cover ends meet.

The attitude towards life is key.

I have another one (im collecting quotes as they are good to keep you in the right state of mind)


Chris Rock on Helping YourselfMy Incredible Website

This is another thing. When your attitude towards problems seems like you are enjoying the challenge. People wanna help you! People will respect you. And yes losers will fear you call you names. And claim that your results come from unfair advantages. (My unfair advantage has always been that i know the right people. The reason for that is that i attract them as they attract me. A good boss will kill for a good worker. A good worker will kill for a good boss. Etc)

Just think about my role here.

I don't really have a position as such at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]mos[/words] im just a standard member. Yet people text me with questions etc. And actually they did that pretty much from the beginning. But look in my signature. Im giving my thx to dld and redzulu. No matter who talks with me. They will know that those 2 created me in the PE world.

By me turning into a PE expert. My teacher turns into a guru.

You should never take something and not give something back. If you keep the balance. Life will reward you.

If you only take.

Nothing will come your way.

 

[pogzee]

your full of positivity and inspiration aimingfortop ......and you put loads of me in it.....
clearly you are AIMING FOR THE TOP .....without even aiming for it.......

 

[DLD]

A lot of people say that my mind works like Game Theory (or Nash Theorem). I see the same line of thought in your post and the one before this. It is good to have someone that shares this methodology in the thought process.

 

[pogzee]

A lot of people say that my mind works like Game Theory (or Nash Theorem). I see the same line of thought in your post and the one before this. It is good to have someone that shares this methodology in the thought process.

that reminds of a few moves in chess ....lol

 

[DLD]

that reminds of a few moves in chess ....lol

Chess is all about planning many moves ahead of where you are. Game Theory works perfectly with this way of thinking. You want to estimate where your partner will be and have alternative plans if he does not. I found this quote which brings Nash Theory into the Chess process:

"The games of chess can't last forever because of certain rules, so its a finite game. It doesn't involve chance to decide the outcome, so its a deterministic game. Its obviously a sequential and non-cooperative game, and assuming you know the entire history of the game when you go to make your move, its also a game of perfect information.
So is there a best way to play chess? If the best strategies are used, every game will end up the same way. Therefore, one of these three statements is true:
1. Chess is a guaranteed win for white - there is nothing that black can do to stop this unless white makes a mistake (white goes first).
2. Chess is a guaranteed win for black - there's nothing that white can do to stop this, unless black makes a mistake.
3. Chess is a guaranteed draw - like tic-tac-toe; neither player ever wins unless someone makes a mistake.
It seems that there are more possible strategies for chess than there are sub-atomic particles in the universe. Perhaps one of those strategies is the perfect one, one that would never lose, one that would in fact win every single game...if a winning strategy exists. Just like tic-tac-toe, unless you screw up, every game ends up with the same result. Its humbling to realize that chess, for all of its complexity...is exactly the same."

 

[pogzee]

Chess is all about planning many moves ahead of where you are. Game Theory works perfectly with this way of thinking. You want to estimate where your partner will be and have alternative plans if he does not. I found this quote which brings Nash Theory into the Chess process:

"The games of chess can't last forever because of certain rules, so its a finite game. It doesn't involve chance to decide the outcome, so its a deterministic game. Its obviously a sequential and non-cooperative game, and assuming you know the entire history of the game when you go to make your move, its also a game of perfect information.
So is there a best way to play chess? If the best strategies are used, every game will end up the same way. Therefore, one of these three statements is true:
1. Chess is a guaranteed win for white - there is nothing that black can do to stop this unless white makes a mistake (white goes first).
2. Chess is a guaranteed win for black - there's nothing that white can do to stop this, unless black makes a mistake.
3. Chess is a guaranteed draw - like tic-tac-toe; neither player ever wins unless someone makes a mistake.
It seems that there are more possible strategies for chess than there are sub-atomic particles in the universe. Perhaps one of those strategies is the perfect one, one that would never lose, one that would in fact win every single game...if a winning strategy exists. Just like tic-tac-toe, unless you screw up, every game ends up with the same result. Its humbling to realize that chess, for all of its complexity...is exactly the same."

so chess is a game that someone can win if the other person makes a mistake....
unless a mistake is made ..both the players are at equilibrium.....correct ???? lol

 

[DLD]

so chess is a game that someone can win if the other person makes a mistake....
unless a mistake is made ..both the players are at equilibrium.....correct ???? lol

That is about the size of it

 

[pogzee]

That is about the size of it

lol
i was playing it yesterday and clearly the theory came to my mind and i realized i made a mistake somewhere.....lol

 

[GirthGains]

Chess is all about planning many moves ahead of where you are. Game Theory works perfectly with this way of thinking. You want to estimate where your partner will be and have alternative plans if he does not. I found this quote which brings Nash Theory into the Chess process:

"The games of chess can't last forever because of certain rules, so its a finite game. It doesn't involve chance to decide the outcome, so its a deterministic game. Its obviously a sequential and non-cooperative game, and assuming you know the entire history of the game when you go to make your move, its also a game of perfect information.
So is there a best way to play chess? If the best strategies are used, every game will end up the same way. Therefore, one of these three statements is true:
1. Chess is a guaranteed win for white - there is nothing that black can do to stop this unless white makes a mistake (white goes first).
2. Chess is a guaranteed win for black - there's nothing that white can do to stop this, unless black makes a mistake.
3. Chess is a guaranteed draw - like tic-tac-toe; neither player ever wins unless someone makes a mistake.
It seems that there are more possible strategies for chess than there are sub-atomic particles in the universe. Perhaps one of those strategies is the perfect one, one that would never lose, one that would in fact win every single game...if a winning strategy exists. Just like tic-tac-toe, unless you screw up, every game ends up with the same result. Its humbling to realize that chess, for all of its complexity...is exactly the same."

this chess theory or quote can relate to how good and bad are apart of our life. Where the white is the good in life positive(Yang) and the black is negative(Yin). You get to choose what move you make In life be it positive or negative. If you make a mistake you have made a negative move and attract negative. (Which is the black chess piece moving in to take you out). So do you wanna beat negativey or do you wanna stay negative. You have to make the right moves more often than not in life. Impossible to be all positive probably in life; but negaitive is in life and a positive move is a 100 times stronger than a negative move. So we have to learn to accept it and move forward to better things in life. I'm not sure if this is what you mean DLD but this is what stood out for me. Its a great quote.

 

[DLD]

this chess theory or quote can relate to how good and bad are apart of our life. Where the white is the good in life positive(Yang) and the black is negative(Yin). You get to choose what move you make In life be it positive or negative. If you make a mistake you have made a negative move and attract negative. (Which is the black chess piece moving in to take you out). So do you wanna beat negativey or do you wanna stay negative. You have to make the right moves more often than not in life. Impossible to be all positive probably in life; but negaitive is in life and a positive move is a 100 times stronger than a negative move. So we have to learn to accept it and move forward to better things in life. I'm not sure if this is what you mean DLD but this is what stood out for me. Its a great quote.

Definitely in line with my thinking. Nash Theory is a very complex economical theory that much of the bigger business world uses to further their growth in any one field. But, even though this is an economic model it still remains very relative to all parts of life. For instance, lets say you are in a bar and there are 10 men and 10 women. You are first observing this as an outsider, meaning you are not part of the count. Lets say this is a Friday night and the bar stars pretty much the same on Saturday. So as an observer you look at the patrons on Friday to see the hierarchy of what is happening. You notice the most beautiful woman there and you notice the best looking male there. From this point each person drops in value based on their looks. So number 2 will be slightly less attractive than 1 and it follows this order through all 10 men and 10 women. Making note of this hierarchy you go home and crunch these numbers. So Saturday night rolls around and you hit the same bar. Your goal in all this is to get with the number 1 women, beating out the 10 men that are there. You see that the number 1 female is getting attention from all 10 of the men. Now you know being the 11th man is not going to help much, there is already way to much demand for this female. Now you notice that the #2 woman is sitting next to the #1 woman and she is not happy because #1 is getting all the attention. Nash Theory comes into play at this point. Instead of going for the #1 female you go for the #2. Since you are close enough to #1 she is thinking, why is #2 getting all the attention from this guy, he should be giving me the attention. Something amazing happens here and #1 ignores all the other men to find a way to woo your attention. You start to talk to #1 now and all of a sudden you not only have number 1, but you also have numbers 2-10! So that night you leave with the woman of your choice. This is the best example of Game (Nash) Theory I can think of. This same thing happens in the business world on a different level but all the same it is relative.

 

[huge-girth]

Depression alone can make you sleep more. Along with stress and bad habits. It is normal when the penis is fatigued from stretching to lose morning erections. If you take a day or two break they should come back if this is what you desire.

This happens to be true.

 

[DLD]

This happens to be true.

No morning wood for me ever