Masturbation/Sex while training

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While I'm still exploring things within the forums this is one I haven't found a common consensus on....

When is the best time to have sex or masturbate?

Unfortunately my wife and I don't get to have sex as often as we'd like being on opposite shifts and I'm never going to say no when we have the opportunity.

For masturbation I know overdoing it is a bad thing and edging is a good thing. I have done some edging after jelqing which led to orgasm and figured that was fine.

However I was reading the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] stuff (I'd do it but can't afford the equipment) and it says morning sex/masturbate and then right into length work.

I'm sure there is going to be a lot of opinions on this and I'd love to hear them.
 
After you have an orgasm your penis will be in an instant state of fatigue allowing for the best stretching opportunity, as when the penis is tired it does not hold back when you stretch. If you have sex 3 times a week, for example, I would leave myself 12 hours of room between the two.
 
So masturbation in the morning before doing my stretching is fine but try to not have sex/masturbate 12 hours prior to jelqing?
 
Big Schwanz Acht;725592 said:
I combine my 'edging' while I'm engaged in coitus...two birds and the intensity is 'off-the-charts'
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I've done that before. What's even better is when your partner thinks they're torturing you by edging you along. Lay back, relax, and enjoy.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;725592 said:
I combine my 'edging' while I'm engaged in coitus...two birds and the intensity is 'off-the-charts'
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Smart Man
 
The best from of [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] training is vigorous sexual activity while maintaining a full erection. A fair second would be edging/Stop and Start type movements along with Erect Kegels. Frivolous masturbation is discouraged as it saps the libido and EQ.

For [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] training, a good rule of thumb is the 60 minute rule. If your sexual activity has you engaged in vigorous movements WITH a full erection for a total of 60 minutes or more per week, you can forgo the Stop and Start. For any time less than that, you should make it up in your training. If you're practicing kegeling for control during your sexual activity, you can estimate offsetting that from your routine as well. If you're doing less than this AND you're getting tired, it might me more than penile [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] that's the issue. Intense sexual activity can require a high degree of cardiovascular fitness. If you're lacking in that area, it's advisable that you make improvements so that it becomes less of an issue.
 
Big Al;725689 said:
The best from of [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] training is vigorous sexual activity while maintaining a full erection. A fair second would be edging/Stop and Start type movements along with Erect Kegels. Frivolous masturbation is discouraged as it saps the libido and EQ.

For [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] training, a good rule of thumb is the 60 minute rule. If your sexual activity has you engaged in vigorous movements WITH a full erection for a total of 60 minutes or more per week, you can forgo the Stop and Start. For any time less than that, you should make it up in your training. If you're practicing kegeling for control during your sexual activity, you can estimate offsetting that from your routine as well. If you're doing less than this AND you're getting tired, it might me more than penile [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] that's the issue. Intense sexual activity can require a high degree of cardiovascular fitness. If you're lacking in that area, it's advisable that you make improvements so that it becomes less of an issue.
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Agree!
 
Big Al;725689 said:
The best from of [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] training is vigorous sexual activity while maintaining a full erection. A fair second would be edging/Stop and Start type movements along with Erect Kegels. Frivolous masturbation is discouraged as it saps the libido and EQ.

For [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] training, a good rule of thumb is the 60 minute rule. If your sexual activity has you engaged in vigorous movements WITH a full erection for a total of 60 minutes or more per week, you can forgo the Stop and Start. For any time less than that, you should make it up in your training. If you're practicing kegeling for control during your sexual activity, you can estimate offsetting that from your routine as well. If you're doing less than this AND you're getting tired, it might me more than penile [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] that's the issue. Intense sexual activity can require a high degree of cardiovascular fitness. If you're lacking in that area, it's advisable that you make improvements so that it becomes less of an issue.
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Of course I'll always choose sex over masturbation (except with 1 woman I dated a long time ago who was so needy and clingy that I decided to masturbate on a few occasions instead of having sex with her) and like many other things in life you only get good at them when you do it.


After DLD gave his first reply I did decide to masturbate (with some edging) before doing my stretching routine. It actually went a lot smoother as I wasn't starting to get the occasional semi erection which prohibits me from stretching until it goes away. It usually only happens when I'm doing my warm up stretches (A, Y, C, and twists) but it is impossible to do those when semi erect. Now I know it's okay to masturbate if needed (and if sex isn't an option) prior to stretching.

Thanks guys! Much appreciated by everyone!
 
There is no better time to stretch the penis than after orgasm, it is in a state of complete fatigue and there is no muscular pull back that will limit the stretch.
 
Well sometimes it's in a state of fatigue. Half a lifetime ago I was able to orgasm and as long as I picked up the intensity of sex for about a minute I was able to stay erect. That was a lot of fun too. I didn't worry about holding out for my first orgasm, sometimes it was as short as 2 minutes, sometimes as long as 5. Since I was able to keep going immediately and for as long as I wanted after that she loved it (and neither of us complained about the mess it made).

I didn't do anything special to train myself for this. The second night we had sex I lasted a few minutes. She was joking around when she said "maybe if you just stay inside me and keep going you won't get soft." I was 19 and stupidly horny so I tried it. When my penis decided to cooperate it was a joyous moment.

I'd love to be able to do that again. One thing at a time with PE....
 
Keep in mind- you may still want to perform kegels if you're sexually active, and even if your EQ is sufficient for sexual activity you should still be regularly pushing the limits of your performance in order to keep your EQ increasing.

Once you reach very advanced levels of training (for enlargement), then even given the most extreme examples your level of EQ necessary for sexual proficiency is NOT going to be as high as for training purposes. There's only so much you can do during sexual contact- even given the most fit partners. For enlargement training maximizing EQ is a must if you wish to force constant, productive expansion.
 
cladre60;725773 said:
Of course I'll always choose sex over masturbation (except with 1 woman I dated a long time ago who was so needy and clingy that I decided to masturbate on a few occasions instead of having sex with her) and like many other things in life you only get good at them when you do it.
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If you really want to make a girl crazy, don't orgasm. It'll make her nuts! Every woman on the planet believes she has a 'magic vagina' because it can make a guy come every time. Give it a try on some girl and see what kind of reaction you get (caveat emptor...do not do this to someone you love or care deeply for)
 
big schwanz acht;725976 said:
if you really want to make a girl crazy, don't orgasm. It'll make her nuts! Every woman on the planet believes she has a 'magic vagina' because it can make a guy come every time. Give it a try on some girl and see what kind of reaction you get (caveat emptor...do not do this to someone you love or care deeply for)
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head games :)
 
doublelongdaddy;726003 said:
head games :)
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I've done this several times and played it off like, 'no worries, I don't need to have an orgasm to enjoy being with you'...that's all it took for them to up their 'game'.

Whenever I'm in a situation where it looks like the power/edge/advantage is against me, I try to turn the tables...seems to work more often than not.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;726120 said:
I've done this several times and played it off like, 'no worries, I don't need to have an orgasm to enjoy being with you'...that's all it took for them to up their 'game'.

Whenever I'm in a situation where it looks like the power/edge/advantage is against me, I try to turn the tables...seems to work more often than not.
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smart moves,The game of chess is like a sword fight you must think first before you move.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;725976 said:
If you really want to make a girl crazy, don't orgasm. It'll make her nuts! Every woman on the planet believes she has a 'magic vagina' because it can make a guy come every time. Give it a try on some girl and see what kind of reaction you get (caveat emptor...do not do this to someone you love or care deeply for)
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If I ever find myself single again I may have to try this.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;726120 said:
I've done this several times and played it off like, 'no worries, I don't need to have an orgasm to enjoy being with you'...that's all it took for them to up their 'game'.

Whenever I'm in a situation where it looks like the power/edge/advantage is against me, I try to turn the tables...seems to work more often than not.
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It really gets under their skin! There are such subtle ways to turn the tables and take power in a relationship.
 
doublelongdaddy;726147 said:
It really gets under their skin! There are such subtle ways to turn the tables and take power in a relationship.
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Only happened a few times in my life that I was so drunk I was able to stay erect but not orgasm. Didn't matter that we knew exactly why I couldn't cum, the women it's happened with were beside themselves as their insecurities took over all rational thought.

Although I'd love to get to the level of control that I could do it playfully. Plus the orgasm is always better when you're fighting with every fiber of your being to NOT cum and they overpower you.
 
cladre60;726182 said:
Only happened a few times in my life that I was so drunk I was able to stay erect but not orgasm. Didn't matter that we knew exactly why I couldn't cum, the women it's happened with were beside themselves as their insecurities took over all rational thought.

Although I'd love to get to the level of control that I could do it playfully. Plus the orgasm is always better when you're fighting with every fiber of your being to NOT cum and they overpower you.
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You will learn to last longer as time goes on. In PE many side effects are awesome, one being lasting longer.
 
doublelongdaddy;726368 said:
You will learn to last longer as time goes on. In PE many side effects are awesome, one being lasting longer.
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I've done kegel routines in the past and they always helped me with control. Then I'd get lazy and forget and it would all go away. I've been pretty good about it for the past month and a half. I drink too much coffee in the morning so when I get to work I switch to lots of water. If I haven't been doing any kegels all day all the water intake reminds me. I'll try to stop peeing every 2 seconds just to the point that it stops and then I'll let go. After every bathroom break at work I'm back to kegels as much as I can.

Personally I find it very beneficial to do that when I pee so I know exactly which muscles to use. Plus it's fun.


Some of the best orgasms I've ever had were those that I've been fighting as hard as possible to not cum. Smart women pick up on your kegels during sex and wage war edging you. Every time it's happened to me they do it as payback for the times I've edged them along and I've loved every second.

This time around with kegels I've started noticing that I have a bit more control over every orgasmic spurt and that its a little longer between each one. This hasn't happened any other time I've been in kegel routines and is quite interesting.
 
cladre60;726401 said:
I've done kegel routines in the past and they always helped me with control. Then I'd get lazy and forget and it would all go away. I've been pretty good about it for the past month and a half. I drink too much coffee in the morning so when I get to work I switch to lots of water. If I haven't been doing any kegels all day all the water intake reminds me. I'll try to stop peeing every 2 seconds just to the point that it stops and then I'll let go. After every bathroom break at work I'm back to kegels as much as I can.

Personally I find it very beneficial to do that when I pee so I know exactly which muscles to use. Plus it's fun.


Some of the best orgasms I've ever had were those that I've been fighting as hard as possible to not cum. Smart women pick up on your kegels during sex and wage war edging you. Every time it's happened to me they do it as payback for the times I've edged them along and I've loved every second.

This time around with kegels I've started noticing that I have a bit more control over every orgasmic spurt and that its a little longer between each one. This hasn't happened any other time I've been in kegel routines and is quite interesting.
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The Kegel and Reverse Kegel when practiced in the most personal way (since all men respond differently) will work best. In every case it is a combination and timing deal, Kegel and Reverse Kegel. How long to hold one and how much force you put into the other. Some men will find better control using the Kegel alone and the same goes for the Reverse Kegel, it will always be a combination of time and exercise (K or RK or combo).
 
I need to look into the reverse kegel. I want to SHOOT when I cum. I was shooting a bit better the last time I was doing kegels regularly. This time around I want masturbation sessions to require goggles. You know, just in case lol.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;726488 said:
It's risky playin' it safe, lol
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I don't wanna shoot my eye out! Lol

I've told some women how one time, and I still don't know how, I shot and it landed at the corner of my mouth. While it wasn't an amazing taste it wasn't repulsive. "If I didn't mind it you shouldn't either!"

Any woman I've told that to has happily swallowed.
 
cladre60;725548 said:
While I'm still exploring things within the forums this is one I haven't found a common consensus on....

When is the best time to have sex or masturbate?

Unfortunately my wife and I don't get to have sex as often as we'd like being on opposite shifts and I'm never going to say no when we have the opportunity.

For masturbation I know overdoing it is a bad thing and edging is a good thing. I have done some edging after jelqing which led to orgasm and figured that was fine.

However I was reading the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] stuff (I'd do it but can't afford the equipment) and it says morning sex/masturbate and then right into length work.

I'm sure there is going to be a lot of opinions on this and I'd love to hear them.
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For me, the best time to have sex or masturbate is night time. I feel way more horny at night and I get very loose balls sack too
 
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