Just starting, should I tell her? Please help.

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gottagainsome

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Hello everyone! I`ve suffered for my size all my life and finally decided to do something about it and start Penis Enlargement. The big problem for me right now is that I have met this unbelievable girl and I`m really having hard time thinking should I tell her about Penis Enlargement or not. The reason why it`s so hard is that I think it`s almost impossible to do Penis Enlargement consistently and keep it secret. You know the occasional blood bruices and everything. And then again the problem of being honest is that I don`t think women consider it too attractive to know that a guy is insecure about his size. I mean there was actually some article in this site about how much women care about size and some lady said that size is not that big of a deal but that it`s very unattractive if some guy sais hi`s insecure about his size. And I understand it. You know, the basic thing women want from a man is confidence. For example I`m very easygoing and funny and seem to be confident, and those are also things that this girl likes about me. But, I`m very insecure about my size, I`ve always been and I just can`t help it. So I`m so scared that if I tell that to her she`s image about me will change.

So, here I am thinking what to do. Should I tell her or not? And the options are basically these: A: I`ll tell her and take a risk that she thinks Penis Enlargement is really weird and considers it very unattractive that I`m not confident in bed. B: I don`t tell her and also I won`t start Penis Enlargement. In that case I somehow should accept my size which until this day has been impossible. And you know, I don`t quite consider it as a possibility to Penis Enlargement and keep it a secret, just feels impossible to execute succesfully. By the way, I`m around 5,5 inch nbel, a little over 6 bpel, and 4,5 eg<:(
And this girl, damn shes hot, you know, the prettiest girl at school-kind of girl. So that also makes me so insecure about this situation. I`ve even thought if I should say that I`m not ready to date her right now and then start Penis Enlargement and after a year or something after gaining, I would maybe contact her, but in reality that would be pretty insane thing to do.

So, I would be grateful of any advice. Do you guys have some experience about this kind of situation. How women react if you tell them you`re insecure about your size and do Penis Enlargement?

Ps. I wanna say that I really like the atmosphere about this helpful community. We all have the same goal and there`s no jealousy here. When I gain experience about Penis Enlargement I hope I can help the others in the future.
 
I wouldn't tell I'd wait for her to notice a difference. I'd only tell if it were my wife or if she noticed the difference that way she wouldn't think pe was a load of crap.
 
the fact that you would have to sneak around...limit your routine only when she is not around...you being insecure about your penis is probably one of the only things that you are insecure about..i found most women..have a laundry list of things that bothers them...don't forget what kind of issues society lay upon women...i don't believe all women will understand a guys need to do pe..i was lucky that the last to woman in my life that i told understood and didn't bother me about it..but its up to you..if you feel like you want to keep it to yourself and have to sneak..then that is what you should do..if you feel your girl is open minded enough to understand to put it out there...good luck
 
i dont think u should tell her....imean im insecure about me size 2..dats why i avoid..reli reli reli hot gyals around me area..haha..i go 4 da not 2 pretty but not 2 ugly girls...but i think its better 2 find tyme to wait to see if P.E WORks for u..so that when u tell her..she shouldnt think of it as a negative but a positive seeming that she can see the results first hand..........cant u do P.E at ur home...ur bedroom...in the shower..at night when every1 is asleep...?
 
I would tell her mate. I was going to keep it a secret but its too hard to find the time to sneak around.

I not beed doing pe long now but the other half said she can notice a difference already.

All i am doing is wet jelqs horse bites and edging, and every other day i use a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penis pump[/words] as well. (although id like to do stretching i dont have enough time to add this to my routine. If anyone knows of a good device touse inplace of this please let me know)

DEFOO 100% Tell her, :D

good luck with it
 
twins172_up;345329 said:
the fact that you would have to sneak around...limit your routine only when she is not around...you being insecure about your penis is probably one of the only things that you are insecure about..i found most women..have a laundry list of things that bothers them...don't forget what kind of issues society lay upon women...i don't believe all women will understand a guys need to do pe..i was lucky that the last to woman in my life that i told understood and didn't bother me about it..but its up to you..if you feel like you want to keep it to yourself and have to sneak..then that is what you should do..if you feel your girl is open minded enough to understand to put it out there...good luck
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Thanks fot the feedback. Maybe I could sneak around to some point but still, as Penis Enlargement requires a lot of dedication and consistency I just think it would be hard to execute it intensive enough keeping it secret. And as I mentioned, what about the occasional blood bruices, how could I explain them? Anyway, as I think this issue further, I realise that the question is not only whether I should tell her about Penis Enlargement or not, but also should I tell her that I`m insecure about my size, cos that`s something I think she could consider unattractive. Do you have an opinion on that? I mean of course, it depends on the girl, but still basically, does it make any sense to say these words to a beautiful lady: "Honey, I need to tell you something, I`m having some trouble accepting my size. I`m afraid it`s too small for you..??:( One option would maybe also be that I would tell her about Penis Enlargement, but not that I feel insecure, that I just wanna train my dick as I train my body. But considering my size, I guess there would be a significant chance that she would foresee I`m not confident about it either..
 
cockeye;345467 said:
I would tell her mate. I was going to keep it a secret but its too hard to find the time to sneak around.

I not beed doing pe long now but the other half said she can notice a difference already.

All i am doing is wet jelqs horse bites and edging, and every other day i use a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penis pump[/words] as well. (although id like to do stretching i dont have enough time to add this to my routine. If anyone knows of a good device touse inplace of this please let me know)

DEFOO 100&#37; Tell her, :D

good luck with it
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So do you mean you told your girl? How did she relate? As I mentioned above, one thing that confuses me is what women think when they know a man doesn`t like his size. I mean won`t it come to her mind everytime she touches it. I mean doesn`t it kill the electricity a little bit?

About stretching, don`t you do it at all? I mean at least you could stretch manually a little bit at every bathbreak as DLD has said. I do it also and sometimes for example when I watch tv or at computer. Then also when getting to bed. When you count these together, it`s pretty good amount of stretching every day. I have actually got something like 1/4 inch gain to my flaccid stretch lengt in six weeks :) and actually just starting to be really consistent. Then of course there are those [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extenders[/words] that you can wear almost anywhere if your pants are just loose enough.

Thank you all for your help. I know it`s my own problem what to do here but it really gives some perspective to hear different opinions. If you guys still have some views about this it would be very appreciated. Cheers and keep gaining :)
 
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Wait till you get to know her better then tell her. Once you have been going out for a month you will know what her reaction will be. I've told my past 2 girlfriends and they didn't mind.

Don't let your dick size get in the way of getting a relationship. Don't wait around til your dick gets bigger to ask her out. A lot can happen in a year...

If I waited til I was the size I wanted to ask a girl out, I would die alone since I will never be 14 inches long by 10 inches wide hahaha.
 
hey gottagainsome, welcome to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]! i also agree with the posts above. if you feel you need to tell her then tell her, if not then dont tell her. i personally think that you should only tell a female personal things like penis size or Penis Enlargement, when the relationship is really serious.....other than that its not her business. if you ever choose to tell her, and she doesnt understand you and decides to leave, then forget about her cause a female like that wouldnt be worth it. like someone on this forum has said before "a female is not worth it, if she measures love in inches". stick to Penis Enlargement and you will grow to your goal. good luck on your Penis Enlargement journey.
 
gottagainsome..do you feel that your penis size effect your self confidence? meaning do you they way you feel about your penis make you extra shy or not as outgoing as you think you would be if you were bigger..because if that is the case..then she can probably see a little insecurity in you already but doesn't know where it stems from..at this point you should know what kind of person she is if you are dealing with a person that would look down upon you if you shared something private or is she the understanding type..if you don't know then you need more time with her before you guys even think about really getting together

like said i told the last two girls i was with and even though they both didn't think i needed to do it..they understood...hopefully you are dealing with the same type of person...good luck
 
So do you mean you told your girl? How did she relate? As I mentioned above, one thing that confuses me is what women think when they know a man doesn`t like his size. I mean won`t it come to her mind everytime she touches it. I mean doesn`t it kill the electricity a little bit?

About stretching, don`t you do it at all? I mean at least you could stretch manually a little bit at every bathbreak as DLD has said. I do it also and sometimes for example when I watch tv or at computer. Then also when getting to bed. When you count these together, it`s pretty good amount of stretching every day. I have actually got something like 1/4 inch gain to my flaccid stretch lengt in six weeks and actually just starting to be really consistent. Then of course there are those [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extenders[/words] that you can wear almost anywhere if your pants are just loose enough.

Thank you all for your help. I know it`s my own problem what to do here but it really gives some perspective to hear different opinions. If you guys still have some views about this it would be very appreciated. Cheers and keep gaining
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With regards to the strectching , i dont do any at all. (Maybe i will at a later stage when i find some more time)

Now as for telling the other half, i have been with my partner 6 1/2 years. There hasnt been a problem about the size in the relationship. I along with most other men wanted an increase. i came across the methods on here and thought id give it ago. Explained it to her and she replied "give it a try if thats what you want but dont get bigger just for me as its fine as it is"

However after seeing her expression when we last slept together, she obviously liked the increase more than she made out ;) so i think she will be even more glad that im doing it.

She is actually taking an interest in it and making ti more fun, last night she actually used the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penis pump[/words] on me, she had fun lol

i do understand your point of view though about a woman liking confidence in a man.
 
She should know if your are increasing your size and improving your [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]penis health[/words]/stamina only she can benefit from that. Of course she will be caught off guard since see probably doesnt know other guys that do this. But after you tell her if she thinks its funny she is kind immature.

You can ease into telling first by just talking about sex than squeeze it in. At first she my take it as a joke but explain to her what you do if she becomes interested. Explain to her how you found out about it and how any guy would do the same.
 
I wouldn't tell if I were you. You need to know this girl better first. She could easily mess your life up, by telling about your Penis Enlargement'ing, if you broke up.

You can do Penis Enlargement without bad bruises, at least I haven't got any, from stretching and jelqing yet (just done them few times, so I can be wrong). Tell her when your relationship goes serious...or when you can't get this 1 hour privacy at least 5 days a week. I'm lucky with my wife, we can talk absolutely anything (and she always supports me, even if she won't even believe it, like in this case...BUT I WILL SHOW HER :O rofl )
 
I think that you have pretty much the same situation that I am in!

Do you have trouble buying condoms with your size? I'm like 4.4" Girth

I have just also met someone fanntastic..... but before we met she has had sex with two of my mates about a year ago... ahhhh!
 
If it's a serious relationship and you live together. Tell her, most females will think its nonsence because: "your size is fine". Don't put so much into these words, it might be what she thinks it might be because she is just polite. But make her understand that its for your own self esteem. Guys go to the gym to get big muscles, but we all know that a nerd with a 10incher gets more eyes in the locker room than a bodybuilder with a pecker. So what is the problem really? But do make sure that she is not gonna end up as one of those evil ex girlfriends, who will try to humiliate you. And if she does, make sure you have passed the barrier and has a huge cock by that time :)
 
Yo I say don't tell her unless yall are really close and open and accepting of eachother - but from what it sounds you just recently met her so yall aren't at that level yet.
I say don't tell her because Penis Enlargement is pretty intense and altough it is something most guys are cool sharing with one another, in my opionion, its something females wouldnt be and solely because they don't have dicks and they don't know what its like...MOS is a sanctuary but only because everyone on here has something in common and can relate to one another and we all have the same goal. But females lack all that so it would be tricky getting her to be cool with it (ecspecially if yall are new together) because she doesnt share what all of us on here do....
I say just try and fit a solid routine in your schedule and keep it private and just keep on trucking....BUT I definitely don't recommend delaying the relationship with this girl until you are satisfied with your gains because it could take a real long time before that happens and then you could lose her entirely before it does. And if she yall are together and yall fuck and she breaks up with you because she thinks you dick is too small then you don't need her anyway dude - If shes into you that won't happen
RighteousDick
 
Cult;346208 said:
I think that you have pretty much the same situation that I am in!

Do you have trouble buying condoms with your size? I'm like 4.4" Girth

I have just also met someone fanntastic..... but before we met she has had sex with two of my mates about a year ago... ahhhh!
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I`ve never actually had problems with those normal/regular sized condoms, even though I don`t consider my 4,5 girth too awesome. So you`ve had some problems? I wouldn`t think that 0,1 inch would make a difference in that..

Anyway, I`m also struggling with this situation to tell her or not, and I may not be the best person to give you advice before I`ve actually made the desicion. But as you can see there are many nice replays in this thread that you can also benefit from. One thing that is easy to say to other person is that don`t make your size too much a problem, although it might be hard to carry out like for me it is. Anyway, good luck with your Penis Enlargement project. There is much information to absorb here, take it to your advantage, believe in what you doing and you`ll be fine.
 
twins172_up;345565 said:
gottagainsome..do you feel that your penis size effect your self confidence? meaning do you they way you feel about your penis make you extra shy or not as outgoing as you think you would be if you were bigger..because if that is the case..then she can probably see a little insecurity in you already but doesn't know where it stems from..at this point you should know what kind of person she is if you are dealing with a person that would look down upon you if you shared something private or is she the understanding type..if you don't know then you need more time with her before you guys even think about really getting together

like said i told the last two girls i was with and even though they both didn't think i needed to do it..they understood...hopefully you are dealing with the same type of person...good luck
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Hmmm..I would say that my size does effect to my self confidence in a way that it makes me less happy. You know, I just have so hard time to accpet it that it downs me sometimes. BUT, I wouldn`t say it makes me more shy or less outgoing in normal life, or talking to girls, You know, as long as I know I don`t have to take my pants off I just kind of put it to the side and in a sense I can forget it. But then of course, when the moment comes, it makes me feel uncomfortable. To tell you the truth, it might paradoxically even make me more relaxed with girls, cos I`m actually not so eager to get them to my bed so theres`s nothing to feel tension for. Of course, that was a little agravated, I`m no virgin. But still, I hope you get my point.

Anyway, I understand the point everyone are saying, that if the girl really cares about me then my size doesn`t matter. But the scenario that really scares me is that what if I`m just not enough for her? You know, that she would feel sorry for me and being nice she wouldn`t even be able to say it to me. But in her heart she would just think that: "damn, I like that guy but he just can`t satisfy me". The reason I`m so insecure is that like I said earlier, she`s just so beautiful, and I know she has experience. And there is this claim I believe to some point, that the more atrractive a woman is, the more value she puts on the penis size. You know, she has room to choose, so probably she has had somee bigger guys also..

Damn, this might sound miserable but that`s just what`s going in my mind right now.
 
gottagainsome;346294 said:
Hmmm..I would say that my size does effect to my self confidence in a way that it makes me less happy. You know, I just have so hard time to accpet it that it downs me sometimes. BUT, I wouldn`t say it makes me more shy or less outgoing in normal life, or talking to girls, You know, as long as I know I don`t have to take my pants off I just kind of put it to the side and in a sense I can forget it. But then of course, when the moment comes, it makes me feel uncomfortable. To tell you the truth, it might paradoxically even make me more relaxed with girls, cos I`m actually not so eager to get them to my bed so theres`s nothing to feel tension for. Of course, that was a little agravated, I`m no virgin. But still, I hope you get my point.

Anyway, I understand the point everyone are saying, that if the girl really cares about me then my size doesn`t matter. But the scenario that really scares me is that what if I`m just not enough for her? You know, that she would feel sorry for me and being nice she wouldn`t even be able to say it to me. But in her heart she would just think that: "damn, I like that guy but he just can`t satisfy me". The reason I`m so insecure is that like I said earlier, she`s just so beautiful, and I know she has experience. And there is this claim I believe to some point, that the more atrractive a woman is, the more value she puts on the penis size. You know, she has room to choose, so probably she has had somee bigger guys also..

Damn, this might sound miserable but that`s just what`s going in my mind right now.
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That really sounds so familiar...even that talking to girls part. And you seem to share all my other thoughts too. The truth is, that there are girls, who really needs a big dick to get satisfied. I hasn't ran into one, but I know for a fact there are some. I'm sure you do better than fine with your girl, if you give her all you got (tenderness, caring). Don't hold back, make love to her, when she wants it, and talk about things (ask what she wantsyou to do, tell what you want her to do)...just not Penis Enlargement-stuff yet.
 
Id keep it secret and see when she noticed.

I think if you told her she is likely to be a little bit weirded out by the idea of a new bf pulling on his todger on a regular basis to try and make it bigger.

See if she notices really - If she does I would be inclined to lie and just say youre going throgh puberty again - just for the fun of it. You could majorly amuse yourself with this and she wont want to kill you if she does find out because its quite a personal/sensitve issue.
You said you think youre a funny guy - so use this to your strengths!

Then come clean when it becomes a bit more serious/long term.
 
Women pay thousand of dollars for boob jobs and no one has problems with it. my cable clamp and baby oil cost less than ten bucks I think my investment beats theirs by a landslide. If she had a problem with that bitch is stuck up. tell her the hour most guys are sitting on there ass not doing anything I learned a way to make my penis bigger so I use my time wisely rofl.
 
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