I asked a question earlier about how to gain girth in certain areas and that got me to thinking... How big is too big to get a good blowjob? I mean, my girth is not big by the standards on here (5.75+) but it seems that the girls I have been with just dont seem to do a good job on it. Maybe I should find different girls or maybe I should forget about adding girth. Any ideas...
Yes, indeed too much girth, ten mean no blow jobs. so consider your goals with that in mindMost girls don't like the idea of either getting a bad case of TMJ from a popped jaw (my wife did, and let's leave it at that) or destroyed throat with a bad case of hoarse voice for a week. Either one is not pleasant for girth larger than 5.5in circumference.
Yes, indeed too much girth, ten mean no blow jobs. so consider your goals with that in mind
I have no business with blow job, I never liked it. Blowjob should please go to hell.
My wife never could get her mouth open enough to really give me a good BJ at 8 x 6.5 She attempts and starts on me flaccid but by the time I would get hard, she couldn’t get much more than the head plus an inch or so then had to use her hand to stoke the shaft.
So when I started stretching and pumping regimens she loved the size increases for sex but not for having to give blow jobs. She said it broke her jaw.
Unfortunately I’ve recently had my prostate removed due to cancer and had a lot of reduction in length and girth. 6 x 5.5 and difficulty at times getting fully erect. Great now for blow jobs because she can get it in her mouth but I’ve been fighting to get my length and girth back thru using this site for recommendations of how to get back to where I used to be.
Sorry to hear about your cancer. I will pray for you and your wife. That's a tough thing to go through and takes a little bit of time to heal. So for now, take advantage of your size allowing blow jobs. Your attitude it's so positive i'm jealousMy wife never could get her mouth open enough to really give me a good BJ at 8 x 6.5 She attempts and starts on me flaccid but by the time I would get hard, she couldn’t get much more than the head plus an inch or so then had to use her hand to stoke the shaft.
So when I started stretching and pumping regimens she loved the size increases for sex but not for having to give blow jobs. She said it broke her jaw.
Unfortunately I’ve recently had my prostate removed due to cancer and had a lot of reduction in length and girth. 6 x 5.5 and difficulty at times getting fully erect. Great now for blow jobs because she can get it in her mouth but I’ve been fighting to get my length and girth back thru using this site for recommendations of how to get back to where I used to be.
My wife never could get her mouth open enough to really give me a good BJ at 8 x 6.5 She attempts and starts on me flaccid but by the time I would get hard, she couldn’t get much more than the head plus an inch or so then had to use her hand to stoke the shaft.
So when I started stretching and pumping regimens she loved the size increases for sex but not for having to give blow jobs. She said it broke her jaw.
Unfortunately I’ve recently had my prostate removed due to cancer and had a lot of reduction in length and girth. 6 x 5.5 and difficulty at times getting fully erect. Great now for blow jobs because she can get it in her mouth but I’ve been fighting to get my length and girth back thru using this site for recommendations of how to get back to where I used to be.
The thing is the doctors don’t tell you all of the side effects you will encounter after surgery before you have the surgery. Obviously they are more concerned with getting the cancer out of you than they are your self esteem and sexual confidence after the fact.Sorry to hear about your cancer. I will pray for you and your wife. That's a tough thing to go through and takes a little bit of time to heal. So for now, take advantage of your size allowing blow jobs. Your attitude it's so positive i'm jealous
The thing is the doctors don’t tell you all of the side effects you will encounter after surgery before you have the surgery. Obviously they are more concerned with getting the cancer out of you than they are your self esteem and sexual confidence after the fact.
One thing that they did tell me was after the surgery I would no longer be able to ejaculate. I’d still have the same sensation but nothing would come out. I didn’t realize how much that would affect me mentally. Sounds odd but that lack of sperm production has really affected my sexual confidence. Just hard to explain unless you’ve been thru it.
But the reduction in size has been the biggest issue. I have just naturally been on the larger side and have always enjoyed the fruits of that with my wife as well as other women prior. One thing they don’t talk to you about is the psychological effects it has on you losing your size and a feeling of being a lesser man than what you once were. I’m 19 months post op now and have just started to look into methods to get my size back again.
I apologize to all the guys down the line for throwing a wet blanket on this post that’s meant to be fun. I’m open to chat with anyone that thinks they can offer some real help with my size loss issues as well as anyone that might be on the pre op side of having prostate cancer and wanting to know more about what really happens to your body after surgery.