BBW or chubby?

swolejah said:
When it comes to personality I am VERY picky, but when it comes to body:

Breats: Doesn't matter to me.
Rear end: Doesn't matter either... but I prefer a smaller butt.
Body type: I actually find small girls the most attractive. That is, like no more than 5'3" and thin. I like the little ones in size.

But no matter what, as long as she is my wife and or girlfriend she will be perfect to me!
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We have like ideas on the breasts and butt. 5'3" and thin is a good size for sex for a guy like me, but I would want a girlfriend/wife to be at least 5'6", but that's just me.
 
I love big women. Big asses and tits make me instantly hard. Skinny women just don't do it for me. Anything over 160 lbs and I start to take an interest.
 
Lets be clear I think there is something wrong with men who find women who have the bodies of pre pubescent boys attractive. For me I find feminine attributes in a woman sexy these are a curvy figure with soft lines big tits and ass. I find masculine qualities in a woman i.e. lean, hard toned bodies in general a turn off. As I have got older though personality and attitude has become more important in what I find attractive in a woman, for example a woman who has that look that says that she is totally up her own arse is a total turn off for me no matter how pretty her face or good her body is. Anyway i think Sir Mixalot should have the last word on this one...... Baby Got Back.
 
I personally have been more attracted to the smaller girls. Something about short, petite women that I find hot, like the women in adult entertainment. Also, if they have a nice bubbly ass it's even better.

However, I am with a woman who is 5'8" and has a pretty toned body, so I'm happy. Height doesn't matter that much, although we do all have preferences.

My biggest concern is that girls be in shape. If they aren't somewhat skinny and toned it starts to turn me off.
 
Weird... explains why the tightest pussy I've ever felt was on a chick that seemed about 30 lbs OW -- I thought she did Kegels or something. A chick's weight/body/face dont matter at all to me... I just need her to be tight enough (that's REAAAL tight) and I can derive all the fun in the world from that. Such a shame nice tight pussy's becoming a rare commodity (thanks to sites like [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] rofl).
 
I love BBW but chubby is just disgusting to me. I don't like jelly rolls. But women with a wide frame and a lot of ass are my type.
 
Evidently I do. My X wife was 5'8 and weighed about 160 and my current wife outweighs me and I'm 205lbs. My current wife is a little large but she is working on that. I prefer women to be a little thick but not so much fat. I love a girl in about the size 10 to 14 range. But I take what I can get so fat it is I guess:blush:
 
I don't like thick girls that are just kinda wide cuz thats their structure and a lil bit of pudge on them but thats the 180 range I'd say and they aren't really short.
 
Well to me, weight does not matter at all, in fact I'd like a girl on the 'heavier' side of things, for instance:

My girlfriend is a dancer, is 5'9 and weighs about 135lbs, she is smoking hot, has toned legs, abs, arms, nice breasts etc

A friend of mine is a volleyball player, is 5'10 and weighs about 140lbs, again smoking hot, toned legs (less toned than my gf), nice breasts

Both are in no way fat, and actually look fairly skinny or 'average', but both are athletic and pack a bit of muscle (nothing gross though, mind you) and get hit on by guys all the time.

I myself like these two girls best in terms of beauty, but I have some 'smaller' friends who are pretty fine as well.

Again it comes down to how a girl carries herself, if she looks fat, then I'm turned off, if she looks hot, I'm turned on (regardless of weight, as long as it's carried well)

cheers
 
i can handle up to maybe 170, then if i really care aobut her i tell her to start workin out, usually she'llb e ok about that. because she knows that i probably wont touch her lol. have fun with the big women
 
TheFlame19 said:
Well to me, weight does not matter at all, in fact I'd like a girl on the 'heavier' side of things, for instance:

My girlfriend is a dancer, is 5'9 and weighs about 135lbs, she is smoking hot, has toned legs, abs, arms, nice breasts etc

A friend of mine is a volleyball player, is 5'10 and weighs about 140lbs, again smoking hot, toned legs (less toned than my gf), nice breasts

Both are in no way fat, and actually look fairly skinny or 'average', but both are athletic and pack a bit of muscle (nothing gross though, mind you) and get hit on by guys all the time.

I myself like these two girls best in terms of beauty, but I have some 'smaller' friends who are pretty fine as well.

Again it comes down to how a girl carries herself, if she looks fat, then I'm turned off, if she looks hot, I'm turned on (regardless of weight, as long as it's carried well)

cheers
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A girl that is 5'9" and weighs 135lbs in not a BBW nor is she overweight. Neither is one that is 5'10" and weighs 140lbs. I'm sure that they both look good...

A common ballpark target weight for a woman is easy to figure out based on their height. If she is 5'10" tall, you multiply 5 by 10 and add 100 so for a 5'10" chick she should weigh ~150lbs. A 5'2" girl should weigh 110lbs. I like to use these numbers as the high end of what i thing is attractive for a given height. A BBW is a chick that weighs 20-30lbs above her target weight.
 
sikdogg said:
A girl that is 5'9" and weighs 135lbs in not a BBW nor is she overweight. Neither is one that is 5'10" and weighs 140lbs. I'm sure that they both look good...

A common ballpark target weight for a woman is easy to figure out based on their height. If she is 5'10" tall, you multiply 5 by 10 and add 100 so for a 5'10" chick she should weigh ~150lbs. A 5'2" girl should weigh 110lbs. I like to use these numbers as the high end of what i thing is attractive for a given height. A BBW is a chick that weighs 20-30lbs above her target weight.
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Maybe you should post some pics to help clarify for him? Oh wait, Pandora already did it (to the horror of my eyes)! :O
 
sikdogg said:
A girl that is 5'9" and weighs 135lbs in not a BBW nor is she overweight. Neither is one that is 5'10" and weighs 140lbs. I'm sure that they both look good...

A common ballpark target weight for a woman is easy to figure out based on their height. If she is 5'10" tall, you multiply 5 by 10 and add 100 so for a 5'10" chick she should weigh ~150lbs. A 5'2" girl should weigh 110lbs. I like to use these numbers as the high end of what i thing is attractive for a given height. A BBW is a chick that weighs 20-30lbs above her target weight.
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Actually, to correct myself... a chubby chick is one that is about 20-30lbs above her target weight. A BBW is one that is more than 20-30lbs above her target weight.
 
man there are a lot of big women who look good,im not talking about the kind of big thats like a reeses pieces away from a heart attack.but big women are sexy too.
 
playa there is nothing wrong with big girls i like big girls but thats ussally a black guy prafance. because of all that ass they have if a girl is fat with a big booty i'am in love but if she is fat with a fat butt thats a no no
 
Mrs. Trick said:
One of the most respected scientists in the whole world has recently developed a theory according to which harmonious body fulfilled people are a lot happier than the thin ones.

James Watson is a genetics scientist, a Nobel Prize Laureate (one of the scientists who participated in discovering the spirally curved DNA structure). He strongly believes that women harmoniously fulfilled in their bodies, more vital and with some extra - weight have a sexual life more intense and a lot better than the thin women do.

Watson, who conducted successfully the human genome project, has oriented his interests in the controversial science of human image. He has recently stated, in a conference at London University College, that his research had already suggested that extra - weight and a harmonious body fulfillment have certain biological effect upon women's bodies.

They make them have a more malleable and harmonious character and it makes them more sexually - erotically endowed.
"Body thinness and weakness have never been associated with sexuality", says Watson, who is now 72. "Posh Spice and Calista Flochart (a TV star) can look very smiling in front of cameras", he says, "but yet, behind all this shining exterior there are, in fact, a couple of weak and unhappy souls."

His studies concerning body chemistry led him to the conclusion that, in women's case, extra - weight and a harmonious body fulfillment leads to increasing the number of endorphins. It generates a natural way of increasing somebody's disposition and even a considerable improvement of mood.

There is also an increasing of the number of sexual hormones that stimulate and amplify the sexual desire. On the other hand, on both thin men and women there is an opposite effect - the brain receives less endorphins.

Watson's theory is valid in this direction, for both men and women. His explanation is that, in the past, the human being had spent a lot of time from his life looking for food. The reward for a hard work was food and it led to a harmonious body fulfillment that determined extra - weight. That's why, if we are too thin, it seems that, unconsciously and constantly we are waiting for the next meal.

Watson draws the conclusion that "The thin man (or woman) is unhappy almost all the time. People who are very satisfied are those who are harmonious body fulfilled. That is one of the reasons that thin people get hired a lot more often. Because they are generally unhappy and they will work harder in consequence. The ones harmoniously developed are a lot more happy, affable, but they have less success in their carriers."

On the other hand, it looks like thin people are often led to act in need to find the happiness that they do not have. That is why thin people can obtain material success easier (but as compensation at an inferior level).

"Kate Moss (a famous model) is probably considered as the most famous person in the whole world, but yet she looks, at face and at body, as a very sad person. As a matter of fact, does anybody know a happy model?" Watson asks rhetorically. "Why would there be such a strong relation between those people and drugs? Yet I think that it is possible, in her case, not to be about a person with a very weak morality, but a person physically weak who wants to find happiness with the help of drugs."

Watson's interest in this domain is purely scientific. But he has reached to his last "obsession", how they call it as a joke. He found it as he was talking to a cab driver from New York who informed him of the existence of a scientist from Arizona who wanted to create a medicine and who injected himself a hormone that caused him an eight and a half hours of continuous erection.

That hormone was called MSH (the hipohizar melanotrop hormone), (the yogis know that the hypophysis is in strong connection with Ajna Chakra) and it is correlated with the sexual desire (lust) and with the sunlight. "The MSH is a hormone that made me yawn before finding about these things", says Watson.

But once he has got interested in it, he started searching very carefully about this hormone and thus he discovered that it (the MSH) was connected to another two chemical components of human body - endorphins (which provoke pleasure states and good mood) and leptine. It has been certified that the MSH is being influenced by the leptine and that it is in strong connection to lust.

"The more we are bodily fulfilled, the more leptine we have and thus the more MHS we can have ", says Watson. "My opinion is that our interior state is being controlled, in a large part, by endorphins. There is no doubt we have more endorphins as we are more bodily fulfilled. That is why, nobody has ever presented Santa Clause somewhat different than a fat man - because thin people are sometimes anemic and unhappy."

Because MSH is strongly influenced by the sunlight as well we might say that our mood depends on our NAKED exposure in the sun as well as on our being more fulfilled, more vital.

"People with intense sexual activity are vital, harmoniously bodily fulfilled people who expose completely NAKED in the sun", he says.

"I am looking at the couples harmoniously bodily fulfilled in a different light now," he also says. "On the contrary, when I see a couple of thin people I am pretty sure that they have problems."

That is why Watson recommends the women who are bodily fulfilled to find lovers of the same size (as far as vital and sexual energy are concerned) in order to have a happy and satisfying life. It is important for women to understand that they don't have to become fat but to fulfill harmonious their bodies. This is a preliminary condition in reaching the orgasm.
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Personally dont care about the numbers, as long as there is some sense of proportion. "Numbers" tend to function similarly to statistics in that they mean nothing without a good understanding of the context-- something which is rarely communicated well.

Things like where the meat is situated come into effect, height, body types and build, offsetting features like stupidly stunning eyes or something.

On the other side of the coin-- or perhaps the same side, depending on which coin we're talking about... frequently, when I'm out with mates I find them drooling over women who seem utterly repulsive to me. There seems to be a culture of only appreciating that which can be seen by the naked eye from space. I suppose in a twisted and depressing way its kind of funny really.

So that said, no, wouldn't touch the lady in the photo-- though I'm sure shes... lovely...

...in her own way.

But its easy really, being an artist I cockily pretend to have an eye for these sorts of things, but I think its true that there is a very obvious point at which things start seeming very very wrong. Generally I think its when people stop looking so much like people, and start looking like other things. When people stop looking real.

Lols...

though maybe thats just me.

(Meanwhile.. sorry if I resurrected this thread or something-- think I might have clicked on it in a search).

Cheers.
Ash.
 
Hell Yeah when I see girls all dolled up with tons of make up, fake tans, nails n shit, its a big turn off for me.

I think if you find some one attractive then who cares if they are whatever. You just gotta ask yourself why should you go in for the kill, is it cause you know you can get some? or cause just cause she is skinny?

Personally I think both are pretty shit reasons but to each his own.
 
Personally... i don't think fat is ever attractive regardles of how much they doll up with make-up, nails, and all the other stuff. Chunky is chunky and fat is fat and in both cases, it's a big turn-off for me.
 
Here's my wife, she's a bbw. Most guys put up a front because of society and the skinny skinny skinny bullshit. Give me a big girl and the rest of you can fuck the bones.

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THANK YOU SO MUCH.I hate how society makes it seem that women got to look like a damn stick.I love big women a little something to grab on do.

"WHEN I SLAP THAT ASS I WANT TO FEEL SOMETHING.NOT SWING AND MISS!!!!!!!" LOL
 
kfarrelldba said:
Here's my wife, she's a bbw. Most guys put up a front because of society and the skinny skinny skinny bullshit. Give me a big girl and the rest of you can fuck the bones.

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Your wife is hot man
 
You know, something else I've noticed. MOST fit men along with MOST fit women are usually attracted to fit people. MOST overweight people get with other overweight people. There's no denying it. Just some health advice for ya'll who like bigger women or are big yourselves...

ANY amount of extra fat, means that your heart has to work that much harder to pump blood through all those extra veins/capillaries that are supplying blood to the fat. This is the reason that being overweight is such a contributor to CVD (cardiovascular disease) and many other health issues. In case you didn't know, CVD is the second leading cause of death in adults over the age of 18 in America today, second only to Cancer (and that has only been since this year, CVD before was ALWAYS the #1 killer in America prior) with overweight being the #1 cause to CVD second is smoking. So for those of you who think that BBW or overweight women are attractive, it's like saying that you are attracted to a woman solely because she does drugs or some other unhealthy activity (same thing because the person is killing themself.) To me, fat/bbw are unattractive not only due to the fact that it's a disgusting sight, but also because it's EXTREMELY unhealthy, and to me, there is nothing more disgusting nor a bigger turn-off than a person who can't take care of themselves. (It's funny to know that America is the #1 country for obesity) look what we eat compared to the Japanese (who are the least obese of ALL countries, second least, I believe is Sweden).

It's true that the same goes for having more muscle (as far as the heart having to work harder is concerned) but the thing is that when you exercise and work out, you're also working out your heart through cardiovascular exercise which in turn makes your heart strong enough to be able to pump this extra blood through all that extra muscle tissue, so if you were wondering, working out and gaining muscle is NOT a contributor to CVD as being overweight IS.

Also, so you know, exercise and being in shape not only contribute to physical health, but they also play a part in all aspects of being completely healthy. Emotional health, psychological health, psychosocial health and spiritual health. Can you not agree that those "skinny, fit" women are not altogether happier than someone who is overweight and self-conscious?
 
I love big women! The bigger the better as long as they're good looking. There's nothing like a thick pair of thighs wrapped around you!
 
It really depends on how fat were talking about? I don't mind A cubby girl iF she's attractive and have nice tits and ass,but fat like her belly sticks out more than her tits do or she starts to take on the fat blob or circle shape then NO!
 
The ass can be as big as it wants and the tities can follow suit, as long as the fat is nowhere else than I am happy as fuck.
 
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