You're Too Short!

drew21 · Nov 2, 2006

10inchadvantage said:
After about 6'5" girls start finding guys in the "unattractive" height catagory. Too tall is not a good thing for girls.

Yeah, being a 6'7" guy I would say there is a range. Just like anything under 5'10" would be an unattractive height. Girls like to talk about how tall I am and compare themselves to me. Its an easy way to meet girls, but I think they get a little intimidated about dating someone so tall.

Painful Pleasur · Nov 4, 2006

bro i'm with you on that. i've had girls do the same thing to me. they love me and shit until they find out how tall i am. "you're too short" wtf does height have to do with anything? why does it matter? seriously when is that going to ever matter? are they going get theri midol stuck on a high shelf and need a man who is 6ft 3in to grab it for them? what the fuck! what is their problem? someone said it's because they dont want their kids to be short. what the fuck. when they tell you you're too short, tell them their tits are too big or something

TheFlame19 · Nov 6, 2006

I'm 5'9, so I'd say near average, but a bit below. I'm in quite good shape, and am fairly attractive and I get a fair amount of female attention

I'm going to give some pointers:

1 - Go to the gym - if you're really insecure about your height, just increase your 'sex appeal' in other areas of your body: ie - pe, and lift weights. This isn't vital, but will boost your own self-image which helps you in point #2

2 - Be confident - there are millions of women out there, so don't get bent out of shape if the majority don't like you, there are many fish in the sea

3 - Meet many women - something I've noticed is that when the amount of women that I know/meet is low, my confidence shrinks, my opportunity shrinks, and I am not as attractive (personality wise), however when there are many women that I am meeting/getting to know I become more confident, more humorous, friendly and outgoing, which makes me more attractive. Variety is the spice of life.

4 - Don't care so much - some tall girl won't date you because you're shorter then she is: you could flip it around and say that she is too tall, in the end if she's that shallow - she's not worth it. Same with short girls who are only looking for tall guys to date - to me a shallow girl is not worth the time or the effort.

longstretch · Nov 9, 2006

TheFlame19 said:
I'm 5'9, so I'd say near average, but a bit below. I'm in quite good shape, and am fairly attractive and I get a fair amount of female attention

I'm going to give some pointers:

1 - Go to the gym - if you're really insecure about your height, just increase your 'sex appeal' in other areas of your body: ie - pe, and lift weights. This isn't vital, but will boost your own self-image which helps you in point #2

2 - Be confident - there are millions of women out there, so don't get bent out of shape if the majority don't like you, there are many fish in the sea

3 - Meet many women - something I've noticed is that when the amount of women that I know/meet is low, my confidence shrinks, my opportunity shrinks, and I am not as attractive (personality wise), however when there are many women that I am meeting/getting to know I become more confident, more humorous, friendly and outgoing, which makes me more attractive. Variety is the spice of life.

4 - Don't care so much - some tall girl won't date you because you're shorter then she is: you could flip it around and say that she is too tall, in the end if she's that shallow - she's not worth it. Same with short girls who are only looking for tall guys to date - to me a shallow girl is not worth the time or the effort.

You my friend are a genius. I'm a fresHydromaxan in college. My major is nursing and at my college they group like majors together in the classes at an attempt to keep more students motivated and in college. In some classes I'm the only guy. I've noticed a big increase in my confidence. I'm usually an introvert but I've noticed that lately I tell more jokes and I am more talkative. I think any short guy should follow your advice b/c I'm 5'4 or 5'5 and I still have a lot of girls flirt with me.

10inchadvantage · Nov 9, 2006

longstretch said:
You my friend are a genius. I'm a fresHydromaxan in college. My major is nursing and at my college they group like majors together in the classes at an attempt to keep more students motivated and in college. In some classes I'm the only guy. I've noticed a big increase in my confidence. I'm usually an introvert but I've noticed that lately I tell more jokes and I am more talkative. I think any short guy should follow your advice b/c I'm 5'4 or 5'5 and I still have a lot of girls flirt with me.

Those are some great odds, man. Just be glad you're not in engineering!

TheFlame19 · Dec 8, 2006

Haha,

Thanks for agreeing with me man. When I walk through the nursing faculty at my university it is crazy how many girls look my way, it's just because the odds there are so good. This strongly agrees with my point that meeting many women helps you 'do better'.

aeroth · Dec 9, 2006

Well I see the problem because when I was in high school/middle school I was the 2nd shortest guy in my class (yes luckily there was another guy shorter) but at the same time I guess it's because I didn't care or maybe cause we were so young it didn't matter about height, but I dated WAY more during this time of my life.

Now I'm about 6'2" and I do have a serious relationship but it's the first I've had in at least 6 years. I think height isn't as big of a deal girls can sense it's a sore spot for you and it kills your confidence. If you can shake it off with humor do so...if a girl says "oh your to short" just tell her she doesn't have to lay down for you to please her orally....and hell if she tries to slap you she'll probably swing to high so you're golden.

All jesting aside though just try to be happy with who you are and whatever girl sees that and wants to be a part of that happiness will be better than any "model" 5'10" girl in the world...

Long Duck Dong · Sep 18, 2007

Theres a difference between what women say they want. Then, what they react to!!!

alwaystrying · Sep 18, 2007

Yep, I'd say most women say ideal height of a guy is 5'11" to 6'2" which is a very thin spectrum considering all of the other height possibilities. I'm 5'9" so I fall out of that spectrum, but hey, fuck it. Don't ever let a woman get you down. Seriously. I know it's natural to have some concern, but life is good no matter what as long as you are you. I know I know this won't get you to be the stud of the earth, but believe me true happiness is within, everyone's got issues. Take one of my best friends, 6'1", built, good lookin dude. We've shared many chicks and he's got somewhat of a small wang, and he's even told me he's got issues about it cuz all the women expect him to be packin serious heat, and he's not. I'd venture to guess he's 5 or maybe 6 inches long and thin, prob below 5" in girth, and here I am, wishhing I was 3 inches taller but bigger in the pants. That's life. Just remember life is a gift, be grateful. Keep pushin.

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