You're Too Short!

Wow where do you live that girls like tall guys? Maybe you could send a few of them my way.

Hey Mr. Pump...Don't know whether this will be any help, but I'll throw my 2 cents in. Maybe you might want to take a look at what KIND of woman you've been pursuing, not just appearance-wise, but attitude-wise. I'm not a short guy (I'm 6' tall) but five years ago I broke my back in a couple of places and gained an assload of weight. But I kept, and even improved, my attitude and sense of humor. My wife and I had broken up a few years before that and I'd done a fair amount of dating, and believe me; I sure as hell ran into more than my fair share of nutballs. But I also ran into much more than my fair share of gorgeous women. Here I was, turning 40, getting a little grey around the edges, broke back and gettiin' fat as fuck. And I still met ( and loved ) lots of damn good lookin women. How? Attitude...and volume. Gotta keep the 'tude going and you just gotta keep your meeting and dating volume high and, (and this might be the most important part) you've got to be extremely willing to say goodbye. Talk to every pretty gal you come across and if the chemistry ain't there...move along. And don't be impatient and never, ever appear even close to "needy" the more confidence you exude (not conceit) the more the gals will find you attractive. Believe me, if I, a close cousin to Sasquatch, can actually have my choice of companions then anybody can. Don't look for a woman you might make fit you, look for the woman who already does fit you and then grow from there. She's out there ya just gotta find her. Good luck!

very good post maxameyes. unless you like dating girls who are dumb as rocks, most will find personality just, if not more, importatnt than looks.

yes wouldnt we all like to think that way but very untrue ....each day that goes by the world becomes more obsessed with looks then personality or other features not related to looks..? If you venture back a little in history you can see that this was true never or barely was you with someone cause they were handsomely good lood lookin or amazing beautifully alone... most of the time it was for financial reasons or ties to other people in the business world or rarely they were forces to be with that person by their parents... but i see more and more that people are becoming even more focused on looks then anything another human being can offer... We are wanting more and more perfection in the other gender by what these magazine and tv and etc. feed us that is normal... and not to mention the obesity rate is at a historic high that just makes things worse... so what im tryna say it would great to say " Yea well she should like you for who you and not what look like or anythin other than that " but drasticly not the case in this time ( most of the time , there are some people out there that feel that personality is the key to another persons happiness , but tht number dwindles rapidly as time goes by ) as i was saying it would be great to be judge or personality alone but sadly thats not the case for the majority of people living in this time

thanks if this helped you out at all

Not untrue, not untrue at all. My personal experience is complete refutation of that premise. And I'm hardly a Pierce Brosnan look-alike! Let me refresh the point I was trying to make and that the king actually reinforces: Physical beauty is a strong attractant, yes. Physical compatibility is a strong motivation for continuing or deepening a primarily physical relationship, yes. Physicality is a viable replacement for intellectual, mental, emotional, spiritual compatibility, no. Perhaps someone searching for primarily physical attributes in a partner meets others who are also searching for primarily physical attributes in a partner. And if neither can consider a human being as something more than their surface appearance then this leaves little or no room for true growth. Each and every one of us has something to offer. Just what you might have to offer, in what type of quality, and in what kinds of quantities might have a lot to say about the type of people in general and women in particular you might meet. Cultivate the traits in yourself that you'd like to admire in your partner. Engage in the types of activities you'd like to share with your love. Become the kind of person that a woman like that would be attracted to. This is where the "VOLUME" part comes in. Meet, greet, invite, tease, please, dump, pursue, screw as many women as you can and you will find one with whom you will fit perfectly. Like everything else in life worth achieving it takes time, it takes effort, it takes patience and strangely; it takes a certain amount of detacHydromaxent. The less you focus on some uncertain and undefined future event and the more you focus on the here and now, the more you work to attain self-growth and improvement and the better you answer the question of what you have to offer in relation to what you expect from a woman the better and more focused and more surprising results you'll ultimately enjoy. I didn't believe either...till it happened to me.

yes i disagree whole heartedly that its fucked up that this perception that people use these days to base on who they will and wont have relations with of the opposite sex... I was trying to say that as time goes on I believe it will only get worse as a whole not the select few

People are fighting hundred of thousands of years of evolution here; women prefer the tall guys that are strong providers and men prefer curvy women that could produce kids.
I am 5'8 and fairly stocky, muscular build and yet, there is not a day that goes by that I wish that I was taller. I am goodlooking too. I just look at the other guya that are taller and most of them are not combly looking at all. There are a few exceptions out there, tall, buff, goodlooking guys; at least I meet 2 out of the 3 qualities. Most tall guys only meet 1 out of the three. Just be thankful you have your health and no type of handicap. Also, a fat wallet lined with a lot of green will make you feel like 7ft.

I have an uncle who is 5ft 6.He is so full of life, and his energy is tremendous.He has so much charisma,drive,confidence, and a winning positive attitude!He is truly a delight to be around!So when I see him on occasion, I don't see a man at 5ft 6, I see a giant of a man.It's all what you have within you, and the way you look at life.You can feel cheated with your height, or you can develop what's inside you, and become a beacon of inspiration for all that come into contact with you!We all have the ability to become the giant!!!!!!!!!!!!

If a woman will not date you because you're not her 'ideal' height, then the bitch isn't worth it. All of the women I have dated have wanted me to be taller(I'm 5'8"), except two. The only two worth dating I might add. The rest were stuck up, self centered hoes.

I guess we men need to realize 95% of these bitches out here are not worth it. Find one in the 5% that is.

I'm also 5'6"....

There excersizes to make your muscles bigger, penis bigger... but is there for your height?????! Doubt it....

Im probably not the best one to be giving any kind of insite on this situation, Im 6' but if it makes you feel any better Im the 3rd shortest of my group of friends which includes roughly 12 guys.
the next two following are 5'10 and 5'9
My grand parents are both 4'10", my families Italian (as are all of my friends) and its not really normal to grow tall
my sister is 4'11"

from my experience I can tell you this, women like what they like, theres no magical thing you can do to change your height or overall looks etc. I think instead of trying to adapt to women that what a certain look, you should just date around until you find women that want your look. Women are nothing special they are just women, why should you change to suit them? They arent God or any higher being, so who are they to say they prefer you a certain way...

Your best bet is to find what your good features are, the most talked about ones from the girls, and expose them. Sooner or later you will find someone that isnt shallow, and will be attracted to you for what you offer and not longing for what you dont have. My shorter friend mentioned above is a great dancer, he dances with tons of girls at clubs etc... Hes a good looking guy, but hes fairly shy as english is his second language with Italian being first, I think his shyness lies in his insecurity to his height, however when dancing is involved he rules the floor and that insecurity is out the window..

My girlfriends best friend is 4"10 and her boyfriend is like 6'2" do you have any idea how rediculous they look together?
I think the reason girls want taller guys is because they are insecure.
Anyways

Good luck with anything you really choose to do, but just remember you cant change who you are and why would you want to?

I've been outta the dating game for a long time, because I am married. But let me tell ya like MAXAMEYES says it's all about volume and attitude. looks have little to do with it. heck I wouldn't say I'm ugly as sin or 10 on any scale but somewhere in the middle. I mean nobody wants a mut that they may roll over to and want to smack themselves and think *what on earth was I thinking*. Yet at the same time everyone one of us like certain kinds of women. some like tall some like short, believe it not some don't like the super attractive because they say the lack "quality and attitude" they are looking for. Being 6'2" I have seldom heard anything about height towards me, but none of my friends seem to have an issue with it. and one of my good friends is all of 5'4" and has never had a issue with the ladies.

oh yeah and short chicks love tall guys because they say it makes them feel more secure/safe.

my advice here would be simple go meet them in person and not this whole online thing. In person they get to actually grasp you for you in person. And we all know women suck at estimating size, I'd bet height would be in the same realm.

I can´t help you regarding the height, but trying another deodorant might help. Most women I met don´t really like the musk-ox smell of AXE. It´s more a mens thing. Really.

Hi Mr Pump,

I am an Asian guy who is 5'3" tall and I also get a lot of crap from women in the big cities. I find that it is not something wrong with me but something wrong with THEM!! I travel a lot and never seen women as bitchy as the ones in New York City who want it all- 6' tall, muscular, wealthy, Caucasian men (yes, they all want the Caucasian men even the black, Latina, or Asian women). I am able to date a foreign woman in another country or another state and hit it off with her within a week of being there but I couldn't get a date here in this dumpster of a city I live in (unless they are tourists).
In fact, there are more divorces in big cities than in the smaller towns which shows they can't even get along with their "dream guy"- the tall, wealthy guy they hooked up with! The same girl that rejected me and tried to hook me up with her elephant friend got divorced a year later. I of course was not interested in her friend so I never called her for a second meeting. (Not necessarily a date because it is just an introduction from her snobby friend).
As a matter of fact, i use ALL my vacation time to travel and I am never home. I also would say i date 3 times a year because I only have 3 vacation weeks. I also try to go out on weekends and I am by no means a wallflower and I can dance but I get booed from the dancefloor because I am hated here for my race and height where I get applauded in other places.
By the way, what city do you live in? I think it is the women in that city that have gone buggers. There are more accepting women out in the world, you just have to travel to meet them.

darkseid

Girthius said:

I have an uncle who is 5ft 6.He is so full of life, and his energy is tremendous.He has so much charisma,drive,confidence, and a winning positive attitude!He is truly a delight to be around!So when I see him on occasion, I don't see a man at 5ft 6, I see a giant of a man.It's all what you have within you, and the way you look at life.You can feel cheated with your height, or you can develop what's inside you, and become a beacon of inspiration for all that come into contact with you!We all have the ability to become the giant!!!!!!!!!!!!

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This is relevant to my situation. I am (like a lot of you) 5ft 6in and when I was moving and shaking (many years ago), I was only 132 lbs soaking wet. The woman with whom I fell in love and married is 5ft 2in and weighed slilghtly less than me (packed it in the right places). Long story short, she admitted that her original attraction to me was a subconcious preference to men similar to the stature of her father. In other words, this was simply a natural attraction, not a peer-related one. So, maybe you just haven't run across this type of lady yet. I wish you this.

I have since asked her about whether she would like a tall or muscle-bound man, but she says that there is no attration on either score. So I asked about her preference for the hang of a man. She said (if you can believe this) that she had no such thoughts or cared how hung a guy was. She did admit, however, that once we made love that my being hung was an unexpected benefit. So, you see how dishonest they are on that topic? I wonder if that sealed the deal?

People are saying that women are attracted to taller men because they make them feel secure...
Now, you can't change your height, but what if you get friggen ripped (6 pack and everything) I mean, not freakishly ripped... lol.

Shouldn't that increase your odds (and eliminate the security excuse)?

I knew a boxer who was noticably shorter than me (im 5'10") and just by looking at him I knew he could beat the living sh*t out of me.

Actually, while I was in Spain this summer, I knew this girl (like almost my height) that had sex with a guy that was pretty short (5'6-7" or less). So this means she was taller than him. And she was a stocky build, too.

The facts:
he was black
he was ripped (not freakishly, more like moderate rippage lol)
(and he probly had a big penis lol)

Come to your own conclusions.

bah! you think you've got problems! im 5 10 and my gf is taller than me... it makes me feel like she might like me more if i was taller...<

well..there is a way to get taller!!!!!!!google it!there are some pills and strech exercises and devices!!!!!everything can be changed in life!!!but i believe its time to accept ourselves!!!find the way to attract women!its 80% appeariance and 20 % the style and behaviour ..i know....but you can try it harder!you got nothing to loose!dont stop pe!see this as an advantage!you are short yes i agree!!but ...if you are 5' 6" and have 8.5 " inch cock..imagine how it looks to the girls!!!take care of your diet and go to a gym!!!once you have nice body and 8.5" you could be able to have the "air" to meet beautiful girl!just be cool and dont show your insecurities!!!instead...try to bring out and mention their insecurities!!!:D

After about 6'5" girls start finding guys in the "unattractive" height catagory. Too tall is not a good thing for girls.