You're Too Short!

Ok this sucks. I'm 29 and most of my life I've been called HOT!!, Gorgeous, Really Cute, blah blah.

Well I'm 5'6 so I'm short. It's so hard to get a woman that's not grossly overweight, very depressive/insecure, attractive. Those small skinny girls with the nice little curves, even the just decent looking ones all want TALL GUYS.

So on the net chicks dig my pictures. I look buff, tan, sort of bad boy'ish and have a knack to strike up conversation. They really love me online until they ask how tall I am. Oh damn! All of the sudden all of that "you're so cute, you have a wonderful personality, you seem like a girls dream" all goes down the tubes. The better looking they are the more they want taller guys. And I'm not just talking "taller than me", I'm talking "taller than me in heels and then some".

So these petite minature women shouldn't mind a guy who's 4-6" taller right? Oh please, I'm not 6'? What a crime! They can't smell my armpits while standing next to me. If they could, well I'm wearing AXE deodorant so they might rape me. Unfortunately in their heels they are closer to my level. No AXE raping for me.

"but I just like tall guys" "tall guys make me feel petite" "tall guys make me feel safe" "tall guys are like teddy bears" "I like to look up at my man" "I don't know why I like tall guys but I do!" ... you know what that sounds like to me, a 16 yr old talking. Come on!

Now we're blasted with all these "research findings" all over major news stations .... 'tall guys make more money' 'tall guys are more likely to marry and have kids' 'tall guys dominate the dating sector' 'tall guys seen as more attractive' 'women don't look down their noses at short men'.

It really sucks, it's so hard to get a decent looking woman. I am on Myspace looking for local girls. It's funny that I've had 200+ page views and hardly any response. I'll email girls and tell them I'm new here and looking for friends and stuff and I rarily get anything back. One chick even told me to have better success I should remove my height out of the profile. Wtf!

I've completely dropped off penis enlargement simply because I'm just tired of being with girls that I'm not even attracted to. I get the leftovers, the ones guys call fat, crazy, or have all kinds of kids with different dads, or are lazy and broke, or can't get a date themselves. I seriously haven't dated anyone I was really attracted to in years. I just get desperate because I'm shot down by anyone I'm remotely attracted to. And no I don't go after only model looking women.

Any short dudes out there having the same issues? If you're tall, be happy about yourself because you have a unique quality that is attractive in itself.

Try getting out in the real world to meet women,height never stopped me getting the type of women i go for,i'm only 5'8,i no plenty of short blokes who are very successful with picking up women they are confident and good patter merchants.

Thanks for responding. Ok Myspace was just an example. I do get out... in fact I'm pretty outgoing and social and go to the bars, clubs, malls, etc. I have lots of friends and I'm not shy and not a loud mouth. I talk to women, flirt with women just like any other guy. So it's not like I'm some hermit sitting around on the net trying to meet women. That's just one avenue.

yeah im 5' 5" and dont have much experience but if your a fairly decent looking dude you should be able to get a decent girl alot of girls will like you even if you are short they just wont admit it because its not 'Socially Acceptable' and if you have alot of confidence and hold your head up high you appear taller because of your confidence.

The few girls ive had experience with were about 2-3" taller than me and they didnt mind my height these girls were both the shy types though but once you got to know them they would open up and turn out be great chics. So you can maybe go for the shyer ones im not saying that their more likely to not care but this has been my experience.

I really like the look of short chics though i dont really like the tall ones unless their really hot and have a great personality if i could find a chic that was 4' 11" id be in heaven i just love the shorties.

Its sucks though when you think about it 4-5" isnt really that much is it.

I get the "you're really hot, you'd be perfect if you was 5'10+!". I mean I'm really cut, very little body fat so I'm not overweight. I'm not going to say if I'm hot or not, alot of girls say I am but that's where it stays.

I've dated taller girls but they were really insecure and overweight. I've actually never dated a petite girl. They've always shot me down. Like i said I get stuck with the friend that she knows isn't all that attractive. They'll say oh you two would make a good couple! What the hell ever.

Yes I'd like to date shoerter girls too. Here's the problem ... girls are getting taller! As they get taller they want taller guys. And the shorties want taller guys so they'll fit in. It's a mess

The BTC Killer is 5' 4" and I have been very selective and only bedded women that belong in penthouse magazine, and a few playboy magazine spreads. I'm not sure if height is a real issue for many women over the age of a rational maturation. I use my good looks and wit, and every woman, that's EVERY woman I have pursued, I have had full success. My friend who is only 5' 2" has had sex with over 50 hotties, and several meaningful relationships. Besides, an 8"x6" penis looks very impressive on gentlemen of our stature.

I'm only 5'5'' and I've dated many hot women. A lot of the women were ever taller than me. For example I've dated a woman that was 6'. I think it has to do with confidence and the way you present yourself. Just keep searching you will find a good one. Don't let it get you down.

hey mr pump.
I'm 6" so im in no postition to tell you how things are with reguard to your height.
I am however 22yo and im going bald.
I shave my head because of it but i actually prefer how i look with a shaved head now.
When i first noticed i was loosing my hair, i was very distraught to say the least. I saw a physchologist (spelling) and that fixed my problem. She basically made me realise that I need to look at my good points and not let one sili little problem get me down. IF someone has a problem with your hair or height or penis etc, dont associate with them, find other people that are bigger than that (no pun intended ;p)
I broke up with my gf because she demanded i dont shave my head, it was my hair or her she said. If she wansnt comfortable with something that i feel so strongly about then she can hit the highway, i want nothing to do with someone like that.

It seems that your down because your getting all of the fat/ugly etc girls, when you think that your better than that.
Perhaps you should just forget about your height and find someone that loves you for you and that you love them for them.
It seems that because your down in the dumps your in a very negative frame of mind. Look at tom cruise. I think hes about 5"7 or 5"8, hes a huge hollywood star, look at the list of names that hes been with.
You will find the girl your after my friend, and she will make you very happy for who YOU are.

Good post Mr. Pump. I am really self-conscience about my height.Being only 5'3'' almost every girl I'm with is taller than me. That's why I really despise going out, or hanging out in social situations. I guess that's most of the reason why I'm into pe.

look I'm in da same club I'm 5'7-8' and I have never had any Problems with girls that are eye level or smaller. But i got a friend whos about 5'0ish and he's having "problems finding a girl" i got quite a few female friends and they tell me " Oh he's to small, i want a guy who's at least same size as me". and that realy sucks.... (but I think it's his fault in some way, and I'm gonna tell ya why later down.)
My advice would be, try and find a girl that's same size or smaller ( I think their much more sexy when their smaller then me "

And belive me, things always look bigger when you look up. So if You're good at talking, go to myplace or what wherever, take you're size out of you're profile and only talk to girls that are under the 5'5 range.
The first Impresion is always the most important. If you get into a good chat with a girl who is smaller then you on the net, it's quite unlikely she'll say no to you after she notices that she likes you and you tell her that you are bigger then her.

Another important thing is, when you go out with you're mates. Take good care that you arn't the smallest in the group! The first impresion "mostly just the first look" is very important. And you just look smaller if all the guys with you are half a head bigger than you! I have noticed that Girls just naturaly turn off the smallest guy in the group. If I go out with my mates, and I am the smallest in the group, I have a realy fucking hard time up to no chance to meet a decent girl while standing with them.
But If I go alone or with other mates that are the same size as me, or the best time is when I am one of the biggest, then I nearly never have a Problem to get a girl.
I don't know why it's like that, I guess it's just plain instinct in the girls and a kind of natural davinism ( the best survive )

But this is kinda of plain and normal in Life. It's always the choice of the best pick! You can watch it everywhere. If You as a normal good looking bloke go to the clubs with 4 same size other blocks that go to the gym and have a nice body, who do you guess will be picked last? Same in school, even if the chubby kid is better at a sport then 3 - 4 other thin guys of his class, who is going to be picked last?

Anyway, sorry for my bad english but I'm in a rush.

So remember, it's not all about YOU'RE body SIZE! But much much more IT's about how you Present it!

Good Luck and best wishes! And think about it! Be smart.

hey im 5'11 and i still face some of the problems people smaller then me face...so im in the same boat even tho im percieved as above average in height...? i think girls just base big as 6ft and more

Just don't think about it the next time you go out to socialize. If it's not on your mind then you can be yourself, calm, cool, collected, and thus reserved to approach any woman you desire to approach.

I have the opposite problem. I'm a little over 6'6" and the girls always look at me like Im some kind of oaf. When I sitting down or far away girls will approach me, but as soon as I stand next to them and dwarf them, its all over. I basically have just learned to accept my height since there is nothing I can do about.

Goddamn picky bitches.

bIgjOe said:

Goddamn picky bitches.

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lol...yeah, but we can't expect every chick to like us. We find shit wrong with women all the time, but it's more likely that when we approach a girl they know what's up and most put up some kind of defense mechanism when we feel insecure about something. We need to just fuck it all to hell and just do what we want to do whether we succeed or fail. Fuck it.

Yeah but I would never turn a girl down for being too tall or too short.

My shorter friends tend to date short/petite girls. For instance one friend is about 5'8" and has a gf who is 4'10" and maybe 90 lbs. The other is about 5'7" and his gf is around 5'0, maybe 110. Since they're so small, their boyfriends appear large by comparison. Not every girl wants a 6'+ boyfriend. There's a match for everybody out there.

I can't speak from personal experience though, I'm 6'2" and girls love my height. I'm also a bit unfair to girls myself, I'll never date a girl over 5'7". It's just a matter of physical attraction.

drew21 said:

Yeah but I would never turn a girl down for being too tall or too short.

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Hell yeah. Really short or really tall chicks actually turn me on come to think of it!

yea im 5 ' 11 and maybe a hair under 6 ft and im still considered small to a large amount of girls i know and talk to...i dont know what they expect with the average man at about 5'8 so i asked them what they considered to be avrage and they said 6 ft...!!! these are 25 year old women here to mind you...and they considered 6'4 the ideal height...so just some input