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"Post subject: Wife may need bigger to cum..????
Cody Smith
Gender: Gender:Male
Age: 35
We have been married 13 yrs. The last 8 have really seen a decline in the quality of sex.
She has never had an orgasum threw sex...just masterbation, and I understand some woman cant
We have had several heart felt conversation about this topic. Most recently she addmitted to haveing 95% no sex drive. The sex we do have which is almost every night is just to "get me off" She has agreed to have sex when ever I want it as long as she can just lay there.
I have always had a very strong drive. I like toys, new things, long foreplay, body contact, the whole deal.
In the past when I have had a new dildo to try to spice things up a bit she would complain its to hard, its too cold ect..
So 4 weeks ago I got a rubber inflatable 8 inch dildo. At first she was "what ever!" She did masterbate with it inside her to orgasum. I do not move it in or out, I just hold it all the way in while she rubs her clit. She said it was "ok". ( She masterbates about once a week w/ me)
I have now used it on her a few times and she is diffanantly haveing stronger and longer orgsums. For the first time the other day after she had cum I started to pump her with it. Slowly in and out and I could tell she was getting hot. ( Remember this is from a lady who has told me she has almost no sex drive.) The kids started acting up so we had to stop.
The next time I used it again on her. She got on all four and I worked it in and out of her. She was liking it and said this may make me cum! She asked me to stop and to hop on her and cum myself. ( I had to go to work)
While I was inside her and thrusting I asked if it felt better w/ the big dildo or myself. She said they feel differant. I asked again which one she liked better? She said the big one and was embarssed.
I told her not to feel bad! She asked me why I wanted to do this to her? I said do what? She replied " make me like bigger penises, I like yours the way it is now" I told her I just wanted her to get more out of sex. If you can cum from the big one maybe you will get your drive back.
Can any wifes relate to this? Dose anyone thank this is bad? I would love some help on this."
I sent the Poor guy a PM:
