When a Woman Has Become Sick of Loving.....How Can She Heal Herself?

She has always felt that emptiness inside of her growing up in her home....She never knew how it felt to be loved by a Man unconditionally......so she sought that attention in every Man she met....She wanted to attract that Man, so she did just about anything to catch his attention...She thought being sexual would please & attract a good Man, but not knowing that a Man will thrive off a sexual appearance and put it into a sexual act and only look at her in that way. So she gives her love (body) to the Men she meets, but not knowing what love actually feels like...She only feels a physical satisfaction whenever she climaxes sexually, then after that, the love is gone and she feels empty again....

She thinks she's choosing the wrong Men, so she keeps looking and attracting them with her body....The same routine continues....The sex, the climax, the emptiness, then she's gone....Now she realizes that she is unsure that a Man will ever love her how she wants, so she decides to create a seed that will surely love her unconditionally... So she has that seed but now she still feels that emptiness inside of wanting love from a real Man....She has gotten so depressed & insecure that she no longer dresses revealing or provocative...Before, she turned down great guys who wasn't focused on her body but was more focused on her personality.....Those guys were Boring to her.....

So that great guy comes along and approaches her....She didn't expect it because she felt she wasn't attractive enough and she wasn't dressed to impress...She wasn't use to a Man being attracted by her vibes rather than her looks...He enjoyed her conversation and personality...All this felt unusual to her..so she was kind of hesitant with him...She wanted to stop talking to him, but she couldn't stop thinking about him...No One has never asked or cared about knowing the real her rather than only focusing on her outer appearance...He saw something in her special...He seen the hurt, the brokedness, & the emptiness inside her....So he waits patiently for her to open up while he embraces every good & bad thing about her......This is making her unsteady, confused, & sick inside....She's detoxing & throwing up all the things & memories that she thought was love that came from those other Men....She is curious & is thinking "Can this be that unconditional love" I was looking for??"

So as months, goes by....she finally opens up and expresses her feelings to him....He grabs her tightly by the arms, looks her deeply in her eyes and says...."I Love You....take all the time you need, Im not going nowhere, and whenever you heal, I will be there to lift you back up.".....She melts inside...She realizes she has found someone who is first attracted to her mind, acknowledges & embraces her flaws and willing to let her heal her broken heart & unsteady emotions....She also realizes that her body was not an important target to attract a real Man.....She realizes how foolish she was...She realizes if she had that Man or father figure in her life who actually gave their time & unconditional love to her, she would have made better decisions concerning the Men she chose...She knows now that the stimulation of the mind is more important than the stimulation of the body.......So she unites with him.

*If the mind is not stimulated, then the body is only going through a sexual routine that will never be satisfied.

That was a really good read, thank you for posting it.

Zambrodom3;623143 said:

That was a really good read, thank you for posting it.

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Thanks for reading it.

This was basically the story of my ladies relationship life growing up. It is something I thought I should share. This is pretty much the same case for most women in life and it is something that all men should be read.

So it is your and your wife's story? Wow, it really is beautiful, it really takes to have a golden heart and an even better eye to see through all that is physical!

Zambrodom3;623170 said:

So it is your and your wife's story? Wow, it really is beautiful, it really takes to have a golden heart and an even better eye to see through all that is physical!

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Well its her story, I guess you can say I'm in her story

Memoirs of lighting A MOS exclusive :cool:

going all out;623197 said:

Memoirs of lighting A MOS exclusive :cool:

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Right? Lol

Shit keep them coming I'm all for learning new things that can teach not only me but others as well and this taught me to have patience for not only emotionally battered women but normal women as well. Like I said in another post you should consider setting up some sort of ebook or and something to the MOS paysite about understanding and getting women since you have a good deal of knowledge about the subject which could aid so many men since we are on here to better ourselves in the mind and body department and having that knowledge just adds to betterment of men of the MOS brotherhood. So as I said before keep them coming Lighting your doing us all a great service for it. :cool:

It took a couple years before she finally started healing from her past. We would fight allot if I did anything that remotely reminded her of it. It was a hard learning experience for me but Ihad to understand she was damaged from all of her past corruption.

She hated when men try to hit on her...She felt like an object and not a person. She wore all black and no makeup when she went out in public but at night she was the star of the show. She had everyman in the building wanting her while she was on stage, ironically I never seen her on stage.

The first night we ran into each other I was drunk at my good friends birthday celebration and I was mad at the world. I told her to fuck off and she hated my guts. Everybody hated me when I was drunk and use to talk about it. A week later i ran into her again while I was sober and I apologized for bing a dick. We then started talking about life, I invited her out to breakfast and from then on we've never been apart.

LIGHTNING;623262 said:

It took a couple years before she finally started healing from her past. We would fight allot if I did anything that remotely reminded her of it. It was a hard learning experience for me but Ihad to understand she was damaged from all of her past corruption.

She hated when men try to hit on her...She felt like an object and not a person. She wore all black and no makeup when she went out in public but at night she was the star of the show. She had everyman in the building wanting her while she was on stage, ironically I never seen her on stage.

The first night we ran into each other I was drunk at my good friends birthday celebration and I was mad at the world. I told her to fuck off and she hated my guts. Everybody hated me when I was drunk and use to talk about it. A week later i ran into her again while I was sober and I apologized for bing a dick. When started talking about life, I invited her out to breakfast and from then on we've never been apart.

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Do you mind telling us what you fed her with? !

P.S- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JmfOzFzYumo for you!

Lol on the video Zam. I was just being real with her. I was educating her and allot of women like when they can learn something from a man.

The first two weeks we slept in the same bed together and never had sex. We kissed and I held her naked body but I didn't make a move on her. That drove her crazy and turned her on. She said usually men try to fuck her the minute they meet.

She than began worrying about me being gay due to me not making a move on her while sleeping in bed holding her. I laughed and said no, I was giving you time to help heal. She had never experienced what i did to her. It kept her guessing and women like mystery. That sealed the deal.

If you can learn how not to be a typical man in a ladies eyes it helps create mystery.

What you did- it is really beautiful and I believe this is the way a woman should be treated! You are a real gentleman!

LIGHTNING;623272 said:

Lol on the video Zam. I was just being real with her. I was educating her and allot of women like when they can learn something from a man.

The first two weeks we slept in the same bed together and never had sex. We kissed and I held her naked body but I didn't make a move on her. That drove her crazy and turned her on. She said usually men try to fuck her the minute they meet.

She than began worrying about me being gay due to me not making a move on her while sleeping in bed holding her. I laughed and said no, I was giving you time to help heal. She had never experienced what i did to her. It kept her guessing and women like mystery. That sealed the deal.

If you can learn how not to be a typical man in a ladies eyes it helps create mystery.

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smooth

going all out;623197 said:

Memoirs of lighting A MOS exclusive :cool:

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I wish I had a similar story.

doublelongdaddy;623509 said:

I wish I had a similar story.

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Give it some time DLD. By the way, this might sound a bit awkward- but how can you describe your daily routine?

doublelongdaddy;623509 said:

I wish I had a similar story.

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same here Mike we all need a beautifu, intelligent, fullgrown woman to live whit, lonely and cold nights are not meant to be spent alone hahaha

shortdick;623520 said:

same here Mike we all need a beautifu, intelligent, fullgrown woman to live whit, lonely and cold nights are not meant to be spent alone hahaha

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agreed

Zambrodom3;623511 said:

Give it some time DLD. By the way, this might sound a bit awkward- but how can you describe your daily routine?

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Well the depression has not let up and it has been 8 months so my life is very limited right now. I sleep a lot because things can be too depressing if I am awake too much. I get up and do my work, get my PE in and watch some tv and sleep. I do see my grandchildren and son almost everyday, that is the high point of my life. But outside my schedule I have too much fear to venture off, this depression is a killer and it destroys so much of my social life. I just pray that God allows me to feel joy again soon. It is hard to eat and exercise is impossible. I guess you could say my day is a battle of depression and anxiety, day in and day out. But, usually, when the weather becomes cold I snap out of this, kind of sad it has not happened yet.

quite terrible scene but i do understand you.i would like to ask you a few things later