longstretch;300238 said:
I really can't wait to hear David DeAngelo's style. I guess I'll read that book while I wait for the torrent to finish downloading. Thanks again 10inch. Me and you are on the same road, just breaking up with our girlfriends, and learning to pick up more. The weird thing is the more I read about cocky funny and negging, I know its not supposed to make sense, but in reality it does. And when you think about the successful guys, natural or not, they all do it as if its an escalation from elementary school when we used to hit or tease the ones we liked.
Yes, we are in the same boat. You will LOVE his material. I could have had a threesome last night had I not been uncomfortable around that girl who I met at the frat cook-out two nights ago. She was quite insecure and slept with a ton of guys. Although the funny thing was my ex was raising my value like a mother fucker at the time time. She told her she had orgasmed from anal, had a white guy with a huge dick, etc. Later on that girl found out it was ME. Hahahaha. The only thing I did with both of them was make out at the same time, but I wouldn't touch that other girl with a ten foot pole. It turned out to be quite an interesting night.
The main thing is that everything just feels NATURAL now, as compared to the awkwardness of how everything used to be. I had some good success with MM, but I never had worked on any inner game so it was always being "canned" and "planned", while DYD stuff is just so smooth and natural you won't even be thinking about it sometimes and saying Penis EnlargementRFECT lines everytime.
For example, you'll start saying the perfect thing in the perfect situation. This girl was talking about how she ended up being drunk and passing out on some guy's bed (yes, wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole). I just said in, in a humorous way, "Oh, did you beat you with a stick?" I did the motion along with it as well. I didn't even realize how good of a line it was, as I was originally thinking of it as a joke but turned out to have a huge sexual UNDERTONE (you'll master these). Both girls responded very favorably. The thing is that my communication with women is now ambiguous, rather than direct (like with men). Women talk in a code. They don't generally say something direct, they'll lead you on with a phrase that might mean one thing when you look at it directly, but mean another when you look at it another. You'll start talking with them like this, and it'll greatly build attraction.
As always, it's great to get status reports from the women themselves. Luckily this girl was a loud mouth and somewhat frank, so she told me, "You know, you came off as the standard frat-boy asshole type, but I could tell there was something...different about you. I can't quite figure you out." Yes, I can be somewhat pompous while jesting with women, yet I have the attitude of "Oh I'm so playing and you're loving it" (she was talking about the incident where I was saying she had better earn her keep and make me a hotdog). Also, I keep an air of mystery about myself, and I'm unpredictable in how I'll answer questions or doing things. This keeps the "I can't figure him out" game running through their heads. This is a combination of high status (makes them keep wanting to figure you out, the "prize") + unpredictability (keeps them on their toes and getting the emotional thrill of you being one of the "different ones") + sexual tension (this includes using ambiguous wording constantly, as well as having "the sexual posture" that you'll naturally start using).
Even if I'm not getting a chick (which trust me, you can't get every girl, not by a long shot, some girls, as David Deangelo says, just are too tight or something to enjoy flirting, or in a bad mood) I always want to stand out from the other guys. I think this alone really helps keeps girl interested, even if it's just at a friend or acquaintance level (which is good, you always want to be associated with beautiful women). No, you don't have to get all Mystery'd out to stand out. Just do it by not being like the other guys. All the other guys answer them directly.
"What is your major?" -girl
"Business with a minor in French." -typical guy
"What is your major?" -girl
"Well, I was doing professional sky diving, but now I'm doing waste management." -me
Always with that flirting, teasing aura that you're putting out.
Just be different than all the other guys out there, because most girls find it BORING. You'll pick up when to give them an honest answer and when to keep the mysterious stuff up. With many girls if you don't end up giving at least one honest answer they'll see you as "too difficult" and will give up; I've had it happen, although it was ridiculous how much I beat around the bush. Good thing I wasn't sexually interested in her.
Another thing, you can practice this on all women. Just with women you're not interested in, leave the sexual tension (body language) out of it.
