Tell me more about overcoming Premature Ejaculation. Any sure-fire ways?

Tryin · Aug 2, 2005

I picked up some books recently on the matter as well as some Tantra books. Long story short, I've been doing mad kegel exercises the last few weeks. I always noticed while masturbating that if I did the reverse kegel (and I didn't even know what it was or that I was doing it at the time), that I felt the urge to cum weaken as compared to kegeling, which made me want to cum. I was searching around the web and found this site. I began reading about reverse kegels. I want to begin trying them. Should I practice them? Do they really work that well?

I've been on low dosed of Prozac, which helped a lil at first, but the effect soon wore off.

Can you tell me how you guys around here overcome Penis Enlargement, if it can be done? Thanks. I'm very intersted in the new stuff I've been reading around here.

dee3186 · Aug 2, 2005

Yeah i wanna know to bcuz kegaling makes it feel so damn good if i can keep that feeling that kegaling gives you and last atleast a hour raw ill b str8.

Tryin · Aug 2, 2005

motlissof said:
You don't want to overcome Penis Enlargement since here that means penis enlargement, but the reverse kegel is a perfect stop sign for ejaculation, I also discovered this manueuver as a teen quite by accident. Of course you know then that you bear down on the muscle group that you use to try very hard to pee or defecate and maintain that "grip" until the urge to ejaculate passes. You must not relax for about 20 seconds and must stop the penis massage or whatever got you to this brink of pleasure. This contraction totally constricts the passageway for cum by opening the passageways for pee and feces. When the urge passes you may resume your activity as before and repeat till you are delirious and God help you if you can do this 10 or more times because you will blast yourself off the bed when you finally do cum. Several teen boys have written to me about this because I have posted this info many times and all have written back their thanks since it worked for them and let them approach their first real sexual experience without fear of cumming in 10 seconds.

It sounds all good, but when a chick is blowin me, I can't control the "massage" action, as she's in control, and the whole trick is really for me to keep from lettin her know I wanna nut in like 60 seconds. Any recomendations for this problem? Pulling on my nut sack maybe to draw my nuts away from my body?

dee3186 · Aug 2, 2005

Thats a hard one you might have to stop thinkin bout the head and think about somethin that will take your horny down, think about wat your gonna do tommorow or something.

Cool_as_fcuk · Aug 2, 2005

Maths is good - do some hard sums. Just don't get too into it otherwise too much blood might end up in your brain, and not your dick - lol.

sasquatch · Aug 2, 2005

Go buy yourself a good "pockey pussy/artificial vagina". Practice fucking it and don't let yourself come till you are ready.

Asanon · Aug 2, 2005

This stuff is sortof not fair, ... so let the chick succeed every once in a while or they'll think they 'suck' at it and (perplexed and not wanting a continuing sense of failure and lower self-image) they'll quit doing it for you :

If she's doing something that blows you away (can't-turn-puns-off

) don't moan or arch over it, act normal. -- If she's doing something that sortof annoys you, ... moan and arch like it is amazing, ... she'll do more of it.

Giving her b.s. biofeedback will make her bad at getting you off -- .

Also, consciously keeping up with your own reaction in order to give opposite feedback is its own level of distraction - easily on par with baseball or math on its own.

(!) Don't use superpowers for evil. Let her win eventually.

ps - If they don't like to deepthroat, be sure to act like any deepthroat is totally kicking your ass (which it probably is) and they'll get over their hangup, read up/practise on how to be better at it, and do it more..

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msustud · Aug 3, 2005

Heres what I would do.
1) Practice masterbating as long as u can without letting loose. I think that since guys usually go for a few minutes all the time most times taht it trains your penis to cum at that time frame.
2) Get strong PC muscles
3) Practice using your PC muscles during sex mainly doing reverse kegels.
4) Think of other things while having sex like how you are pleasing her and not in it for yourself. Concentrate on her enjoying it more.
Hope this may help

Anesthesia · Aug 3, 2005

I have always been interested in the topic, I'm only 18 and i have to use alot of tricks to avoid cum but i can last with the tricks, mostly kegal stuff.

I always figured though some people were more sensitive, better nerve endings and there was nothing u can do about it. Age makes a big difference too i suppose, haha. So getting older, does that help? lol

Gunnar · Aug 3, 2005

Let me tell you guys I'm new here, but need to chime in on this one. Age plays apart...but not in a good way, atleast for me. I'm now 36 and the ol' pre ejac has come around in the last 3 years. Now when I was younger, 19-28, my mind and penis were on the same wave length. The first few times I had sex, it was quick, but after some practice(with sex), something changed. I for some reason had to think hard about cumming. Meaning I could go for as long as I wanted, and I don't have a clue how or why. Now, my mind and penis don't communicate like they used to. Penis is in a hurry, but mind is in it for the long haul. Since starting Penis Enlargement, I have regained some control, but not like before when I was young. I do believe that the above exercises do work and I'll continue to get back in sync. Anyone here have a similar experience like mine? And does anyone know how or why in my early years I had so much control without knowing what I was doing to achieve this?

ocd · Aug 4, 2005

All you guys that aren't listening to Motlissof...if you don't want to cum do the reverse kegal.

You can actually outlast your woman and she will be very, very impressed because most guys never outlast her.

If you won't listen then continue to think about baseball or fat chicks or math or pull on your nuts.

Be memorable or be forgotten...one of them is your destiny so chose wisely.

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