Hello! Excited to be here! I go by LazyLink and I would like to remain anonymous. I have been aware of PE for a long time and have done some lurking over the years, but never had the capacity until now. I don't have tailor's tape at the moment, but I remember being around 6.75" x 4.8" (BPEL x base/widest point) pointing upwards with an upward curve, great erection quality, and uncircumsized with a short foreskin that doesn't cover much of my glans. I've always been happy with it and my partners have too. However, I'm here because I have a feeling that stretching the ligaments would improve the quality of my sex life, some length and girth would be nice too.
When I was a teen I remember when I would push my upward pointing erection down it would HURT, so I wouldn't try. As I've gotten older, pushing it doesn't HURT hurt, the only way I would describe it is just uncomfortable hurt. I think I have always had a strong and over-active kegel. When I push it down it almost looks and feels like it's being pushed back into my body if that makes sense? I can't push it past parallel with the floor, so a lot of sex positions just aren't going to work. When it's pushed down it's hard to feel good sensations when I also have that uncomfortable feeling. Sadly, if it's pushed down at all I can't have an orgasm.
Time for the questions; I would really appreciate any and all help! Is my thinking correct that this is a fundiform, suspensory ligament tightness issue? Would stretching help me be able to do more positions plus actually enjoy them? Would stretching the ligament change the angle it is erect at? Is it true that people with tight suspensory ligaments see quicker and more length gains than someone with flexible ligaments, all other things equal? Am I correct to focus on length before girth? If pushing it down pushes it back in, are there a lot of expressive stretching gains to be made too or is my push back into my body description not making sense? One day maybe I'll have the courage to post a pic.
From my understanding the best thing for my situation is some flaccid weighted hanging and erect push down stretches. I've read a lot about the erect pushdowns and I came across a user across the internet named VoyeurofBliss that seemed to have the same problems as me, fixed it, and made significant gains. Here's a great video of his talking about some male anatomy, but what I'm most interested about is his stretching device at 3:28
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I would like to follow these exercises and would much prefer to use the ring and string contraption. Does anyone know know where I can get the device, or where I can get safe parts to make my own? I know it's a simple device, but I don't want to take any chances.
For weighted hanging, the two that devices I'm interested in are the most recent versions of the hanger and the SiliStretcher2. Any strong preferences for one over the other? Based on my description of myself would one be more beneficial for me over the other? I've read that straight down stretch is good for ligament stretching, so is there any additional benefit to between the cheeks stretching? Also any resources on reverse kegel? I've read that reverse kegeling while hanging bypasses the ligament, but I'm not sure what it would stretch then. Other than the suspensory ligaments I'm actually a very flexible person, stretch twice a day, love the feeling, and am excited to add these exercises to my routine. I'm looking forward to writing my routine while I wait for equipment, and I'm open to tips and suggestions.
If I had a goal for size I would say 7.5-8" x 5.25-5". From what I've been reading that's just before the point where it becomes uncomfortable giving or receiving, or even discourages people from trying. Should I wait for girth gains after stretching? I know girth gains also increase length, so figuring out the balancing act between getting the ligament stretched enough and not going too long before/while doing girth gains could be a balancing act. Any realistic timeline for me to reach my goal? I got the time, energy, discipline, and money to do it now!
Thank you again so much I would be so grateful if if any of my questions get answered I know there are a lot. I'm so excited to join y'all on this journey
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When I was a teen I remember when I would push my upward pointing erection down it would HURT, so I wouldn't try. As I've gotten older, pushing it doesn't HURT hurt, the only way I would describe it is just uncomfortable hurt. I think I have always had a strong and over-active kegel. When I push it down it almost looks and feels like it's being pushed back into my body if that makes sense? I can't push it past parallel with the floor, so a lot of sex positions just aren't going to work. When it's pushed down it's hard to feel good sensations when I also have that uncomfortable feeling. Sadly, if it's pushed down at all I can't have an orgasm.
Time for the questions; I would really appreciate any and all help! Is my thinking correct that this is a fundiform, suspensory ligament tightness issue? Would stretching help me be able to do more positions plus actually enjoy them? Would stretching the ligament change the angle it is erect at? Is it true that people with tight suspensory ligaments see quicker and more length gains than someone with flexible ligaments, all other things equal? Am I correct to focus on length before girth? If pushing it down pushes it back in, are there a lot of expressive stretching gains to be made too or is my push back into my body description not making sense? One day maybe I'll have the courage to post a pic.
From my understanding the best thing for my situation is some flaccid weighted hanging and erect push down stretches. I've read a lot about the erect pushdowns and I came across a user across the internet named VoyeurofBliss that seemed to have the same problems as me, fixed it, and made significant gains. Here's a great video of his talking about some male anatomy, but what I'm most interested about is his stretching device at 3:28
* URL removed due to linking to a ���� site.
I would like to follow these exercises and would much prefer to use the ring and string contraption. Does anyone know know where I can get the device, or where I can get safe parts to make my own? I know it's a simple device, but I don't want to take any chances.
For weighted hanging, the two that devices I'm interested in are the most recent versions of the hanger and the SiliStretcher2. Any strong preferences for one over the other? Based on my description of myself would one be more beneficial for me over the other? I've read that straight down stretch is good for ligament stretching, so is there any additional benefit to between the cheeks stretching? Also any resources on reverse kegel? I've read that reverse kegeling while hanging bypasses the ligament, but I'm not sure what it would stretch then. Other than the suspensory ligaments I'm actually a very flexible person, stretch twice a day, love the feeling, and am excited to add these exercises to my routine. I'm looking forward to writing my routine while I wait for equipment, and I'm open to tips and suggestions.
If I had a goal for size I would say 7.5-8" x 5.25-5". From what I've been reading that's just before the point where it becomes uncomfortable giving or receiving, or even discourages people from trying. Should I wait for girth gains after stretching? I know girth gains also increase length, so figuring out the balancing act between getting the ligament stretched enough and not going too long before/while doing girth gains could be a balancing act. Any realistic timeline for me to reach my goal? I got the time, energy, discipline, and money to do it now!
Thank you again so much I would be so grateful if if any of my questions get answered I know there are a lot. I'm so excited to join y'all on this journey
Post edited by @squirt_inducer_man, see * above.
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