Takes me under an hour to climax when getting a Thai massage Happy Ending

Zambrodom3;627020 said:

Oh NO! These are the EXACT symptoms of the WORST problem! In fact, it is SO serious that you are most likely going to DIE!!!!

Ok, joke aside (I had QUITE some laugh writing the joke !!!!), there can be lots of reasons, but the ones I think are the cause of your issues are:

1- Physical
The physical stimulation you are getting is not enough to stimulate you to a level where you can reach climax. People are very different, but some get stimulation from one, others don't find the same thing stimulating etc. A handjob is nothing so special as it does not stimulate you as much as sexual intercourse (vaginal or anal). My advice is this- just have sex with NO condom on and if you still have these problems- it would seem the problem is psychological.

2- Psychological
The psychological stimulation you are getting is not enough to stimulate you to a level where you can reach climax. Maybe you are just not "horny" enough. Maybe there is something bothering you- some pressure, stress (as we all have everyday stress). Maybe it is �naked people movies� that has desensitized you to a level where normal sexual intercourse does not stimulate you as much as �naked people movies� itself.

There are many things that could be the reason for your "problem", but I think these ones are the most possible. About your dick hurting- was her grip tight?

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samuriajack;627028 said:

wtf where do you find a place where theyll wank my 8.7 dick off with some nice lotion ahha and get a body massage

i feel like if i ask theyll be like gtfo pervert haha

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samuriajack;627032 said:

20$? haaha was she hot

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GeoKnight94;627015 said:

So yeah, I have been going to this Thai Massage place three times & went to an independent masseuse once to get a full body massage & a Happy Ending, where I get a wank & to be able to caress their bodies & finger their vaginas, but I seem to be having trouble to cum when I want to until I do it myself with either using my foot fetish to get off or them playing with my nipples & it does feel like i'm forcing it out & my dick hurts after words. I went to that Thai place again today, 20th December 2014, & my dick has been hurting since getting out at 5, when I got in at 3:30, having a wax to start of with then having a massage at 4. So I think I have something wrong with me as I can't seem to ejaculate when I want too, though it could be that the woman is pressuring me to cum, but when I wank off to �naked people movies�, I don't seem to have any trouble cuming but when I have the masseuses doing it, I have trouble trying to climax.

I just want to know what that means.

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boohoohoo;627054 said:

This sort of thing happens to me too, except it has to do with sex. There are many women that I have had sex with where I just can't cum at all sometimes, and sometimes it takes well over 20 minutes. Other times with different women I cum in a minute.

I really have no explanation for you other than that any time you are masturbating you know exactly how to grip, how fast to go, and what to think about. Ejaculation is very much mental as much or maybe more than it is physical. When you are at home jerking off you know exactly what and when to do everything, but the masseuse is basically just going through the motions.

If you want to solve this the only thing I can recommend is edging for at least 3-4 days with no ejaculation, but taking yourself to the edge at least a few times a day. This will make your dick very sensitive and will allow you to cum quickly.

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GeoKnight94;627116 said:

I agree with Z, as i just want to be able to control when I want to cum, I don't want to have Pre-mature ejaculation.

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boohoohoo;627201 said:

All good, just wanted to point out a technique that I liked. With the technique I pointed out above I also have the best orgasm ever, so I don't really mind ejaculating quickly.

I can see how this can be negative for sex though since most want to last longer.

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pdevil;627400 said:

Now, where is this Thai Massage place?
I would love to try it out myself to see, if the problem is on your end or if it's their fault.

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pdevil;627400 said:

Now, where is this Thai Massage place?
I would love to try it out myself to see, if the problem is on your end or if it's their fault.

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doublelongdaddy;627421 said:

Do they charge you extra if it takes you longer to get off?

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boohoohoo;627494 said:

I'm sure you can find one with a similar deal where you live. Where I live they are all over the place, but I have never actually used one. As far as I know though they normally have strict time limits.

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