Not sure what the fuck is wrong wit me...

I've had a problem with sexual erections since before I started Penis Enlargement, (nervousness I'd imagine) but 2 years of Penis Enlargement coupled with a long ass time of not getting laid has put me into somewhat of a bind. The last couple times I've tryed to get laid I havent been able to get much of a erection at all. I figured it was psychological, bodybuilder (forum member) suggested trying NO2 so today before gettin wit this girl I popped 6 of em. This chick was givin me head n all kinds of shit and I couldnt get over a 1/2 erection. I'm on 4 days rest, so I dont think my dick is exhausted or anything like that. Physically I don't believe theres anything wrong wit me, my erections seem perfectly fine until someone else is involved. i'm sure theyre more skewed towards the 110% ones needed for Penis Enlargement. This feels like more of a cry of desperation than an advice post, but I just don't know where I go from here. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Hi Di,
I feel you big time. At least this clearly is a psychological problem. Ive got an intense penis size complex. When im with a girl, its always, in some small way on my mind. Whats wrong with you is a psychological block. Your thinking to much, you know this. Your analyzing yourself, instead of watching and feeling this (hopefully) sexy chick, lick and suck, and kiss, your cock. You understand what im saying? You need to be selfish. Forget about her and take advantage. I know it must be very hard to relax after the times you didnt come up. It compiles over and over, who could blame you for being afraid? Talking about your problems/issues, is the first step to overcoming them. I garantee you that.
If you allow yourself, to possibly take your experiences with the lady a bit further, just tell her that - Look, ive had some times when i cant get erect, theres nothing wrong with me i just stress out alot. And take it from there. If shes worth her weight, she'll be warm, understanding, and patient. But, make it clear its NOT HER. Ladies, love it when they feel a guy open up to them about very deep personal stuff. Get into an experimental postion with her, where you can both just laugh and say "Well lets just take your time and fuck around, maybe it'll come up maybe it wont. Who cares." From there you just experiment, you just learn and build on the trust you have, and what works for you.
Once you get this stuff off your chest, you get to KNOW that part of your mind, not BE that part of your mind. I really recommend just going for some light counselling, to let it out and get you on top again. It might sound gay or weird, but it will help, i promise.

BTW you do have a masssive tool. They'll be in awe.

Thanks for the advice man. The funny thing is my size never comes into my mind when I'm wit a girl. That might have been what happened at first, but once this problem started, its the fear of not gettin hard that gets in my mind, once thats there im fucked...Yesterday reminded me of trying to lose my virginity, everything felt good, but I just couldnt get my dick to go to that full blown erection. Damn this is hard to describe. It feels like I should just have to kegel and Id be hard but no more blood goes in. I just gotta keep goin at it, this girls a sweet understanding freak so i know shell get me there. I know after that first time I get some and end this losing streak I won't have anymore worries.

You also have a massive tool my friend.. we've both come a long way from what nature would have limited us to. I just cant wait til I can give em some post Penis Enlargement sex...6.25"+ girth should have em tearin down walls.

I read here to take some viagra to help get your confidence DLD says this somewhere here straight up dude that is what i would do.

Yea I was tryin to do that with the NO2, I was told it worked better than viagra...but no go. I wanna get my hands on some V but I have yet to find a decent source, every place posted on this board has gotten postive and negative ratings from ppl on here. If I could find a good source I would pick some up ASAP

I not sure maybe somebody could help u

DiGenius said:

Thanks for the advice man. The funny thing is my size never comes into my mind when I'm wit a girl. That might have been what happened at first, but once this problem started, its the fear of not gettin hard that gets in my mind, once thats there im fucked...Yesterday reminded me of trying to lose my virginity, everything felt good, but I just couldnt get my dick to go to that full blown erection. Damn this is hard to describe. It feels like I should just have to kegel and Id be hard but no more blood goes in. I just gotta keep goin at it, this girls a sweet understanding freak so i know shell get me there. I know after that first time I get some and end this losing streak I won't have anymore worries.

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Thats it man, get it out and you'll get over the fear.

DiGenius said:

You also have a massive tool my friend.. we've both come a long way from what nature would have limited us to. I just cant wait til I can give em some post Penis Enlargement sex...6.25"+ girth should have em tearin down walls.

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Or tearin down their walls.. Thanks for the comment. At about 9 inches ill think of it as big. lol Messed up mind.

O'RileyColt said:

Thats it man, get it out and you'll get over the fear.



Or tearin down their walls.. Thanks for the comment. At about 9 inches ill think of it as big. lol Messed up mind.

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Yea I got the same shit, my girth has shot up so I keep telling myself I've lost length because my dick looks more proportioned..I've had the same length for over a year while my girth has shot up .75". We all have out problems. looking strickly at numbers and percentiles really help to put things in perspective. But my dick was "big" to some and "small" at the same time. As long as she gets off I can't complain.

What a mess we can make with the nonexistent when our minds are involved. Obsessive thinking, the obvious culprit concerning your dilemma, is a very tricky thief especially when the penis is involved. As men, we prize the penis above all body parts, it is larger than life and it has always been this way. Something with such mental notoriety as the penis it is the easiest target when we obsess. First it serves a very basic function, erections, a physical ability that is 100% reliant of a solid mental-physical connection. A thought process that allows the penis to become erect is so easily clogged by an intruding thought. A single thought that manifests itself in the streamline data exchange between the penis and brain. Here it repeats itself, over and over, until it stops the thought process, stops the erection, gets us frustrated and in many cases into an argument driven by our own discouragement. This, being a crisis (the word crisis in Asian characters, consists of 2 characters, one being danger while the other denotes opportunity) gets stored in our memory as an event of failure. This is easily repeated time and time again because we become pros at an obsessive behavior.

What can you do to change this vicious cycle? A physical change, or shock I should say, is necessary to ultimately regaining a confidence with erections. I would suggest a complete change in your approach and needs in sex. Spend more time in foreplay, kissing, touching, exploring, ect., behaviors that do not require an erection. This, being a sexual act, will serve to make a solid mental/physical connection and our function, as men, is an erection. As long as your mind remains in the sexual flow, avoiding intercourse, you will soon see you always had this ability but lost touch with it by becoming obsessed with your own penis. Once you have driving your girl crazy, perhaps even made her cum a couple times, your obligation becomes lessened and this will take much of the pressure off of you allowing you to make a foreplay-insertion move eminent. You can even think to yourself that there is NO pressure if you made her cum, isn't this the point for her?

Relax, enjoy the less explored, more non-penile parts of sex. Clear your mind and go. The brain can only serve one function at a time. If you are consumed with what you are doing to her, you will not be able to obsess over an erection. Once you feel like a plumber, go lay the pipe.

doublelongdaddy said:

What a mess we can make with the nonexistent when our minds are involved. Obsessive thinking, the obvious culprit concerning your dilemma, is a very tricky thief especially when the penis is involved.

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VS.
Life experiences, and the ideal size factor and a little ridicule.

good luck bud - im sure the wood will be back before you know it

ITS ALL IN YOUR MIND.

You dont feel cofortable around this girl. It is a tough thing to conqour good luck

ITS ALL IN YOUR MIND.

You dont feel comfortable around this girl. It is a tough thing to conqour good luck

Thanks for the advice DLD, all its gonna take is time...but damn is anything more frustrating than this

Just make an appointment with your regular doctor and ask for some samples of viagra, cialais, or levitra. My doctor gives me a handful of free samples of whatever she has. Good Luck!!

sometimes going into it with a girl, announce up front that there will be no sex...and it often has the reverse effect. Its worth a try and will take the pressure off you...

DiGenius said:

Yea I was tryin to do that with the NO2, I was told it worked better than viagra...but no go. I wanna get my hands on some V but I have yet to find a decent source, every place posted on this board has gotten postive and negative ratings from ppl on here. If I could find a good source I would pick some up ASAP

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Anyone who tells you that NO2 works better than Viagra either hasn't used Viagra, hasn't used NO2, or hasn't used either. The only thing I noticed when taking NO2 was I woke up with a morning wood every day instead of almost every day. This could have been 100% placebo effect also. It did nothing for "pumps" or "Viagra effect".

I've been in your shoes, and I also believe that Penis Enlargement to some degree affects erection quality. Here's a couple of tips...on the mental thing, I totally understand, it's like a viscious circle. You can't just will your penis erect, and the more you think about it the worse it seems to make the situation. Try instead to think about some fantasy erotic scenario.....imagine __________ and __________ double teaming this chick for example, or whatever works for you. As a previous poster said, be selfish, don't think about her just your pleasure.

Conversely, it can help a lot to get her off first. If you read up on how to please a woman, and practice, you can learn to get a woman off - you can do this without your dick! Try this with her, I know that I can make a woman cum with just my fingers, or tongue etc. If you're not getting hard while she's blowing you, just forget it for a bit and start getting her off. We do have a lot of ingrained animal instinct, when you lick her & smell her your body will likely respond. Even if it takes 30 minutes or an hour before you get hard, if you're giving her orgasms the whole time I guarantee she will not complain - and when you do slam that meat to her she will probably go ballistic.

The final tip I will offer, when none of the above is working.....I've been able to kegel & squeeze enough blood in my dick so it's hard enough to penetrate, while clamping the base with my hand. Once I can do this, stroking in & out while still holding my hand clamped, my dick will get hard on it's own. You should have her pussy real wet by this point anyway, as big as you are even half hard it's going to feel good to her. Don't get caught up on thinking you have to be 110% erect first, just get it in her pussy and the rest will take care of itself I do enjoy a good blow job, and at times it can help get me hard when my penis isn't cooperating, but nothing does it like stroking it in the pussy. You may find this quite enjoyable, if you see her really getting off on your 50% erection you know you're gonna blow her mind when you hit 100%.

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