Mental Stability over time in PE

Penis size does not equate to self worth. I tell myself that some days. Days like today, where I feel like the gains are coming too slow, I find myself doubting everything. I always come back to those emotions that first brought me here (the self-loathing, the helplessness, the feeling of inadequateness). I try to put myself in my wife's shoes. When I do that I think, she's probably thinking that I'm not enough. That I've never been enough, but she loves me anyways. This single thought perpetuates within me. Then I remember that I am the average joe. There are millions of me! To feel bad for myself, I would also have to feel bad for millions of other men who didn't ask for this size. I get angry, I tell myself fuck it. If she really wanted a dude with a huge cock (and that's what really matters to her), then she can go out and try to find a man like that. Good luck! There's millions of us average joes! 😃😃😃 (the odds are significantly stacked in our favor) . Suddenly, the realization that she will never have a bigger dick unless I give her one pops into my head. I want to do this for her, but more importantly, I want to do this for my own sanity. I don't perceive this changing me as a person, or giving me everything I've ever wanted. I've already experienced more than most men have dreamed. I just want to transform my fake confidence in this arena to real confidence.

We didn't ask to be here, but we're here nonetheless to make a change for the better.

Most guys think :

Huge cock = 10000000 orgasms for her
Average cock = she's not going to feel anything.

I've literally saw average ���� stars giving chicks as many orgasms as any monster cock actor...Plus some women will you down if you're too big,sex can be uncomfortable for both of you if her vagina is not that deep,and the list can go on..a bigger cock is not always better..i would take a average 6x5 over a __________ size , 11x6 or whatever,any time of the day.

With Great Cock Comes Great Responsibility .You can make a 5.5x5 work,and you can make a 11x7 work,it's all about you.No one should feel bad about being average.

I could not even see my gains when I was suffering with Penile Dysmorphic Disorder. Made no difference what the ruler said, I could just not realize the truth. It took a lot of self improvement to correct this and allow my mind to catch up with my body. It is important to remember that we have been the same size all of our adult like, gaining size can sometimes mess with our minds because of how long we have had the old size. It is like a guy who was fat all his life and then lost all the weight, he will have a job to do allowing his mind to catch up and realize the change.

Thanks guys! I realize all of this. DLD is right. Looking at this thing all the time makes me forget about where I've been and how far we've traveled. I'm so focused on what I want to be, and what I am today that I almost never look back. Perspective my friends!

MoreThanLuck;671152 said:

Thanks guys! I realize all of this. DLD is right. Looking at this thing all the time makes me forget about where I've been and how far we've traveled. I'm so focused on what I want to be, and what I am today that I almost never look back. Perspective my friends!

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Great. I congratulate you on how far you've made it and I already know of the achievements you'll make so here's an early congratulations to your future gains and accomplishments! I know you things may seem like they're not enough and you've developed whether you realize it or not. It could have been for better or worse but you've changed. Change can be an unknowing experience but it also changes many other things that bring up stuff you've never experienced. These experiences will guide you to discover and reach your goals. I'm happy for you.

Whether you're doing it for her or for yourself as long as you stay committed, make the effort, do all that you can, and keep consistent you'll be where you want to be. I believe in you. If you ever need any help we're always here for you.

doublelongdaddy;671117 said:

I could not even see my gains when I was suffering with Penile Dysmorphic Disorder. Made no difference what the ruler said, I could just not realize the truth. It took a lot of self improvement to correct this and allow my mind to catch up with my body. It is important to remember that we have been the same size all of our adult like, gaining size can sometimes mess with our minds because of how long we have had the old size. It is like a guy who was fat all his life and then lost all the weight, he will have a job to do allowing his mind to catch up and realize the change.

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True ""shaping""the mind and starting a state of mind where we can accept the new ME is not that easy cause as you have stated,we have spent years whit a size n once we see that penis gets bigger is not that easy to assimilate the situation IMHO.thats why im not into taking days off.

An everyday PE routine can help us to find solutions to a negative n helpless state of mind...

millions of average JOES yep we all here because we want to get bigger,its hard cause once we measure n we see the gains,we will be in a new position!!

shortdick;671222 said:

millions of average JOES yep we all here because we want to get bigger,its hard cause once we measure n we see the gains,we will be in a new position!!

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Yeahhhhhhhhh. I remember back when I was 5" now I'm proud to be part of the 7" club, hitting 8" soon, see you there shortdick?

SURE i will get there.....


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shortdick;671233 said:

SURE i will be there.....


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Can't see your picture.

Thats fine man is just a pic of how big i want to get..

oh...well then....

shortdick;671238 said:

Thats fine man is just a pic of how big i want to get..

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You want to be that big shortdick? DAMN!!! You'll have to resort to having sex with whales if you get that big...lol

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kyomoto;671230 said:

Yeahhhhhhhhh. I remember back when I was 5" now I'm proud to be part of the 7" club, hitting 8" soon, see you there shortdick?

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Happy to hear that SD!!! I was wondering if you'd made it to your goal while I was away. Congrats!

Thanks but i still have a lot of work to do..you know we can get obsessed whit size sometimes

DO you use any other tools other then the LM?

The BM but i havent used it in two months or something..

shortdick;671249 said:

The BM but i havent used it in two months or something..

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You should start using the BM to supplement your LM routine

shortdick;671249 said:

The BM but i havent used it in two months or something..

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I thought you were going length only routine, has this changed?

nope but everytime i get the chance i grab the BM n start whit the BM hardcore stretches

It would be good to not be that distressed over it. The g spot most of us are aiming for is like 3 inches deep in the vagina. Literally should just need to angle it right and she'll be happy. Not fake, I wish your dick was bigger happy. Like squirming because there's not enough room in her body for all the pleasure you're giving her. Knowledge can pretty much narrow the size gap so far as how much she would enjoy it. I'm just greedy and want to be limitless in bed.

Seriously doubt your girl cares about how much bigger you can make it if you know how to lick a clit and fuck the g spot. Do it for you if you and don't think about it as a desperate thing to keep your girl happy. Just do a few Google searches for fun about all the ways to encourage orgasm. Then do them to her all at once.