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DLD · Jun 13, 2018

huge-girth;761244 said:
Cannot be compared to my country with the excessively dependent women.

Women have equal rights in Nigeria?

huge-girth · Jun 14, 2018

doublelongdaddy;761308 said:
Women have equal rights in Nigeria?

Not at all. The men are on top here. Majority of the men who got married to Nigerian women and took her to the US ended up committing suicide or killing the lady when the lady becomes a US citizen and start treating the man like a piece of shit. Nowadays, no Nigerian living in the US dare takes his Nigerian wife to the US because of this fear.

cladre60 · Jun 14, 2018

huge-girth;761393 said:
Not at all. The men are on top here. Majority of the men who got married to Nigerian women and took her to the US ended up committing suicide or killing the lady when the lady becomes a US citizen and start treating the man like a piece of shit. Nowadays, no Nigerian living in the US dare takes his Nigerian wife to the US because of this fear.

Well considering all the emails I've gotten over the years from Nigerian princes I guess all the women are princesses there and want to be treated as such.

When they get to the US from an oppressive county I'd guess either 1 of 2 things happen. They're either ultra happy to be living in a free country and enjoy a wonderful life with their spouse grateful for bringing them here OR they just used the guy as a ticket to the US and do everything they can to be on their own.

Women can be very manipulative and know how to play the long game well. My ex plays that game well. She has her next relationship fully set up to go before leaving her current one. She knows the next guy is going nuts waiting to get with her. Then she gets pregnant ASAP so while the relationship is still in the "butterflies and constant sex" phase they forge a stronger bond and he sticks around.

Her 1st husband she had been with for a while when she got pregnant but it worked to keep him. When we met she began plotting. Took her over a year to figure out how she was going to snare me but then she executed her plan and it worked. It's also worked 2 more times. 4 kids to 4 fathers and 3 marriages (we never got married) with each relationship lasting 5-7yrs. Speaking of that timeline she's about due to start looking for the next husband....

Big Schwanz Acht · Jun 14, 2018

women understand that they have an 'expiration date' and need to climb-up the socio-economic ladder as quickly and high as their 'currency' (looks/appeal) allows...men are just the 'rungs' of the ladder

cladre60 · Jun 14, 2018

Big Schwanz Acht;761424 said:
women understand that they have an 'expiration date' and need to climb-up the socio-economic ladder as quickly and high as their 'currency' (looks/appeal) allows...men are just the 'rungs' of the ladder

Sadly that's true for many.

huge-girth · Jun 15, 2018

cladre60;761422 said:
Well considering all the emails I've gotten over the years from Nigerian princes I guess all the women are princesses there and want to be treated as such.

When they get to the US from an oppressive county I'd guess either 1 of 2 things happen. They're either ultra happy to be living in a free country and enjoy a wonderful life with their spouse grateful for bringing them here OR they just used the guy as a ticket to the US and do everything they can to be on their own.

Women can be very manipulative and know how to play the long game well. My ex plays that game well. She has her next relationship fully set up to go before leaving her current one. She knows the next guy is going nuts waiting to get with her. Then she gets pregnant ASAP so while the relationship is still in the "butterflies and constant sex" phase they forge a stronger bond and he sticks around.

Her 1st husband she had been with for a while when she got pregnant but it worked to keep him. When we met she began plotting. Took her over a year to figure out how she was going to snare me but then she executed her plan and it worked. It's also worked 2 more times. 4 kids to 4 fathers and 3 marriages (we never got married) with each relationship lasting 5-7yrs. Speaking of that timeline she's about due to start looking for the next husband....

The women here are not oppressed. It is the men that are been used both home and abroad. In the US I heard the law favor the women in a way that once you divorce, she takes 50 percent of your property, is that right? It's difficult to find a woman who will truly love you genuinely in my country, it's all about the money here. Most of the women here use the men as a ladder to claim into their heart desires. Though I don't like to end up divorce in life after getting married, I can't imagine a woman sharing my properties with me 50/50 just because we got divorced.

cladre60 · Jun 15, 2018

huge-girth;761450 said:
The women here are not oppressed. It is the men that are been used both home and abroad. In the US I heard the law favor the women in a way that once you divorce, she takes 50 percent of your property, is that right? It's difficult to find a woman who will truly love you genuinely in my country, it's all about the money here. Most of the women here use the men as a ladder to claim into their heart desires. Though I don't like to end up divorce in life after getting married, I can't imagine a woman sharing my properties with me 50/50 just because we got divorced.

It's not so much the woman gets 50%, it's that marital assets are split equally. My dad went through that shit. They took the value of the house, subtracted what was owed, and divided it in half. Plus he lost a bit of his retirement account and a vehicle. My mother didn't work for almost their entire marriage and the last few years she was going to nursing school which made him the primary breadwinner. They did take into account that he set her up to be able to earn a decent living though and before they divorced she was making a substantial income. On the flip side a friend finalized his divorce last year. His wife consistently made more than double what he made. She had a college education, he didn't. He started school to be an electrician and she started cheating on him ending their marriage. Due to the financial situation of their marriage and how many years they were married he got a fairly sizeable check. He didn't feel bad at all either as she was the one that cheated and we all agreed how fucked up the system is that women usually make out in a divorce while men get screwed. They try to be fair in court. The "women get half" thing goes back to when they were all housewives who didn't work.

DLD · Jun 18, 2018

Or you can do what I did and never get divorced

I have been estranged from my wife for 21 years, refuse to get a divorce unless she wants to remarry.

cladre60 · Jun 18, 2018

doublelongdaddy;761820 said:
Or you can do what I did and never get divorced I have been estranged from my wife for 21 years, refuse to get a divorce unless she wants to remarry.

So she's okay with this?

huge-girth · Jun 19, 2018

cladre60;761476 said:
It's not so much the woman gets 50%, it's that marital assets are split equally. My dad went through that shit. They took the value of the house, subtracted what was owed, and divided it in half. Plus he lost a bit of his retirement account and a vehicle. My mother didn't work for almost their entire marriage and the last few years she was going to nursing school which made him the primary breadwinner. They did take into account that he set her up to be able to earn a decent living though and before they divorced she was making a substantial income. On the flip side a friend finalized his divorce last year. His wife consistently made more than double what he made. She had a college education, he didn't. He started school to be an electrician and she started cheating on him ending their marriage. Due to the financial situation of their marriage and how many years they were married he got a fairly sizeable check. He didn't feel bad at all either as she was the one that cheated and we all agreed how fucked up the system is that women usually make out in a divorce while men get screwed. They try to be fair in court. The "women get half" thing goes back to when they were all housewives who didn't work.

I'm never going to get married if this is what the world has become. Here in my country, if you do court wedding you will have this same 50/50 property sharing problem. And most of the women today are insisting on court wedding. The scary thing is most of these women are very manipulative in nature. If I eventually get married, I'm going to cast a spell (voodoo) on my wife so she will never cheat or leave the marriage for any reason. I cannot afford to become famous and wealthy and then allow one woman to split my properties with me, that's never going to happen.

huge-girth · Jun 19, 2018

doublelongdaddy;761820 said:
Or you can do what I did and never get divorced I have been estranged from my wife for 21 years, refuse to get a divorce unless she wants to remarry.

If I am very rich, the women of today will fake a new marriage and force me into signing the divorce papers

cladre60 · Jun 19, 2018

huge-girth;761864 said:
I'm never going to get married if this is what the world has become. Here in my country, if you do court wedding you will have this same 50/50 property sharing problem. And most of the women today are insisting on court wedding. The scary thing is most of these women are very manipulative in nature. If I eventually get married, I'm going to cast a spell (voodoo) on my wife so she will never cheat or leave the marriage for any reason. I cannot afford to become famous and wealthy and then allow one woman to split my properties with me, that's never going to happen.

Here if you come into a marriage with a lot and the other has nothing you can do a prenuptial agreement that says "all this stuff belongs to this person no matter what."

The way splitting things works is it's looked at like a business agreement. You're in a legal contract. If during that time you aquire assets (house, cars, retirement accounts, investments, etc) they were all gotten together. If both of you were working, even if 1 was making twice as much as the other, you're still doing things for the betterment of both of you. If 1 is working and the other is raising children you're creating a family together.

If there's a split it's fair to divide things that were gotten during the contract. If you started a business with someone and a few years later hated each other you wouldn't leave that person with all the assets, you'd want what you're entitled to during the split. Same with marriage.

If 1 person cheats and there's substantial proof that can lessen what they get from the divorce.

DLD · Jun 19, 2018

huge-girth;761865 said:
If I am very rich, the women of today will fake a new marriage and force me into signing the divorce papers

For me it just made sense since we had my Son together, she would receive federal money until He was 18. Since then she had not spoke to me so who knows whats up.

huge-girth · Jun 20, 2018

cladre60;761899 said:
Here if you come into a marriage with a lot and the other has nothing you can do a prenuptial agreement that says "all this stuff belongs to this person no matter what."

The way splitting things works is it's looked at like a business agreement. You're in a legal contract. If during that time you aquire assets (house, cars, retirement accounts, investments, etc) they were all gotten together. If both of you were working, even if 1 was making twice as much as the other, you're still doing things for the betterment of both of you. If 1 is working and the other is raising children you're creating a family together.

If there's a split it's fair to divide things that were gotten during the contract. If you started a business with someone and a few years later hated each other you wouldn't leave that person with all the assets, you'd want what you're entitled to during the split. Same with marriage.

If 1 person cheats and there's substantial proof that can lessen what they get from the divorce.

Okay, what if for example, I have a baby mama and we have a total of 3 children and during this time of dating her and having babies, I acquired some wealth and decide to get married to her. I guess it's possible to do a prenuptial agreement that says "all this stuff belongs to this person no matter what." ???????????

DLD · Jun 20, 2018

huge-girth;761993 said:
Okay, what if for example, I have a baby mama and we have a total of 3 children and during this time of dating her and having babies, I acquired some wealth and decide to get married to her. I guess it's possible to do a prenuptial agreement that says "all this stuff belongs to this person no matter what." ???????????

A pre-nuptual has to happen pre-marriage or it will not be acceptable The idea of a pre-nup is you leave the marriage with what you came into the marriage with the exceptions of endeavors you made as a couple to make money which will be split. So if you get married with a pre-nup and you are making $100,000 a year and she is making $50,000 but you start a business together and it is successful, you will have to split that as it was created by both parties.

cladre60 · Jun 20, 2018

Exactly what DLD said. If pre-marriage you've got a successful business, house, trust fund, etc you can protect it with a prenup even if you've already got children with that person as long as its done before you get married. Once you're legally married if you don't have a prenup the other person can be entitled to everything as you brought it into the marriage.

You know damn well our president has a prenup with his hot wife. However I'm sure there's stipulations in them. If you're bringing tremendous wealth into a marriage and a year later decide to start openly cheating on your wife, if she's smart and had a good lawyer, she's going to get a big chunk. The prenup can protect both parties in that way. If I had married a wealthy woman and been asked to sign a prenup I would've made sure I was protected if that situation were to occur.

huge-girth · Jun 21, 2018

doublelongdaddy;762032 said:
A pre-nuptual has to happen pre-marriage or it will not be acceptable The idea of a pre-nup is you leave the marriage with what you came into the marriage with the exceptions of endeavors you made as a couple to make money which will be split. So if you get married with a pre-nup and you are making $100,000 a year and she is making $50,000 but you start a business together and it is successful, you will have to split that as it was created by both parties.

Now I understand, thanks very much

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cladre60;762088 said:
Exactly what DLD said. If pre-marriage you've got a successful business, house, trust fund, etc you can protect it with a prenup even if you've already got children with that person as long as its done before you get married. Once you're legally married if you don't have a prenup the other person can be entitled to everything as you brought it into the marriage.

You know damn well our president has a prenup with his hot wife. However I'm sure there's stipulations in them. If you're bringing tremendous wealth into a marriage and a year later decide to start openly cheating on your wife, if she's smart and had a good lawyer, she's going to get a big chunk. The prenup can protect both parties in that way. If I had married a wealthy woman and been asked to sign a prenup I would've made sure I was protected if that situation were to occur.

I will make the babies and then marry my baby mama later

cladre60 · Jun 21, 2018

huge-girth;762110 said:
Now I understand, thanks very much

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I will make the babies and then marry my baby mama later

If you find a woman you consciously plan to have children with then should go ahead and marry her. You're making a conscious decision to be involved with her for at least 18yrs in some way. If you don't think you want to marry her then don't have kids with her.

huge-girth · Jun 22, 2018

cladre60;762160 said:
If you find a woman you consciously plan to have children with then should go ahead and marry her. You're making a conscious decision to be involved with her for at least 18yrs in some way. If you don't think you want to marry her then don't have kids with her.

I will surely marry the lady who bring my children to this world. But I'm not marrying her right away. I will be making babies first before marrying her. I have a special reason for that

huge-girth · Dec 5, 2022

dmoney101 said:
How do you guys manage to do girth work without watching ��? I always have to have some kind of stimulus, but hate having to sit and watch �� for 30+ minutes. I like to do my PE while I sit and catch up on my shows at night, but it's usually impossible for me to maintain any kind of erection. I hardly watch �� at all, so it's not like I've spoiled myself with daily hardcore ��. It's just that I haven't gotten erections for no reason since puberty LOL.

It is possible to do girth work without ��. You just need to abstain from masturbation for as long as possible and always do kegels. It takes some practice but you can do it.

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