well to make a long story short.. me and my ex talk about everything.. and i know she wont lie to me .. we talked about a guy that we both know.. she had sex with him after we broke up .. so the conversation went over to penis size.. so she told me he was at least 9-11 inches long .. I know how girls exagerate so I told her to find a ruler and tell me the approx. length.. it was 8" .. soo.. the length is 8.. now the girth.. we discussed a lot of objects.. to get an idea of the girth.. and the conclusion was 7.5" girth! holy shit! 8 x 7.5" ! i know you guys will probably say she said this to make me feel small.. but no, this is for real.. this guy is friggin huge.. i was only 5 x 4 when we were together.. now im around 5.5 x 4.5 .. but damn what size should i go for? she told me it hurt like hell .. but she got used to it after a while.. i kinda want to be 10 x 8 at the momemt.. but at the same time i feel bad for the guy.. because i seriously dont want to be that big.. need some input here .. want to be big but not a monster.. gotta be able to have one night stands too without any probs.. know this thread doesnt make any sence.. i just had to get this out of my head hehe