nystrongstroke2 said:
For the life of me,i can not shake the idea of the next chick thinking i'm small when it comes to my dick.I've had every female that i been with attention when it comes to sex but still end up feelin insecure.Is this something we're born with--all jokes aside.At my max with pe i was 8.5 with a 6.5 girth.For me girth was easier to get and the length followed afterward.I've gone back to my ways and probably pe once a week.I lost a inch if not more in both length and girth.I still have had no problem in bottomin out on a female-and still feel small.I know its not the lack of pe because even at my my heaviest of way ins the feelin was still there.I've had my dick sucked(flaccid) in between anotha' womans legs and still felt small--is there something wrong with me?
Hey NYS, I hope the advice you have gotten has helped you battle these mental complexes. The penis to all men plays a unique role in their lives, if there were physical laws that governed the human body the penis would have a completely different set. It has a mind of it's own.
Keeping the strength of thought at the forefront of your problem I think the next step is to examine "the word". The word is the most powerful tool we have as intelligent, emotional beings. We use the word to communicate with one another for good and bad. The word, being such a simple thing, effects us in monumental ways. Consider this analogy, a father comes home from work after a terrible day at work, he is frustrated, upset, short of temper. His son was running about the house singing songs (the child aspired to be a singer and he was very talented.) His father, out of anger with himself says, shut up, your voice is ugly. The child hears this and never sings again, he suffers with confidence and the rest of his life he is plagued by insecurities, all because of the word. The word holds infinite power. Another man who used the strength of his word to destroy millions of people was Hitler. So you can see how powerful this is.
Now consider the word used on yourself. This happens everyday in many ways. It might be morning and your think to yourself, "I am happy, today will be great" and this comes to pass. The same thing can happen against ourselves in many ways but we will explore sexual issues. In your case the word(s) is "For the life of me,i can not shake the idea of the next chick thinking i'm small when it comes to my dick" In turn this mental poison festers, it grows and becomes more and more believable as the thought is repeated. So much so that you have already decided that every new girl that comes along is going to think what you think. You believe your word and because of this you have unwarranted fear. It makes no difference what the woman is really thinking because you are making yourself suffer because of a thought process that you have created somewhere in your past. Does she think you are small? Of course not, you are huge. And if you really think about this, you know you are huge but the conflict lays in a debate of reality and fantasy in your mind.
This debate will go on until you use the same word that got you thinking in such a negative way to take you out of it. I know I preach allot about mental penis enlargement and these lessons I give are not just for the men who Penis Enlargement they are for all men. As human beings we are addicted to suffering, we are the only species that punishes ourselves over and over for the same mistake. Animals in the wild make a mistake, learn from it and never suffer anymore for it. But we, through our addiction to suffering, punish ourselves over and over. We are literally in Hell on earth and to make it worse we are surrounded by people who do the same thing.
You need to change the thought, the word, the very thing that put you in this position. Realizing we are suffering for something that is not true is the first step. In your case it is the thoughts that every woman is going to think as you do. As I write this I am sure you see how sili the thought really is. It has no basis in reality, it is only a self-degrading fantasy...admit this to yourself. Next you need to replace the poisoned word with a new thought "I am a good man, I am confident, my mind is healthy, my body is beautiful. My penis is huge, I love my penis" This statement excludes the need to push our thinking on others, it erases the irrational texture of the infected word. It may feel strange at first and it will take time to de-root the old and plant the new but it will happen. Live my these two rules and you will be living in Heaven on earth:
1.) The word is the most powerful tool available to the human race
2.) Never make assumptions.
These two simple rules will eliminate everything you have ever made yourself suffer for.
Mike
