Gotta get back into the groove again

cladre60;765933 said:
The Kegel I try to do when I pee so I remember the way it's done.

Whatever else I'm doing I start by squeezing my butt cheeks in and then whatever muscles follow. It feels like I'm pushing my penis out even though when I watch on the BM guide it goes in a little.

Last night I was alternating the 2 every 10 reps for a total of 200 while in the BM. Doing this I'm breaking the 6" mark by the end of my sessions by almost 1/4" and coming out thicker than before. This is pretty much new territory in the BM for me as a year ago I was just breaking 6". This means 6.5" on the guide is coming soon! I only use the guide as an indicator of growth during a session and not a measurement but the further I go the longer I know I'm capable of reaching.

It looks like I've only got a few more weeks of consistent stretching before my wife has surgery and is home for 2 months. That'll be 3 months back in the routine and having to break it again :( I'll be able to do BM sessions still and should also be able to sneak a round of hand stretching here and there. I figure that will lock in whatever growth I've gained in 3 months while hopefully adding a little girth and then I'll be able to get back into stretching again. Repeat after me - PE is a marathon.

Going to do my stretching soon here. Wanted to run but my ankle is still bugging me from a few weeks ago. Really slacking on the running. I need to find another 5k and pay for it so I have more motivation to go running.
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Start planning today for the creativity your will need on her return. Sounds like you are doing kegels and reverse kegels just right. You will feel it through all of your core muscles. Let that angle heal completely before running, it could really hold you back if the injury persists. Your wife will be resting a lot too so think about that, you can probably get more in than you think.

DLD
 
doublelongdaddy;765963 said:
Start planning today for the creativity your will need on her return. Sounds like you are doing kegels and reverse kegels just right. You will feel it through all of your core muscles. Let that angle heal completely before running, it could really hold you back if the injury persists. Your wife will be resting a lot too so think about that, you can probably get more in than you think.

DLD
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Long trips to the throne and squeezing a round in before BM work. I think at worst I'll just "lock in" any gains I've made in past 3 months by doing that. I'm not too worried about it. BM work alone will still help if that's all I can manage but I'm certainly going to try to do more.
 
cladre60;765933 said:
The Kegel I try to do when I pee so I remember the way it's done.

Whatever else I'm doing I start by squeezing my butt cheeks in and then whatever muscles follow. It feels like I'm pushing my penis out even though when I watch on the BM guide it goes in a little.

Last night I was alternating the 2 every 10 reps for a total of 200 while in the BM. Doing this I'm breaking the 6" mark by the end of my sessions by almost 1/4" and coming out thicker than before. This is pretty much new territory in the BM for me as a year ago I was just breaking 6". This means 6.5" on the guide is coming soon! I only use the guide as an indicator of growth during a session and not a measurement but the further I go the longer I know I'm capable of reaching.

It looks like I've only got a few more weeks of consistent stretching before my wife has surgery and is home for 2 months. That'll be 3 months back in the routine and having to break it again :( I'll be able to do BM sessions still and should also be able to sneak a round of hand stretching here and there. I figure that will lock in whatever growth I've gained in 3 months while hopefully adding a little girth and then I'll be able to get back into stretching again. Repeat after me - PE is a marathon.

Going to do my stretching soon here. Wanted to run but my ankle is still bugging me from a few weeks ago. Really slacking on the running. I need to find another 5k and pay for it so I have more motivation to go running.
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I'm glad you are seeing some improvement in your BM routine. Indeed PE is a marathon :)
 
huge-girth;766015 said:
I'm glad you are seeing some improvement in your BM routine. Indeed PE is a marathon :)
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Seeing more length in the BM is awesome. Tells me my stretching is working.

Trying to do the RKs has me getting more girth during the sessions too. Still not ready for the winevac mod since I'm still feeling lots of suction without it. Trying to hold off on that until absolutely necessary so it's more effective when I do it.
 
cladre60;766058 said:
Seeing more length in the BM is awesome. Tells me my stretching is working.

Trying to do the RKs has me getting more girth during the sessions too. Still not ready for the winevac mod since I'm still feeling lots of suction without it. Trying to hold off on that until absolutely necessary so it's more effective when I do it.
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I only do normal Kegel during my bathmate session. I will have to do both type of Kegel henceforth.
 
Eventually you will want the wine vac as intensity will need to be higher and higher as you get bigger and bigger. So keep it in mind for later.
 
doublelongdaddy;766087 said:
Eventually you will want the wine vac as intensity will need to be higher and higher as you get bigger and bigger. So keep it in mind for later.
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I give him a few months from today and he is going to start complaining that he is no longer getting a good expansion after his sessions. All bathmate users go through this phrase.
 
I'll add the winevac when I need it. Evolution took time and so does PE.

Didn't get to stretch yesterday and didn't get to my BM session since I wasn't alone in the shower ;) About to knock out my stretching and should be able to get a BM session tonight.
 
We all know you are the very busy man but despite that, you are doing your best to make gains. We are solidly behind you with words of encouragement.
 
Thanks huge. It is hard to get PE in when you've got so much to do.

Didn't get my BM session in again last night but used my penis so that's okay ;) I think she's trying to get as much sex as possible before her surgery and no sex for 2 months after. Fortunately it's all with me.

Still did my stretching yesterday. Ran this morning for the first time in a week. About to get my stretching in today then head off to work.

Sorry BM, I miss you and it's been a few days. I promise we'll get some work in soon.
 
cladre60;766189 said:
Thanks huge. It is hard to get PE in when you've got so much to do.

Didn't get my BM session in again last night but used my penis so that's okay ;) I think she's trying to get as much sex as possible before her surgery and no sex for 2 months after. Fortunately it's all with me.

Still did my stretching yesterday. Ran this morning for the first time in a week. About to get my stretching in today then head off to work.

Sorry BM, I miss you and it's been a few days. I promise we'll get some work in soon.
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Time and schedules are tough sometimes so it is best to carve out a specific time, that is realistic, that you can dedicate to PE everyday. This may take creativity and tools but it can be done if you are creative enough to put time together. For me it was getting up an hour earlier, going bed an hour later, using my lunch break as a session, stretching under the covers, jelqing in the shower, using a Phallosan or SizeGenetcis that will do the stretching for you. Many places and times can be rearranged to get a lot in even on a limited schedule.
 
A lot of it for me is just getting up earlier. I get home and I'm not tired for hours. I'll stay awake far longer than I should without even thinking about it. Forcing myself to go to bed simply by looking at the time is usually the only reason I go to bed.

Didn't get my BM session in last night. I was not in the mood after having an extremely shitty day. To be honest I was downright miserable and going to bed was the only thing that was going to make it better. The worst part, for me at least, is I guess I was supposed to celebrate that I survived another journey around the sun on this planet or at least be in a positive mood over it.

No stretching this morning either since my wife was home. Should've just said fuck it I'm stretching anyway cause maybe that would've cheered me up a little. Not in the greatest mood today either but I'm trying.

Hopefully I can get to my BM tonight before she goes to bed so I can get a girth session in. Already know the next 2 days I have to get up much earlier than usual if I want to stretch. Hopefully I can get to bed early tonight.
 
Do you feel reluctant to get out of bed when yon wake up from your sleep? In the past I used to force myself to sleep and then find it difficult to get out of bed in the morning.
 
I've been waking up pretty fast the past few months. 2 days ago I woke up before my alarm and was right out of bed. Some mornings I'll hit snooze twice before getting up. I'm usually so annoyed at that point that I just get up and within a few minutes I feel wide awake. Still need a cup of coffee though, it's what I do.

My head just isn't in a great place right now. There's no risk of me doing something stupid like trying to kill myself but I'm not doing well mentally. It's not depression as I've dealt with that before.

I see my counselor on Thursday. Hopefully she can figure out how to get me out of this.

Didn't get my BM session. I did get a round of stretching in before a shower though.
 
as men, we take-on the burden of the entire family and it gets wearing...just knowing this sometimes helps, but it doesn't make you less tired. You're doing all the right things and eventually these have a way of enriching and recharging (it just may not seem like it at the time). I know that just making/seeing my SO's daughter smile/laugh gives me that little bit 'extra' that's needed :)
 
I've been run down for a long time. I believe I'm at a point where the choices I give others will determine who is in my life. I know which path I'm going, they're either in the car or finding a ride somewhere else. I can't control it but it does impact who's along for the ride.
 
cladre60;766533 said:
I've been run down for a long time. I believe I'm at a point where the choices I give others will determine who is in my life. I know which path I'm going, they're either in the car or finding a ride somewhere else. I can't control it but it does impact who's along for the ride.
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Perfect Analogy!
 
I am extremely fucking frustrated with the lack of PE and exercise the past 2 weeks. I'm trying to get to bed at a decent time so I'm up early enough for PE but there's always some type of bullshit going on to keep me up late or I've got something to do in the morning that ruins my time or my wife is home. All I'm trying to do is get things done that will better me and my life yet everything is going against me.

I'm extremely unhappy and just about to the point of anger. Everything and everyone wants to ruin my fucking day.
 
cladre60;766821 said:
I am extremely fucking frustrated with the lack of PE and exercise the past 2 weeks. I'm trying to get to bed at a decent time so I'm up early enough for PE but there's always some type of bullshit going on to keep me up late or I've got something to do in the morning that ruins my time or my wife is home. All I'm trying to do is get things done that will better me and my life yet everything is going against me.

I'm extremely unhappy and just about to the point of anger. Everything and everyone wants to ruin my fucking day.
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Boy I can relate to days like this. Take some time to yourself my Brother, do something nice for you! What can I do to help you feel better?
 
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