Discouraged and down.

Hello, just thought I'd share this with you guys.

Have been Penis Enlargementing for several weeks, have done basic stretches, 20 minutes daily... I'm not even sure If I see or should see any results whatsoever... because I never really managed to get a stable measurement of my penis from one day to the next, or even from one hour to the other. It fluctuates somewhere between 6.68 and 7 inches. Plus I doubt that I'm doing the exercises correctly.

My motivation is not helping, all this talks from women on the internet, these POLLs (misterpoll.com killed it) that 7 inches is the bare minimum for a women to find a penis enjoyable, but is FAR from perfect. I begin to doubt that the average penis size is 5.6 inches or even 6.5 . I am starting to wonder if it hasn't been lowered so that guys feel better about themselves.

How can you strive for improvement when you cannot be happy with what you have?

DLD instantly caught my respect when he explained one notion with which I agree totally, to start Penis Enlargement you must be happy with what you have and improve, so for you its like a "plus" not something you "must" do. 100% right, and its right in all fields of life.

Now that "happy with what I have", I can't have it. It even gets to the point where my insecurity stops me from approaching women. Perhaps it makes miss the opportunity to find a fulfilling relationship, unlike the ones I had.

What is your point of view on the matter guys?

I'm a newbie like you on the Penis Enlargement stuff. But I do know this-There is a strong correlation between confidence and penis happiness here. In other words, if you are proud of your penis, I think any woman will be impressed with it. There is no way the average penis size is 7" unless you mean Bone Pressed-but this site is the first place I've ever heard that term, so I would doubt it. I believe 6" is the correct average size. If you doubt this-look around this site, it still seems like a valid starting average for the group here from what I've seen.

Keep in mind the anorexic girl.... She is fucking gross-she is a goddamn toothpick (sorry, it's necessary that I cuss when I'm ranting)... no thighs, just sticks, makes you wonder if her pussy has sharp objects inside due to her 1.5% body fat issue. My point isn't to defile the anorexic girl-it is to point out that SHE THINKS SHE'S STILL FAT!!!!!!!! So don't be the anorexic girl. Your penis is clearly a fine size and likely bigger than at least half the guys that the girls you have been with have been with.... But if you pull your cock out like it's some green bean, that might very well indeed influence how she (whoever she is) sees it as well. So pull it out proudly like she just won some cock award and you are presenting it to her to drape over her shoulders. Yes, perhaps we should all have a cock so long it could be draped over the shoulders...

Back to the point-this is an attitude adjustment issue, and I think you sense that and I'm hoping you were seeking reassurance on this fact that you already know. Be proud of your meat, and when you approach the ladies-don't be subconsciously thinking about how you think your dick is small - or I predict a vicious cycle that could worsen. I hope you start approaching women-just to go to war with yourself... Don't you talk shit to yourself??? I know I do. It would sound like this "Fuck you, My cock is HUGE, watch me make this girl smile!!" And with that you approach her. Life is all a battle that takes place in the mind-if you forget this, you are losing the battle. Buck up, get an erection and go jab some hottie in the cervix.... that's my take on this.

Crazy Doc;423160 said:

"Fuck you, My cock is HUGE, watch me make this girl smile!!"

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Good self affirmation, Doc.

I felt not being happy with my meat was my motivation to hit the Penis Enlargement hard.

I like the way you think Doc, but don't you think that to prove something to one self you gotta love what you have first?

blueplasma;423188 said:

I like the way you think Doc, but don't you think that to prove something to one self you gotta love what you have first?

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It's a good "chicken or egg" question Blue... Look at it this way-if someone is freaking out, should you wait for them to calm down, or give them a good slap. I've seen the slap work lol.
I agree with you to some degree so the question is - how do you learn to love yourself? One way would be to fix your confidence, and you can fix it by refusing to fail and making efforts toward opportunities you see. So while scary, I still suggest that you start approaching women as your fears are unfounded... and all you're committing to is talking to them... You don't even have to flirt, just approach, try to stay calm and get them talking about themself/ves and see where it goes...

I love my penis as in "wow, we've had some fun together and he's rarely let me down"... but I don't love my size-I'd LOVE to be bigger. I too am a bit above average-but screw that, I want to be BIG. But you definitely need to be your cock's friend-at least see it as an asset, not a liability-that's very poor thinking that cannot help you. It's clearly starting to affect how you interact with women and so forth-so you need to curb that shit in my opinion. Ever watch Seinfeld? The character George has such poor thinking and decision making that he decides to do the opposite of all his instincts... and it works, he starts getting huge positive results. Perhaps a far fetched analogy-but this part rings true: What you ARE doing is NOT working, so please experiment and try something DIFFERENT. I'm not saying this is easy blue, but changing your behavior is as simple as closing your eyes and taking one step forward... just try it for a few minutes (like approach one female candidate) just to SEE.... and if you do decide to try it, I'd love to hear how it goes.

Lastly and back to your question, the ultimate answer is NO. You can prove things to yourself even if you HATE your penis. You just have to be willing to take a risk and go against your instincts. They could be wrong.

There isn't anything anybody wants that is for any other reason than that they think they would feel better in having it.

DOC:
I agree it IS very destructive thinking... but its just hard compare yourself to so many guys without feeling inadequate...

DLD:
YES
... but as you, DLD said, you have to love what you already have. No?
I agree with that philosophy.

Blueplasma aren't you the one with the updated video progress? You have made great progress and your size isn't bad either. When you feel inadequate it mostly has to do with your mentality and not your actual size. Women don't know if 5", 6", 7", 8", 9" is the size they want or not. Most women will confess they have had lovers with smaller sizes that where better in bed than bigger partners. I'm sure any of us would love to be the one all the girls talk about because of it not fitting inside them. If that is what you want then you are in the right place certainly to get that. Usually girls are plenty satisfied with 8x6 and that would still be a size queen in my book. You are not very far away from that and don't forget to keep in mind your BPenis EnlargementL measurement. Do you not own a Bathmate? I have made my penis look scary big since working with that over a year and I started with smaller stats than you. What website are your reading why are you caring about what some random people who probably aren't even taking accurate statistics say?

Turnover, you must be confusing me with someone else. 6.7 to 7.0 is the length I have had since before I started Penis Enlargement. I have never posted any video progress... I think I know who you are talking about his name starts with blue too.

However thanks for the response... But yeah there are many websites, like that poll on misterpoll.com, and that chart about the ideal penis size suggesting that you must be 8 inches long and 6.5 inches wide... I mean how can you compete with that?

blueplasma;423298 said:

Turnover, you must be confusing me with someone else. 6.7 to 7.0 is the length I have had since before I started Penis Enlargement. I have never posted any video progress... I think I know who you are talking about his name starts with blue too.

However thanks for the response... But yeah there are many websites, like that poll on misterpoll.com, and that chart about the ideal penis size suggesting that you must be 8 inches long and 6.5 inches wide... I mean how can you compete with that?

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Dude, I'm laughing as I read this. 8x6.5" mimimum? THat's just asinine.

The average penis size is about 5.5". Go to thundersplace.org. They collect statistical data on the penis size of every member. It's self reported, so if anything, it should skew larger. I downloaded it all as an excel file. There are about 12,000 entries. Guess what? The average is about 5.5". If anyone tells you the average is much above that, they're a dirty fucking liar and you should just laugh at them.

Also, check out lpsg.org. If 8" by 6.5" is ideal and the average and 7" is the bare minimum, why are there so few legitimate measured pictures of dicks that big? I'm telling you dude, that's bullshit.

Hang in there. Stay strong, and just focus on yourself. I'm the kind of person that can turn into OCD if I start comparing myself to other people and worrying about how I stack up. Just focus on you. You're more of a man than 95% of the guys out there just because you commit to better yourself and train at it regularly.

OMGOMGITSHUGE;423301 said:

If anyone tells you the average is much above that, they're a dirty fucking liar and you should just laugh at them.

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lol, Sing it Brother.

Are you a virgin? There is not a decent woman alive who would turn down 7", that is 1 inch below massive and is already huge in my opinion.

Turnover;423363 said:

Are you a virgin? There is not a decent woman alive who would turn down 7", that is 1 inch below massive and is already huge in my opinion.

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I agree

No I am not a virgin. Thank you for the support, I guess I do go OCD.
But the girlfriends I had were either the ones who approached me first, or whom I met by simple turn of events... It's like I don't have enough esteem to approach women I really I want myself... Like I am afraid to disappoint them, or more importantly to disappoint myself.

The stuff on the internet doesn't help. Its like it brings a doubt in your brain and it makes you start to put your sexual potential under question... I even noticed that this thinking makes me have weaker erections...It can really make me become nervous, unbalanced.

QUOTE:What is your point of view on the matter guys?

Does it really matter?
Either Penis Enlargement or don't; your dick, your satisfaction, your decision.
No one else on the entire freakin' planet will be substantially affected by your penis enlargement success or failure.
It's all you and only you. If you seem to "need" more motivation than that then you will probably half-ass your Penis Enlargement attempts and your worst fears will become the proverbial self-fulfilling prophecy.

Penis Enlargement for you; for your gains exclusively, your satisfaction exclusively, your reasons exclusively.
Or don't.
It's your dick...exclusively
And your decision...exclusively..

blueplasma;423243 said:

DOC:
I agree it IS very destructive thinking... but its just hard compare yourself to so many guys without feeling inadequate.

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In my experience, if I base my happiness on comparisons to others, the results are almost completely based on who I choose to compare myself to, not my own attributes or abilities. Restated, the results are almost completely dependent on who you choose to compare yourself to.

Clark, Max, Omg, Doc, Turn, DLD, you show the way of thinking and mental strength of REAL men, and I respect you a lot for that. You rule.
I hope I will find the strength to "grow up" (in both ways)

Mr._Clark;423428 said:

In my experience, if I base my happiness on comparisons to others, the results are almost completely based on who I choose to compare myself to, not my own attributes or abilities. Restated, the results are almost completely dependent on who you choose to compare yourself to.

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That was amazing I posted it in the Deep Quotes thread.

How ya doing, blueplasma? Feeling better?

Yeah better man, thanks.
Still feeling weird because of all the shit that people say on the internet though...
Pe-ing regularly, without measuring... telling myself that I already have the potential of being a great lover and that shallow hoes are not the type of women I'm looking for anyway.