Okay now thats cleared up and I know that I aint a baby seal
This girl however is rather odd around me .... I know the game and have had many woman but NEVER in work so I think its another mindset altogether and the first and lastime I tried with a woman in work it ended in massive disaster but I have moved on from that.
This girl I dont work much with her, about once per week and sometimes twice to three times per week in my five shift per week schedule.
We dont really speak much ... I get the feeling she feels odd around me, she seems shy and not very talkative at all which makes it hard for me to even approach her and speak.
The other guys at work [4 other male workers] giver her loads of attention apart from one who is gay. My mate who she told I was cute has a partner but flirts with her allot, fun flirting and they mess aroind with eachother while the otherguy who is a 110% wanker who thinks hes gods gift and shit has already asked her out and got knocked back for being too immature ... he follows her around the building, she allows it but apparently he doesnt do it like he once did ... she does play with him aswell, you know all that play pushing about and shit like that.
Now me .... hahaha I'm the strong silent type and many have said I look and act like a man of 33 not a boy of 23 ... I dont give her much attention and if I do its in SHORT doses ... never told her she looks great as to me very attractive woman hear this all day long and get bored with it.
If I get alone with her on break [rare] I speak to her but its been like a month since that happened ... borrowed her a
dvd the otherweek ... apart from that we dont have much contact, mainly due to us being on opposite shifts .... and when we do work its kinda breaking the ice which takes time with her I have found .... I think she might either #1 feel intimidated by my more masculine approach than the other 'boys' #2 Fancies me and therefore feels shy around me #3 Thinks I'm arrogant and therefore has little to do with me
I dont really wonna date her ... that would unleash HELL with the punk who works their and I cant take his antics cos if he starts with me I will pound each tooth from his jaw one by one and get sacked ... we are both banned from working together cos I will kick his arse in if he starts and that stemmed from him makeing false allegations that I abused patients ... long story but thats why I HATE HIM.
This whole situation annoys me sometimes because this girl says the word cute yet goes around and makes little effort in getting to know me ... but saying that I can be very hard to get to know and have strong armour in which many woman cant penetrate unless worth knowing ... she does try to make small talk if we are working together ..... I think I will try and be more nicer to her and speak more and see how it goes.
Any advice on this? comments on her behaviour.