doublelongdaddy;658222 said:
Wow, I could never do that, I would definitely have a terrible experience. Every girl I have ever been with I have had issues the first time we had sex. I really need to be comfortable and happy with the person before I have good sex.
i can relate to that. it takes some practice. especially since girls are alot more nervous when it comes to one night stands (our social status will increase. theirs might decrease. and heck the guy might be a psycho) for me it came natural as i had a lot of women friends when i grew up. and they all talked open about one night stand.
women use it like a tool.
"ye school is really hard so i just needed to get fucked really hard and forget about it all"
"ye i have gained a few pounds and i needed to be adored"
"i can't focus when im horny"
etc.
but mate. ask yourself this (and honestly! don't even answer in this thread cause this is very personal) is it the fear of not performing that triggers it? or is because you just need to build up a stronger connection?
and don't get me wrong i have no intention poking a soft spot without a possitive purpose. but you have given the expression recently that you don't really date.
and if this is due to fear.... sorry mate you need to get back on the horse.
and ye sometimes it goes wrong. and with your cock there will be a whole lot of "HOLYSHIT WTF IS THAT THING!" going on in the bedroom.
but i see this as part of life to be able to do.
i can cook a decent meal.
i can wash my own clothes.
i can clean my house.
i can seduce a woman i find beautifull and satisfy her in the bedroom.
i don't believe any of these things came natural. they came from experience and practice.
so. if you are telling me that you have tryed this enough and realized this is just not you. im feeling you dog. and i respect it!
but if this is fear holding you back..
you know what to do.
doublelongdaddy;658858 said:
or committing sin
im on the rightous side of hell my friend. as i don't belong in heaven
templnite;658315 said:
And for people who don't mind having disease.
i have had diseases twice. both from relationships with chicks who decided to cheat.
NEVER from one night stands.
use protection. Always use protection.