MoreThanLuck;688048 said:
Nice love/hate relationship you got there bro.
Wife admits she's a size queen
Nice love/hate relationship you got there bro.
Might be for the wrong reason, but it sure is motivating! Would I actually do it? Probably not. With great dick comes great responsibility 😁. I would love to turn the tables on her to just let her know what it feels like to live in that (at least I can deal, but can she?). I have my kids to think about first. They need their dad around.
Munto;688543 said:
Yeah, you never want to be in this spot. Mentally I've had to compartmentalize this and and step back a bit to really absorb what I was hearing. Then analyze myself a bit and my past. Honestly, my conclusion is that this is a one off problem with 1 woman. I don't have my self worth wrapped up in this . If she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it. Her opinion, and its valid. I just don't care, and I'm still getting mine! 😆
The biggest problem men have is attaching their self-worth to their size and ability to please another individual. Once you realize that it isn't your duty to take it upon yourself to be everything to anyone, then you begin the process of letting go of things and making yourself better for you. Your only competitor in life should be yourself. Always strive to be a better you, regardless of where you are.
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munto;688527 said:
true
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Munto;688535 said:So true.
Those teenagers these days with their loud music and their hula hoops and their hopscotch and their PlayStation and their lolipops...
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I f the Lady agrees whit that thats ok,but what would happen when she asks for a guy n wants you to watch while she gets screwed..LOL
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Munto;688635 said:a superficial one as hell, but hey you only live once
lightlyfried;688632 said:
When we seek revenge it puts us in a negative place so I think a better way to state this is Success is the only way! Looking good has always held so much value when the chops are down. Shit, even on my worst day I'm still flossing!
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The best revenge is to live a good life that's the real quote. I threw it out last year
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Yeah man its like when you're dippin thru traffic and someone decides to flip you off. Ya aren't gonna let that ruin your life right?
Update- So I've got the wife to agree to sex using only the penis extension thing that I have which increases my girth to 6.25. Also going down on her and using fingers is still in play, which is great cause these are all the things that make her satisfied and get her off fast which allows me to get to my PE work without having to waste a lot of time at night. My main goal is to kill off all masterbaiting (which is far and few in between anyways), and penetrative sex until I can reach my goal. I told her it would only be for a couple months, but she doesn't know that it will be more like a couple years. 😁 (we'll renegotiate when she starts asking questions). Dedication requires sacrifice brothers!
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a penis extension? How's that gonna work? Can you just order-up the perfect size for her and go at it? I'm curious what will happen when she becomes accustomed to it and then needs something bigger...you could end-up chasing an elusive size, all the while she's got you planted where she wants you...'Insecure Island' (I just made that up )
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Big Schwanz Acht;690783 said:a penis extension? How's that gonna work? Can you just order-up the perfect size for her and go at it? I'm curious what will happen when she becomes accustomed to it and then needs something bigger...you could end-up chasing an elusive size, all the while she's got you planted where she wants you...'Insecure Island' (I just made that up
shes got you plantd where she wants you.....wonder how many men have faced that situation.......thats a really bad thing to happen IMO
roflBig Schwanz Acht;690783 said:a penis extension? How's that gonna work? Can you just order-up the perfect size for her and go at it? I'm curious what will happen when she becomes accustomed to it and then needs something bigger...you could end-up chasing an elusive size, all the while she's got you planted where she wants you...'Insecure Island' (I just made that up
You just slip it over your junk and go to town. I can't feel a damn thing, but that's fine cause this is to keep her off my back without causing too many problems, and I get more time to PE. I couldn't find a 6 inch one (her perfect size) so I went with the 6.25 instead.
Im sure she will become accustomed to it and she probably will need something bigger, but that's her problem. This is just a problem that will happen anyway if I PE to the 6-6.25 EG level, so it doesn't really matter. I've already just given up on me being able to do anything for her sexually anyways.
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I have read cases of guys dealing whit that situation,girls want more and more and things will go off limits,theyd enjoy fist fucking in the long run, because there will be no other way to ""satisfy them"".
I have just realized that being concerned about that is a harmful thing..Women may use it to manipulate or even just to bother or make guys feel sad insecure and inadequate..
Is a complicated issue i think. There are so many things involved but things are going to get better for us..
I have just realized that being concerned about that is a harmful thing..Women may use it to manipulate or even just to bother or make guys feel sad insecure and inadequate..
Is a complicated issue i think. There are so many things involved but things are going to get better for us..
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doublelongdaddy;689450 said:
Looking Good and Well Endowed
lightlyfried;690795 said:
Indeed. We talked about this situation. She's worried as well that she'll just get use to it. I won't be surprised. I mean, that's what the human body does. It adapts to try and preserve itself. I just wonder though cause you always here about those size queens that kegel like crazy after they have sex with a monster and can maintain a relative amount of tightness. If a woman has sex with something larger, but never expands past the vaginas elasticity limit. Does the vagina ever actually get larger? I mean from what I can tell from my wife is that 6 inches EG seems to be the point at which she still feels full even after loosening up (which is what she desires because she can still feel it a whole lot). If we move past that point she starts to hurt more (which tells me the elasticity limit is moving). So 6-6.25 should be the sweet spot. I'll report back more if I start to see it changing.
shortdick;690804 said:I have read cases of guys dealing whit that situation,girls want more and more and things will go off limits,theyd enjoy fist fucking in the long run, because there will be no other way to ""satisfy them"".
I have just realized that being concerned about that is a harmful thing..Women may use it to manipulate or even just to bother or make guys feel sad insecure and inadequate..
Is a complicated issue i think. There are so many things involved but things are going to get better for us..
'I'll be damned if I gotta fist a bitch! ' 😂😂. Love that quote.
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I think this far outreaches the bedroom, there are some women who are NEVER satisfied with ANYTHING! They also seem to be the ones that know where our deepest insecurities lie and target them with impunity. For some reason it seems to coincide with their 'personal' stock beginning to decrease, i.e. they're no longer getting the attention that they're accustomed to receiving, their looks are beginning to wane, etc. and as men, our stock continues to rise from our 30's all the way through our 50's and beyond...we're more confident, we're in our money-making prime and don't forget that 'salt and pepper' we get in our hair, (it's like catnip for MILF's, lol)
Women in their 40's can begin to feel their 'expiration date' looming around the corner and will try the 'beat-down' method to make sure their man stays around when they start becoming truly 'unfuckable'.
Women in their 40's can begin to feel their 'expiration date' looming around the corner and will try the 'beat-down' method to make sure their man stays around when they start becoming truly 'unfuckable'.
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Big Schwanz Acht;690819 said:
I think you hit on a key note here. My wife has been pretty insecure with herself since she stopped breastfeeding for my daughter. Her 36DD titties that she's had on her tiny frame since I met her went straight down to a 34B. That's a huge difference and she knows it. So maybe some of this stems from that.
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yep but some women can keep their charm even at their 40sView attachment 31634 who wouldnt want a milf like that girl
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doublelongdaddy;690913 said:
thanks changing my whole existemce my life for good.Tons of things i want to achieve ...thanks for the support!!
hahaUpdate: So it's been a tad bit more than 2 months since we have not had sex. The wife insisted that we do not use the extension or dildo anymore so that left her with absolutely nothing. She's tried to initiate a couple times, but ultimately failed. Eventually we got into a fight about it, and I said that I really don't want to have sex with someone who doesn't enjoy it with me. I mean, how fair is that too me? So she melted down and now she wants to go get vaginal rejuvenation. Makes sense that she wants to do that since she's only been having sex with me for the last 15 years because, I quote: 'even though I hated having sex, it's what made you happy so I continued'. So she scheduled an appointment for sometime next month (apparently a lot of women do this, so she had to book further out).
We'll see how this [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]saga[/words] ends! In the next episode, she's scared and unsure. He's lost it all. The surgery is happening. What will the outcome be? Will they reunite? Will they ever have sex again? Next in, The Days of our Lives. 😂
We'll see how this [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]saga[/words] ends! In the next episode, she's scared and unsure. He's lost it all. The surgery is happening. What will the outcome be? Will they reunite? Will they ever have sex again? Next in, The Days of our Lives. 😂
What a shitshow, man. I hope the both of you get this worked out. Somehow.
I know. This seems like I never ending battle. , but good news is that I'm finally learning to just be happy with myself. Who cares that I don't do it for the wife. I'm definitely good enough for a lot of women and I'm by no means a bad looking dude and she knows it. She's seen first hand how women way more beautiful than her give me the 'fuck me' eyes. In the meantime, I'm working on my PE (just gained another 1/8 inch in girth recently), and I'm getting back to me, which is the most important thing.
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Rock-on bro! Every step you take in self-improvement, the more magnetic you become...although your wife will become increasingly insecure, (due to the fact that she's been unloving and abusive which will foster guilt and shame which will become toxic so be wary of her lashing-out in many different ways).
Keep up the positive mindset
Keep up the positive mindset
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doublelongdaddy;691141 said:
Thanks a ton D been feeling a bit better lately,still have tons of things to solve..:O
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doublelongdaddy;695420 said:
I appreciate your words,i know you are a wise brother and your teachings are a treasure!!
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Mate at some point it became you vs her. And that needs to stop! Women can get off rubbing up against another woman. So satisfying sex can obviously be archived without a coke can thick cock.
it seems to me that your wife loves you and wants to do just about anything for you. And that she is ashamed of her sex. Because she realized that it feels good to be stretched out.
my suggestion is to take a look with a new set of glasses. Go and read "the sex god method"
And yes this book does live up to its name!
Use the things you learned from that one. And when you think "holy shit! That worked" come back and i have some more tips.
sex should be 2 people meeting eachother not a fight about what sex fits what. I recently dated a chick who could take the head of her magic wand up her vag. I still made her cum by fucking her.
it seems to me that your wife loves you and wants to do just about anything for you. And that she is ashamed of her sex. Because she realized that it feels good to be stretched out.
my suggestion is to take a look with a new set of glasses. Go and read "the sex god method"
And yes this book does live up to its name!
Use the things you learned from that one. And when you think "holy shit! That worked" come back and i have some more tips.
sex should be 2 people meeting eachother not a fight about what sex fits what. I recently dated a chick who could take the head of her magic wand up her vag. I still made her cum by fucking her.
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magic wand head has a really big circumference,definitely you did something great by making her cum Great News!
Great News!
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Aimingforthetop;695780 said:
I'm certain their marital issues have very little, (or probably nothing) to do with the bedroom activities...it just manifested there. Funny things start happening to women as they reach their 40's and if they feel their not comfortable in their own skin and safe w/in their relationship, things begin to go sideways really quickly. That's when they'll systematically attempt to debase their spouse down to their level. They'll prey on the very thing that makes you insecure, (you've left bread crumbs over the years of what your fears and insecurities are and they've stored them away for future use) to make sure you stay in your place.
No doubt there are loving/caring relationships that work, but the vast majority fall into the category above...unfortunately