What happened with Jen and Me.
Cockolution said:Mike Fucking Salvini, I love you. You're an amazing man.
Redemption, rebirth, this echoes true in my life as well...I know how it is to be down, to lose everything, but to come back stronger than ever. Destruction breeds creation and your story epitomizes this.
I adore how you looked adversity in the face and tore it the fuck down. I could sit here all day and churn out accolades (demigod, superhero, bigger than Godzilla, etc.), but just know that I freaking love you.
Here's an e-toast to Mike Salvini: The man who's given thousands of men hope, risen from ashes that would cause a normal man to cut his throat, and has more than 10 inches of man-made schlongy rope! Here, Here!
The last thing I want to say, is that you have to fucking find Jen man. Yes, give her time to heal and whatnot, but pull some FBI/CIA search on her and find her. Hire a detective in a bit or something, I'm dead serious.
Make this happen bro, you deserve it, she deserves it, and it would make the most amazing love story. :blush:
Keep living strong bro, you're an inspiration to all of us.
You guys really get me, you really understand what I have been saying all this time. I knew some guys were listening but when I see guys I respect pay me some respect it is touching.
Nothing in my life, none of the pain I have been through has ever been in vain. Every piece of my life has been a part of a much larger mecca. I think my ability to embrace pain and learn from it has always been an advantage but my ability to re-emmerge a better person has always been my saving grace.
My version of Penis Enlargement came from the pain of my impotence. So much is contained in the former sentence and it applies to even the pain of Jen leaving me. I will not allow my pain to be in vain, nor will I allow my love for Jen suffer at the mind of a man not willing to embrace the wreckage of his past indiscretions. In the 5 months, since Jen has left me, I have changed more about myself, so much has happened, so many incredible, positive, miraculous changes...all inspired by the woman who broke my heart because she took her love away.
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I am already the best man I have ever been in my life and this all happened amidst the pain of Jen leaving. I am sure I will create something, a homage of the pain, this change, this love, this chapter of my life that has come to pass, something as great as [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]. Something great.
i don't usually post on here and only view periodically. i was reading your thread about you and jen. i went through almost an identical breakup, i know you probably don't believe me, reading it brought back memories very vivdly. i was telling people i still love her, i will wait for her forever, i don't want anyone else. i get the impression you feel the same. i hate to say it but it has been over 2 years and i still miss her sometimes but i had to go on with my life. i would strongly suggest that you begin accepting that it was an important part of your life but that your next journey is starting. if you two get back together it will be on her terms and your "moving on" will not effect a possible future reunion. i felt very quilty about moving on, seeing other girls and sometimes still do but it needs to be done. recently i have been very single(meeting women in bars for "adult fun" etc) and i sometimes get embarassed as i believe that my ex would be very disappointed with my choices and how could i go from a woman i loved to some "skank" i met in a bar. anyway it will be hard but you can't wait for her, you need to accept your situation and persevere.
you are a pe expert, i might actually be a long term relationship breakup expert. two years ago i didn't care if i lived or died. today i am happy although i am still looking for the "one" as i would like to be married someday and have a family. i think about her sometimes but i try to remember her as an important part of life but that i am a better person because of it.
good luck,
james from philly
you are a pe expert, i might actually be a long term relationship breakup expert. two years ago i didn't care if i lived or died. today i am happy although i am still looking for the "one" as i would like to be married someday and have a family. i think about her sometimes but i try to remember her as an important part of life but that i am a better person because of it.
good luck,
james from philly
goldeneye said:
James I appreciate you empathy and sympathy and I am humble in accepting your advice but I do not want anyone to get this twisted. I love Jen, I will always love her and if she ever does return and I am single, I will take her in my arms and never let her go. Period, no if's and's or buts's. but I am not sleeping over here, I have moved on with my life. I have changed my entire life for the better and it is due to the wreckage of a relationship that I fully accept to be over. I am currently talking with a few very nice woman but my requirements for a companion is slightly more demanding than a simple, normal, decent girl.
I wish it were not this way but let me lay it down and perhaps you will understand.
I am a very eccentric person, I have an I.Q. that would make most men go insane, I have very little education, I am a severely O.C.D. (obsessive compulsive) although it is in complete remission right now. When my O.C.D. is present I become agoraphobic and this can be a pain in the ass for a typical woman. I am very sensitive and loving but sometimes this is a downfall.
Without sounding extremely negative, I am a smart, successful, good looking, highly eligible single man. As I have stated, I have changed my life completely, any of the faults I had with Jen have been addressed and conquered. I started this single journey 5 months ago with a huge bag of issues. Today, although I am still alone, I am positive my next girl will have the best life and mate she could ever dream of.
I would kill to have this woman be Jennifer, the woman I love more than anything, but if it can't, I have accepted this and I will make a life and love with a new woman, when the time is right. I harbor no ill feeling toward jennifer and I only pray she has a great life with whoever she may be with.
Mike (DLD)
doublelongdaddy said:
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I'm glad to hear that things are looking up for you. May I offer a suggestion that has helped with my relationship with my wife, the site www.marriagebed.com has alot of infomation about relationships. It is mainly geared to the married but I beleive that anyone can learn from it.
Good luck and GOD bless!
Good luck and GOD bless!
Deranged Diva said:
I thought this simple response summed you up nicely Mike.
You're honesty, earnestness and incredible energy for supporting others is certainly what most endeared me to you and your site.
I've only just now read this thread and already it's moved onto a new, positive horizon.
Congratulations DLD!
Apply all your energy and love into making your relationship work....
And I'm sure it will sir.
J.O.
DLD, I think you opened your heart to everybody, including Jen. We have no idea what was going on, only your version, but it seemed genuine and honest, and I think you for it.
In my opinion, you are a genuine person, with a fetish that you placed above your lover and mate.
You've already made your position clear and you were totally honest. That you put this business over Jen. She was Mrs. Second-Rate, and [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] was First-Rate. That was a big mistake, and you admitted it.
I think one of your next projects should be to develop a philosophy that will endear you to all the women whom your effort supposedly supports. Any woman would worry that her man is going to love his dick more than her, after awhile. That he is going to go nuts. I don't blame her for that worry, because you have already proved it, and so have a lot of other guys in this forum.
What the hell's the matter with us? Either we are doing this for their benefit, or we are doing it despite everything they want to do for us! Either our motives are genuine and partly unselfish, or they are totally selfish and actually exclude them.
Would like to see a continuance of this discussion.
In my opinion, you are a genuine person, with a fetish that you placed above your lover and mate.
You've already made your position clear and you were totally honest. That you put this business over Jen. She was Mrs. Second-Rate, and [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] was First-Rate. That was a big mistake, and you admitted it.
I think one of your next projects should be to develop a philosophy that will endear you to all the women whom your effort supposedly supports. Any woman would worry that her man is going to love his dick more than her, after awhile. That he is going to go nuts. I don't blame her for that worry, because you have already proved it, and so have a lot of other guys in this forum.
What the hell's the matter with us? Either we are doing this for their benefit, or we are doing it despite everything they want to do for us! Either our motives are genuine and partly unselfish, or they are totally selfish and actually exclude them.
Would like to see a continuance of this discussion.