Vasectomy???

[dhj]

So the wife and I went Christmas shopping tonight. I'm 48 and she is 38. We have 2 children and are not planning anymore. She brings up that she thinks I should get a vasectomy. Now let me say needles such as shots, tattoos (have several) do not bother me. But when I have a mental image to sharp objects around my man meat it literally makes me sick. My dick aches right now just typing it. I tried to dodge the issue saying it was unfair. She went into a speech how it's so much easier for a man than a woman to get fixed. I said I aint talking about that what is unfair maybe my next wife will want kids! Didn't go over the best. Then I said I would rather have a bj's the rest of my life before getting cut. Well, shit that ain't going to happen either. I geuss my question to any brothers out there is, a BIG IF I get a vasectomy how long will that put out of PE? Seems like I would be out for at least 6 weeks or maybe longer. I really don't want to do that either. Has anyone out there in PE land been cut and doing PE at the same time?

 

[youknowme123321]

So the wife and I went Christmas shopping tonight. I'm 48 and she is 38. We have 2 children and are not planning anymore. She brings up that she thinks I should get a vasectomy. Now let me say needles such as shots, tattoos (have several) do not bother me. But when I have a mental image to sharp objects around my man meat it literally makes me sick. My dick aches right now just typing it. I tried to dodge the issue saying it was unfair. She went into a speech how it's so much easier for a man than a woman to get fixed. I said I aint talking about that what is unfair maybe my next wife will want kids! Didn't go over the best. Then I said I would rather have a bj's the rest of my life before getting cut. Well, shit that ain't going to happen either. I geuss my question to any brothers out there is, a BIG IF I get a vasectomy how long will that put out of PE? Seems like I would be out for at least 6 weeks or maybe longer. I really don't want to do that either. Has anyone out there in PE land been cut and doing PE at the same time?

I think most doctors say 10 days before sex. So i would guess longer then that for PE. Some forms of PE would probably be more risky like pumping. manual stretches probably would be fine to do. what do you do for PE?

 

[dhj]

what do you do for PE?[/QUOTE]
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[DLD]

Most men say 7-10 days before sex and I would think the same applies to most PE. If you need stitches it may take longer, maybe 2 weeks for it to heal and have stitches removed. In my personal opinion I would go for more kids but I love children and would never want to do something permanent that I may change my mind on down the road.

 

[touchmyjunk]

I suggest the no scalpel vasectomy. They make a little tear on the underside near the base with some pointy tweezers. Area is already numb with a pneumatic shot of lidocaine. Just a small pinch, and then a few minutes later another small pinch as they do the other tube. Whole procedure takes like 15 minutes. No stitches.

The Dr I went to normally uses hemoclips (rice sized clamps) on the tube ends which are quick and reliable. But I just didn't want to feel any foreign material down there so I asked to have silk (sutures) used on the ends. It's not as reliable and takes a little longer.

Since there is a small tear/blemish, I suggest not using any pump exercise until it heals. Stretch is fine though you may not want to do it for a few weeks depending on pain. My Dr recommended ejaculation after a day or two, and then pretty much you have to do it once or more per day to clear out the tubes. Something like 6 weeks and 20 ejaculations before you send in a sample for testing.

 

[DLD]

I suggest the no scalpel vasectomy. They make a little tear on the underside near the base with some pointy tweezers. Area is already numb with a pneumatic shot of lidocaine. Just a small pinch, and then a few minutes later another small pinch as they do the other tube. Whole procedure takes like 15 minutes. No stitches.

The Dr I went to normally uses hemoclips (rice sized clamps) on the tube ends which are quick and reliable. But I just didn't want to feel any foreign material down there so I asked to have silk (sutures) used on the ends. It's not as reliable and takes a little longer.

Since there is a small tear/blemish, I suggest not using any pump exercise until it heals. Stretch is fine though you may not want to do it for a few weeks depending on pain. My Dr recommended ejaculation after a day or two, and then pretty much you have to do it once or more per day to clear out the tubes. Something like 6 weeks and 20 ejaculations before you send in a sample for testing.

Excellent post and thanks for the better information from your own experience, this is a great help.

 

[stillwantmore]

If you are SURE, 100% you don't want more children, go for it. I had it done about a year ago. It's a simple, painless procedure. No future worries of "accidents", or scares with pregnancy. I went in, got numbed...two small pricks that you barely feel as they are done in just the surface if I recall it right. There's a slight "pulling" sensation during the procedure when the Dr. pulls out some of your Vas-deferens which they sever and then tie off. If you've had numbing for a dental procedure, it's about 1% of that sensation. I got I think, 2 stitches that dissolve on their own over a couple weeks. So, no need for a follow up visit/check. After that I had a few days of some discomfort as if I'd been bumped in the balls. Pretty basic wound care to ensure proper healing. Healing took about two weeks counting the sutures/stitches dissolving/coming out. I went once at 2 months post op and then again 6 months post op for semen analysis. That's to make sure all your swimmers are out of the pool. Both came back negative. No more condoms! Then again, I'm married.
Again, be sure you are done with children. There's a small chance of reversing the procedure, but for men, it's pretty much a done deal. The body usually creates antibodies against your own semen due to "leakage" of sperm into the surrounding areas of the vasectomy. Yep, you're likely to become immune to your own sperm and therefor completely sterile. You can of course have your woman get fixed, or freeze some of your sperm.

 

[DLD]

If you are SURE, 100% you don't want more children, go for it. I had it done about a year ago. It's a simple, painless procedure. No future worries of "accidents", or scares with pregnancy. I went in, got numbed...two small pricks that you barely feel as they are done in just the surface if I recall it right. There's a slight "pulling" sensation during the procedure when the Dr. pulls out some of your Vas-deferens which they sever and then tie off. If you've had numbing for a dental procedure, it's about 1% of that sensation. I got I think, 2 stitches that dissolve on their own over a couple weeks. So, no need for a follow up visit/check. After that I had a few days of some discomfort as if I'd been bumped in the balls. Pretty basic wound care to ensure proper healing. Healing took about two weeks counting the sutures/stitches dissolving/coming out. I went once at 2 months post op and then again 6 months post op for semen analysis. That's to make sure all your swimmers are out of the pool. Both came back negative. No more condoms! Then again, I'm married.
Again, be sure you are done with children. There's a small chance of reversing the procedure, but for men, it's pretty much a done deal. The body usually creates antibodies against your own semen due to "leakage" of sperm into the surrounding areas of the vasectomy. Yep, you're likely to become immune to your own sperm and therefor completely sterile. You can of course have your woman get fixed, or freeze some of your sperm.

Never knew you had this done, great explanation. Are you sure you do not want kids? Your still so young.

 

[stillwantmore]

We have a beautiful little girl now Mike.

 

[DLD]

We have a beautiful little girl now Mike.

I did not know, congratulations Dad!

 

[dhj]

Well, she brought it up again today. I artfully side stepped it like a dodge ball champion. I'm just not sold on it. Nausea just thinking about it. I do appreciate the responses and I have learned some things in regards to it.

 

[DLD]

Well, she brought it up again today. I artfully side stepped it like a dodge ball champion. I'm just not sold on it. Nausea just thinking about it. I do appreciate the responses and I have learned some things in regards to it.

It is totally up to you, if you do not want to do this don't.

 

[DLD]

This is totally up to you, if you do not want to do this, don't.

 

[touchmyjunk]

Nausea just thinking about it.

I'm pretty squeamish but it didn't bother me. A lot depends on the doctor and technique. Mine has done 30,000 vasectomies and it is done in about 10 minutes, with your pants still on LOL.

No scalpel. Swallow antibiotic pill and put on paper jock strap in bathroom. Called in, small discussion and agree on any specific requests. Drop pants to ankles and lay back on the table. Dick is taped to belly. He uses a hypospray (like Star Trek) to anesthetize and that is totally painless. Then he finds the tubes and lightly clamps them so they are right under the skin. Then a small tear is made in the skin with the pointy tweezers. Painless. A tube sheath (like wire insulation around the tube) is pulled a little bit, then split to reveal the tube. A small section of tube is cut out, ends cauterized and clamped or sutured, and then one end is left outside of the sheath as a double measure. Small gauze and tape, and then pants up and drive off.

A couple of days later, jerk off daily to clear the pipes. Small amount of blood may be present in semen. Definitely wear a jock strap if you are going to be walking throughout the day. The amount of pain afterwards differs from person to person. I had a bit of tenderness on one side for a few weeks which kept me wearing the jock strap.

 

[dhj]

I'm pretty squeamish but it didn't bother me. A lot depends on the doctor and technique. Mine has done 30,000 vasectomies and it is done in about 10 minutes, with your pants still on LOL.

No scalpel. Swallow antibiotic pill and put on paper jock strap in bathroom. Called in, small discussion and agree on any specific requests. Drop pants to ankles and lay back on the table. Dick is taped to belly. He uses a hypospray (like Star Trek) to anesthetize and that is totally painless. Then he finds the tubes and lightly clamps them so they are right under the skin. Then a small tear is made in the skin with the pointy tweezers. Painless. A tube sheath (like wire insulation around the tube) is pulled a little bit, then split to reveal the tube. A small section of tube is cut out, ends cauterized and clamped or sutured, and then one end is left outside of the sheath as a double measure. Small gauze and tape, and then pants up and drive off.

A couple of days later, jerk off daily to clear the pipes. Small amount of blood may be present in semen. Definitely wear a jock strap if you are going to be walking throughout the day. The amount of pain afterwards differs from person to person. I had a bit of tenderness on one side for a few weeks which kept me wearing the jock strap.

Was you doing PE at the time, if so how long was you out of doing PE?

 

[pogzee]

i think there are pills for women that will make sure that they dont get pregnant for 5 years then why get vasectomy done ????

 

[touchmyjunk]

Was you doing PE at the time, if so how long was you out of doing PE?

I took around two weeks off PE. Also I waited until the skin completely healed before pumping.

 

[kofandy2001]

As long as your sure you don't want kid! Then I think it is by far the best birth control method. If your dicussion fairness issues... Women have to give birth and go through labor. It is only fair the men at least take this route into consideration.

I had mine done few years back! It is a very simple and plainless precedure. No side effects at all besides a bit of blue balls from my body adjusting the first month of recovery phases.

 

[DLD]

As long as your sure you don't want kid!

That is why I would never get it...I want to have kids into my 80's!

 

[templnite]

I want to have many kids too:blush: Maybe ill have seven the perfect number.

 

[DLD]

I want to have many kids too:blush: Maybe ill have seven the perfect number.

I am already a grandfather and I still want my children I have just one Son but I would like to have 10 more kids! I need to find a you girl who wants babies! Nothing, and I mean nothing, brings me more joy than the children! Check my FaceBook page to see my kids.

 

[templnite]

One for every inch or what?

 

[DLD]

One for every inch or what?

That would be about right

Bless the Children, for they shall inherit the Kingdom of God!

 

[templnite]

Psalm 127:3-5
Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him.
Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth.

Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them.
They will not be put to shame when they contend with their opponents in court.

 

[DLD]

Psalm 127:3-5
Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him.
Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth.

Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them.
They will not be put to shame when they contend with their opponents in court.

"The sins of the father shall follow the children." Very good verse to remember when we feel like doing wrong, we need to remember that our children follow what we do, not so much what we say.

 

[templnite]

1 Corinthians 2:4
And my speech and my preaching were not with enticing words of man’s wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power,

The best way to lead is by example you're right. Not by giving lifeless sermons.

 

[DLD]

1 Corinthians 2:4
And my speech and my preaching were not with enticing words of man’s wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power,

The best way to lead is by example you're right. Not by giving lifeless sermons.

Very true. My Son is a great man because I always set a good example. I am a good man because my family did the same