This Might Be Awkward: It Involves Ur Asshole...

Well, I did receive Kegel instructions and it did state to do them in different poses, standing, sitting and laying down.

So, positioning yourself as you explained seems reasonable. In the instructions it was stated that it's best to do three different types of Kegels. Short bursts (1 sec hold, release and repeat 100% force), longer 5 second holds (100%) with 10 second break and lastly 60% force 10-20 seconds with 20 second breaks. Any of those 3 times a day.
And also to vary these, just one type a day and two rest days a week, not following days though.

If you're feeling good about what you're doing and there are no ill side effects, then I say go for it.
And about the hold feeling / not feeling the Kegel so strongly anymore; maybe it's a [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sign[/words] that one session is done. Just a gut feeling!
 
Are you hurting anyone or yourself? If no then do what you want if it works.

And yes sometimes i feel my butthole flexing when I kegel. Hell on a few rare occasions I've had an orgasm so strong I could feel it moving. Very strange butt didn't freak me out.
 
I've been doing Kegel for few days now. I've never been consistent with it. I'm trying to make it an habit now. After reading arkailija's post, I've decided to try out his method. Whenever I do Kegel be it sitting, standing or laying on the bed, I always feel it in my butt hole so I know I'm doing the right thing. But some times my butt holes feels some sort of fatique when I do it so I think I need to include off days in my own case.

So starting from today, I will start taking off days, one day on and one day off
 
huge-girth;759370 said:
I've been doing Kegel for few days now. I've never been consistent with it. I'm trying to make it an habit now. After reading arkailija's post, I've decided to try out his method. Whenever I do Kegel be it sitting, standing or laying on the bed, I always feel it in my butt hole so I know I'm doing the right thing. But some times my butt holes feels some sort of fatique when I do it so I think I need to include off days in my own case.

So starting from today, I will start taking off days, one day on and one day off

It is a muscle so it does need some rest.
 
cladre60;759422 said:
It is a muscle so it does need some rest.

I do get tired after doing it for a while. I will try to see what I can do about it to stay consistent
 
huge-girth;759574 said:
I do get tired after doing it for a while. I will try to see what I can do about it to stay consistent

I've been horrible about doing them. Getting my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] routine going again should cure that. I like doing the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] Hardcore Stretches and doing kegels at the same time. They're harder to do and the benefits are awesome. It's giving you length, girth, and kegel work all at the same time.
 
cladre60;759640 said:
I've been horrible about doing them. Getting my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] routine going again should cure that. I like doing the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] Hardcore Stretches and doing kegels at the same time. They're harder to do and the benefits are awesome. It's giving you length, girth, and kegel work all at the same time.

Same with me, I find it easier to do together with my girth session and once you do it together with your girth session, I give you 30 days you endurance level will increase and if you try masturbating or initiate sex, you will last longer than usual.
 
huge-girth;759698 said:
Same with me, I find it easier to do together with my girth session and once you do it together with your girth session, I give you 30 days you endurance level will increase and if you try masturbating or initiate sex, you will last longer than usual.

Doing them can help for sure.
 
cladre60;759640 said:
I've been horrible about doing them. Getting my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] routine going again should cure that. I like doing the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] Hardcore Stretches and doing kegels at the same time. They're harder to do and the benefits are awesome. It's giving you length, girth, and kegel work all at the same time.

With HardCore Stretches you should be using a reverse kegel not a kegel. A kegel will hold back against the stretch, the reverse kegel will allow the stretch to have no interference.
 
if you're in your [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words], give this a shot...pump to your max, then press the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] tighter to your body and hold a Kegel, then take your VV pump and increase the pressure very slightly (I feel a tingle in my glans when I do this), then release and reverse kegel while simultaneously pulling the cylinder for an expressive stretch...rinse/repeat
 
doublelongdaddy;759950 said:
With HardCore Stretches you should be using a reverse kegel not a kegel. A kegel will hold back against the stretch, the reverse kegel will allow the stretch to have no interference.

I'd have to learn the RK. When I do kegels while [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] stretching it's not long held kegels, they're 1 second kegels.

Need to figure out the sleeve thing so I can start doing [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] stretches again. Let's keep that discussion to the other thread though.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;759956 said:
if you're in your [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words], give this a shot...pump to your max, then press the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] tighter to your body and hold a Kegel, then take your VV pump and increase the pressure very slightly (I feel a tingle in my glans when I do this), then release and reverse kegel while simultaneously pulling the cylinder for an expressive stretch...rinse/repeat

I'm going to give this a try when I resume training girth.
 
iGrowSteady;762368 said:
Hey quick question, didn't want to start a new thread for this, but in nosing around the forum \ videos I found StormX30's [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] Hardcore Stretch video, and wanted to make sure that they also help with girth work.

Suction + Stretching at the same time. It will work both.
 
iGrowSteady;760440 said:
[MENTION=138430]arkailija[/MENTION] – Okay, interesting stuff! So to be safe, that routine you recommended three times a day, how many reps with each set? (If I’m even asking the question correctly!) But yes, no side effects at all, just want to make sure I’m not wasting my time; but the best part is getting them into my routine that way is motivating me to do them throughout the day!

It’s funny though, even doing them now sitting with my legs crossed, I can feel my asshole is involved in the exercise as well, which isn’t a bad thing I’m guessing. And with all this talk of reverse kegling I’m thinking it’s more than time to integrate them into my routine… I’m thinking while I’m using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]X30[/words] in the tub.

Whoops, time goes by fast, my bad for not answering! With Max power 5 sec, 10 sec rest, 5 repeats.
Speed 10-15 reps without breaks.
[words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]Stamina[/words] 5-10 times of the 60% 10-20 kegels.
I hope that clarifies; I know the numbers aren't very big considering some tell about 100 - 500 repetitions of some Kegels. Moderation is key. One can overtrain and then the benefits might not be present.
Even my instruction sheet says not do overdo it, as it can cause more incontinence.

Good to hear that your training is going well though!
 
iGrowSteady;762654 said:
[MENTION=202030]cladre60[/MENTION] – Sounds good! For some reason I don’t always associate the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] with girth work so much as length, though obviously both are increased when using it… When I’ve done stretches in the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] before it always felt like the focus was on length more so than girth, though I’m happy to give it another go!

[MENTION=43377]ark[/MENTION]ailirja – No you’re fine, and you definitely have it down to a science. Good point about not wanting to over train, and that it could lead to negative affects. And yeah man, I mean so far so good… For what I’m able \ willing to do (and spend!) I’m definitely bigger than I was at the beginning of this; but still find myself very much wanting to just get a bit more than where I am now.

When I was doing [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] hardcore stretches I was insanely thick after each session. Obviously I gained length from them too but the girth was amazing. Still need to get a sleeve so I can do them again.
 
cladre60;762706 said:
When I was doing [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] hardcore stretches I was insanely thick after each session. Obviously I gained length from them too but the girth was amazing. Still need to get a sleeve so I can do them again.

Do you put your balls inside the pump while doing those stretches?
 
Big Schwanz Acht;762759 said:
try both at a low pressure and see what you think (it does take a bit to get used to)

I enjoy my balls being licked and even when a woman puts one in her mouth but I don't like them sucked on. I've tolerated extremely gentle sucking cause the girl wanted to show off or whatever but always end up telling them just lick and fondle.

I can give it a try though. Maybe I find it okay. [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Comfort pad[/words] may have to come out though.
 
cladre60;762778 said:
I enjoy my balls being licked and even when a woman puts one in her mouth but I don't like them sucked on. I've tolerated extremely gentle sucking cause the girl wanted to show off or whatever but always end up telling them just lick and fondle.

I can give it a try though. Maybe I find it okay. [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Comfort pad[/words] may have to come out though.

It's strongly advisable for every [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words] user to ditch the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]comfort pad[/words]. Using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words] without [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]comfort pad[/words] allows for massive expansion at the base.
 
I don't mind the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]comfort pad[/words]. I haven't filled it with my base girth yet during a pumping session.

Still need a sleeve to narrow the opening to penis only. Gotta get a friend to order a few for me. Thats one of the downsides of being married to someone you're keeping PE from.
 
cladre60;762821 said:
I don't mind the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]comfort pad[/words]. I haven't filled it with my base girth yet during a pumping session.

Still need a sleeve to narrow the opening to penis only. Gotta get a friend to order a few for me. Thats one of the downsides of being married to someone you're keeping PE from.

If you have PayPal, you can send the money to DLD and have him place the order for you. He does it for me ever since I've been here.
 
huge-girth;762843 said:
If you have PayPal, you can send the money to DLD and have him place the order for you. He does it for me ever since I've been here.

Joint checking account so there's the "oh, what'd you order?" just out of curiosity. Then I've gotta lie and I don't like that.
 
cladre60;762875 said:
Joint checking account so there's the "oh, what'd you order?" just out of curiosity. Then I've gotta lie and I don't like that.

I understand. Just find a way to sort it out
 
huge-girth;762886 said:
I understand. Just find a way to sort it out
I Have a friend who said he'd order them for me and ship it to his house if I give him the cash. I hardly ever have cash on me anymore and when I do I forget about it :o I'll get cash soon.
 
cladre60;762914 said:
I Have a friend who said he'd order them for me and ship it to his house if I give him the cash. I hardly ever have cash on me anymore and when I do I forget about it :o I'll get cash soon.

Do what you have to do, time waits for no one. I have 12 days left to complete 6 months of consistent PE. I feel excited about this :)
 
huge-girth;762924 said:
Do what you have to do, time waits for no one. I have 12 days left to complete 6 months of consistent PE. I feel excited about this :)

I'm just over a month back at it. PE is as good for my mental health as running 3x a week. Getting larger is obviously the goal but giving myself something to do and being involved in this community is a good thing for me.
 
cladre60;762947 said:
I'm just over a month back at it. PE is as good for my mental health as running 3x a week. Getting larger is obviously the goal but giving myself something to do and being involved in this community is a good thing for me.

Actually, I rather stay involve here on the forum instead of spending time with friends
 
huge-girth;763057 said:
Actually, I rather stay involve here on the forum instead of spending time with friends

Not me. I wish I had more people living around me that I liked. I'm extremely picky when it comes to those I hang around with. If we have nothing in common or they don't interest me I see no point. Makes it hard to have friends.
 
iGrowSteady;763186 said:
[MENTION=202030]cladre60[/MENTION] – Okay great, hope I can relate! Tell me, where they anything like StormX30’s? Bathmate Hardcore Stretches - Slutload.com

Hmmm, I didn't hold the 3rd ring of the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words], I just pulled on the entire thing. Maybe I should try that.

I figured I'm in the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] so pull hard and that'll stretch everything. That video is probably the best way to do it.


Now of you'll excuse me I need to watch "teen in stockings hardcore fuck."
 
cladre60;763171 said:
Not me. I wish I had more people living around me that I liked. I'm extremely picky when it comes to those I hang around with. If we have nothing in common or they don't interest me I see no point. Makes it hard to have friends.

Yesterday, after my first 20 mins [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]length master[/words] session, a friend of mine paid me an unexpected visit and took me out. I spent the whole day outside smoking and arrived back home late. That dude interrupted my session and he also said he will be visiting more often. I told him I will be traveling this week just to scare him away from visiting so he won't interrupt my session next time.
 
huge-girth;763210 said:
Yesterday, after my first 20 mins [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]length master[/words] session, a friend of mine paid me an unexpected visit and took me out. I spent the whole day outside smoking and arrived back home late. That dude interrupted my session and he also said he will be visiting more often. I told him I will be traveling this week just to scare him away from visiting so he won't interrupt my session next time.

If you're able to do the work later in the day it doesn't hurt to go do things with a friend. Plus a day off from time to time doesn't hurt.
 
iGrowSteady;763350 said:
[MENTION=202030]cladre60[/MENTION] - Great, yeah I mean you're already in it \ using it, so may as well make the most of it! And ha, yep, if you're gonna fuck, may as well make it hardcore! (So I've been told:)

When I started using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] again I tried doing hardcore stretches and on the 2nd or 3rd pull I felt a sharp pain where I had a hernia repair done in November. It scared me away from doing them. However I wasn't holding the base. I tried doing a few after you posted that video and it's really hard to do but it was working.

I prefer the term "sensual fucking." It's all nice and sweet but hot and dirty and the same time. If you can pull that off with a woman she'll rank you the best lover she ever had and add 3" to your dick size when she tells her friends.
 
cladre60;763315 said:
If you're able to do the work later in the day it doesn't hurt to go do things with a friend. Plus a day off from time to time doesn't hurt.

Most times when I go out, I always smoke so much before coming back home and when I'm back home, I don't have the desire to do PE until the following day.
 
huge-girth;763382 said:
Most times when I go out, I always smoke so much before coming back home and when I'm back home, I don't have the desire to do PE until the following day.

I can see that. When you're high as a kite doing something uncomfortable isn't exactly on your mind.
 
iGrowSteady;763471 said:
Oh yeah, I would imagine you would have to be a bit more careful \ aware of your body having had hernia repair. And clearly I'm still surprised that something that look \ feels like it would only focus on length does girth as well, and isn't all that complicated to do... Though it's a more active exercise as opposed to just passively lying in the tub and pumping here and there for fifteen + minutes!

And fawk yeah dude, both mild and wild, if combined properly, would be wonderful for both parties... At least I can assume so, the same going for her hopefully pleased reaction, lol!

The whole hernia repair thing has sucked big time. Since getting back into PE and starting running it feels like it's getting better. I think the doc stitched the muscle together too tight and I'm loosening it up. At least that's what I hope I'm doing.

Sex is my sport. It's the only one I'm good at. Need a lot more of it in my life.
 
cladre60;763396 said:
I can see that. When you're high as a kite doing something uncomfortable isn't exactly on your mind.

Exactly and the annoying part of it is that, those guys (friends) will want to spend time with me during the day time when I'm doing my session. I'm only free from 6pm in the evening. So now I'm avoiding them until I get to my length goal which is less than a year from today. I'm happy about all of this though.
 
huge-girth;763496 said:
Exactly and the annoying part of it is that, those guys (friends) will want to spend time with me during the day time when I'm doing my session. I'm only free from 6pm in the evening. So now I'm avoiding them until I get to my length goal which is less than a year from today. I'm happy about all of this though.

That's a pretty easy one to solve by simply telling them your days are busy, evenings are free. Once you cut friends out of your life is hard to get them back.
 
cladre60;763528 said:
That's a pretty easy one to solve by simply telling them your days are busy, evenings are free. Once you cut friends out of your life is hard to get them back.

Most of those guys are only good for smoking marijuana. They are not ambitious and I am the ambitious type. IMO, they are dream killers only good for smoking together.
 
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