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1) Even if you don't have premature ejaculation issues, can still help to increase your [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] if you use it smartly on a progressive edging routine? Think of it like tailoring some sort of edging program with the device, could i possibly see an improvement on my initial [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] over time?
2) I know it's not a magical device, but could the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words] aid with the feel of getting your penis/mind/body more used, or at least accustomed to the sensations of intercourse?
I think i have some form of performance anxiety issues, and i wanted to know if it might contribute to get rid, or at least ease it a bit, because the first times i have sex with a girl, i always get very nervous and self-conscious about the act of PIV sex, and that jeopardizes my erection quality.
I must confess that the first gf i had, on my late twenties, rejected me because of that, although she didn't say it explicitly, but after several failed attempts of having sex, because of getting nervous, condom anxiety, getting this weird feeling of penetration which i wasn't used to, and all of that, she rejected me after a month, and more or less she swiflty revealed to me that for her, i was an inexperienced person and she didn't have the patience to cope with that.
I'll never forget when she condescendingly said to me "you have not lived all you had to live" or in spanish "no has vivido todo lo que tenías que vivir", with a pitiful tone, and broke up with me.
I felt humiliated. I felt broken. Destroyed from the inside out, and i'm in tears as i type this
.
She... broke my soul. She broke my soul and left me scarred for life, guys. I've never been the same person anymore, even after being with other girls (not serious relations, but with the level of intimacy of one) , but i always had those performance issues at the first sessions of sex. The ghost of that first girl, that face, those painful words, it all always returns to hit me deep on my spirit from time to time, and i think it reflects sexually on me, because of the intrinsic nature of intimacy of sex.
Sorry to bother you with my issues, brothers, but i really want to fight that, i don't wanna give up and if i get with a new girl in the future (i'm single right now), i want, no, i NEED to make my damn best to ensure that i don't have the same issues again. So if doing sport and releasing adrenaline helps, if some relaxation techniques can help, if mental tips can help, and having a positive attitude can as well help, could this sex toy add its bit to my problem?
Thanks in advance.
1) Even if you don't have premature ejaculation issues, can still help to increase your [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] if you use it smartly on a progressive edging routine? Think of it like tailoring some sort of edging program with the device, could i possibly see an improvement on my initial [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] over time?
2) I know it's not a magical device, but could the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words] aid with the feel of getting your penis/mind/body more used, or at least accustomed to the sensations of intercourse?
I think i have some form of performance anxiety issues, and i wanted to know if it might contribute to get rid, or at least ease it a bit, because the first times i have sex with a girl, i always get very nervous and self-conscious about the act of PIV sex, and that jeopardizes my erection quality.
I must confess that the first gf i had, on my late twenties, rejected me because of that, although she didn't say it explicitly, but after several failed attempts of having sex, because of getting nervous, condom anxiety, getting this weird feeling of penetration which i wasn't used to, and all of that, she rejected me after a month, and more or less she swiflty revealed to me that for her, i was an inexperienced person and she didn't have the patience to cope with that.
I'll never forget when she condescendingly said to me "you have not lived all you had to live" or in spanish "no has vivido todo lo que tenías que vivir", with a pitiful tone, and broke up with me.
I felt humiliated. I felt broken. Destroyed from the inside out, and i'm in tears as i type this
.
She... broke my soul. She broke my soul and left me scarred for life, guys. I've never been the same person anymore, even after being with other girls (not serious relations, but with the level of intimacy of one) , but i always had those performance issues at the first sessions of sex. The ghost of that first girl, that face, those painful words, it all always returns to hit me deep on my spirit from time to time, and i think it reflects sexually on me, because of the intrinsic nature of intimacy of sex.
Sorry to bother you with my issues, brothers, but i really want to fight that, i don't wanna give up and if i get with a new girl in the future (i'm single right now), i want, no, i NEED to make my damn best to ensure that i don't have the same issues again. So if doing sport and releasing adrenaline helps, if some relaxation techniques can help, if mental tips can help, and having a positive attitude can as well help, could this sex toy add its bit to my problem?
Thanks in advance.