hey, i want to discuess a little about a thought that i have and i want to share with you especially in this community, everyone wants big cock right? its the ultimate dream, almost every survey shows the ideal size is 7-8 inch and i think every man should strive to get this size because he really can use it.
but i think anything bigger than 8inch is useless. i dont understand that guys that want 9-12 inches, maybe its good for challange but not practical. the reason why every 9inch cock or bigger is no better than 8 inch cock is it because he cant do better in sex. why? because 95% of the girls just cant get this all dick to their pussy or ass hole. so even if you have bigger dick than 8 inches you just cant put the all damn thing inside and its useless. its just showoff, and unfunciontal for 90% of women. i searched for entire net and adult entertainment sites movies and clips of big cocks and most of them with big cock categroy just cant get the all shaft in. so why getting this huge cock if you cant put the all damn thing only 70-80% of it. the meaning- the woman will not feel the rest of it so the pain level or pleasure will be no diffrence.

examples:
http://oi65.tinypic.com/2ynle36.jpg

i will like to read your comments and if you think i am wrong i am ready to read and even see a video proof, although i searched very hard videos that all the huge cock go inside the pussy, i understand that if you find a unicorn woman with long tunngel pussy that can get the all thing and get pleasure of it so 9 inch and above will be a grace. this is the reason i think the holy grail is 8-8.5 max. maybe its just me but i like to feel the all cock inside.
 
7,5X 5,5 is basically a monster cock and most women would see that as a huge cock......getting to that size is not an easy goal....even a 6.5 x 5 is a great size ....
 
Besides remember adult entertainment is full of deceitful angles that make the penis look bigger and thicker, camera tricks etc..most men that work in adult entertainment are in a range that can go from 7 to 7.5 x 5,5.5....
 
Where there will always be a debate over what people "need" vs what we want. I want 12". I may not "need" it, but I will go for it anyway. I could care less about the "however many inches 'in the cold' " side of the debate. My penis, my choice. The average guy find pe with big goals, figures out how much work it actually involves and often quits. Many guys stop after their first inch. Whatever you think you want, go for it, for yourself.
Women almost never change their bodies for men, it's almost always for themselves regardless of what they say.
 
stillwantmore2;725698 said:
Where there will always be a debate over what people "need" vs what we want. I want 12". I may not "need" it, but I will go for it anyway. I could care less about the "however many inches 'in the cold' " side of the debate. My penis, my choice. The average guy find pe with big goals, figures out how much work it actually involves and often quits. Many guys stop after their first inch. Whatever you think you want, go for it, for yourself.
Women almost never change their bodies for men, it's almost always for themselves regardless of what they say.

yep that is true or partially true, most women dont change the shape of their genitalia ,wonder how many women want to go trough a vaginoplasty....boobs surgery,liposuction etc..maybe some but most of them are ok whit what they have...

And yeah that endless debate about what we want and what the people"want" I want a 9 incher i have a 7 incher but the girl im whit can only take 6 :cool:lol
 
I have to agree that it's all about what you want. PE isn't something that happens over night so the risk of someone all of a sudden waking up and being too long for their partner is not that high. That being said, everyone's stopping point is a personal decision. If that's 12" long or 7" long, it's all about what makes the person the penis is attached to satisfied. In the end you will have to live with it 24/7 so it's up to you what your goal will be and to chose how you want it to fit into your life. Everyone doesn't care about full insertion and vice versa. Your preference is an important part of this journey so do what makes you the most satisfied in the long run.
 
yep i had this average penis a 5incher abit bigger than5 x average girth i always felt i had a pathetic size n just couldnt overcome that situation..Really sad times i had to find another way to fix the issue.

Even Now that im a bigger and thicker i still deal whit that old demon that haunts me,the physical part has changed,the mind is still stuck whit some of the same old toughts...
 
LONGERDICK7+;725703 said:
yep i had this average penis a 5incher abit bigger than5 x average girth i always felt i had a pathetic size n just couldnt overcome that situation..Really sad times i had to find another way to fix the issue.

Even Now that im a bigger and thicker i still deal whit that old demon that haunts me,the physical part has changed,the mind is still stuck whit some of the same old toughts...

That's definitely something hard to change. Even when you aren't where you were previously, it's always that little spec of doubt that brings back those old feelings and thoughts about your self. You've come a long way tho and I'm sure you will continue to prove that demon wrong.
 
chargains;725706 said:
That's definitely something hard to change. Even when you aren't where you were previously, it's always that little spec of doubt that brings back those old feelings and thoughts about your self. You've come a long way tho and I'm sure you will continue to prove that demon wrong.

yep i beat that bastard everyday he is always bothering me and is apparently immortal but i know he is not ,thats for sure,PE is not only to get bigger physically i have realized that are so many other things that come along whit it..:cool:
 
LONGERDICK7+;725711 said:
yep i beat that bastard everyday he is always bothering me and is apparently immortal but i know he is not ,thats for sure,PE is not only to get bigger physically i have realized that are so many other things that come along whit it..:cool:

he is a sneaky mother fucker and will take advantage of every opportunity you leave open...always be aware and watching!
 
Back to the Op's discussion...keep in mind that women are almost as 'visual' as men and being symmetrical is a main 'cue' to a mans overall health and appeal. The larger the frame, the larger you'll need to be for a balanced look. At 6'1" and 225#, I need to have at least a 5" flaccid (preferably 6"-7") for everything to 'look' right...a guy 5'8" would seem ungodly hung at the same measurement.
My main objective for PE is to obliterate my mental imprint of being small, (that manifested as a 'late bloomer' in High School) and to be confident (in and out of the bedroom) and never have those shameful feelings of 'having to cover-up' when naked. For my own ego (I'm being 100% transparent) I don't think 8" BPEL will be enough...maybe 8.5", but more realistically 9" (my girth also affects how long I look, so perhaps I'll need to get to 9.50", lol)
 
doublelongdaddy;725730 said:
he is a sneaky mother fucker and will take advantage of every opportunity you leave open...always be aware and watching!

But you know what i have just realized, satanist seems to be happy people even succesfu peoplel lol:O:)hehe
 
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LONGERDICK7+;725696 said:
7,5X 5,5 is basically a monster cock and most women would see that as a huge cock......getting to that size is not an easy goal....even a 6.5 x 5 is a great size ....

I like that kind of replies which remind me how big I am :cool:
 
Big Schwanz Acht;725754 said:
Back to the Op's discussion...keep in mind that women are almost as 'visual' as men and being symmetrical is a main 'cue' to a mans overall health and appeal. The larger the frame, the larger you'll need to be for a balanced look. At 6'1" and 225#, I need to have at least a 5" flaccid (preferably 6"-7") for everything to 'look' right...a guy 5'8" would seem ungodly hung at the same measurement.
My main objective for PE is to obliterate my mental imprint of being small, (that manifested as a 'late bloomer' in High School) and to be confident (in and out of the bedroom) and never have those shameful feelings of 'having to cover-up' when naked. For my own ego (I'm being 100% transparent) I don't think 8" BPEL will be enough...maybe 8.5", but more realistically 9" (my girth also affects how long I look, so perhaps I'll need to get to 9.50", lol)

IAmSpartacus71;725767 said:
I like that kind of replies which remind me how big I am :cool:

So.....what would a smidge under a
7 1/2x6 1/2 base be considered🤔😲
 
Adamtf1982;725771 said:
So.....what would a smidge under a
7 1/2x6 1/2 base be considered🤔😲

Not an expert on the subject but I think a very significant percentage of the population would consider that huge lol. Base girth alone is in the monster league
 
I haven't been on here in a long time. I quit when I reach my point where I am now because it is all that my wife can handle comfortably. Since then we have both had a few health issues but our sex life is just fine when we have it. Hell, I'm closer to 60 than 50 and I still do some jelking in the shower and occasional pumping. Bottom line, that is all I wanted. Just like most things it's all about personal choice. If a guy wants a cock that he can swat golf balls with.........more power to him.
 
chargains;725947 said:
I can think of worse ways to be useless lol

OK, I will just call myself a tool :) Like a garden Hoe :)
 
chargains;725772 said:
Not an expert on the subject but I think a very significant percentage of the population would consider that huge lol. Base girth alone is in the monster league

That makes me smile!
 
Adamtf1982;726100 said:
There's a big pussied woman out there for you somewhere DLD!!! Lol.

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Like a garden hoe handle!!x LMAO!!

Yeah she is out there and she is definitely a garden tool.....a hoe.
 
I have a friend who was naturally gifted with a huge penis. I've seen him flaccid a few times and he was almost 6" and very wrinkled. He won't give an actual length but said he can stack 3 of his hands and the head still sticks out. Based on that I figure he's around 11" and he just smiles and says "something like that."

His first wife was a tiny little thing from the Philippines. We're talking 5' nothing and 90lbs wet. He said after a month he still had about 1.5" he couldn't fit in. After a few years and having a kid he could finally get all the way in if they were going slow but if they picked up the pace they would stop at about 3/4 of the way in so both of them didn't get hurt.

He used to try to win arguments by saying "at least I'm hung like a man" until I retorted with "at least I can get a good blow job." It was impossible for him to enjoy a blow job because it was teeth constantly scraping on whatever a woman could even get in her mouth.

So there are legit downsides to being huge. I want to reach a size where I'm still able to lay back and enjoy a long blow job but big enough that is a "damn that's big!" size. I don't want chew jobs or cervix imprints permanently on the head of my penis. That's just me though and everyone is free to do what they want.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;726174 said:
Nothing like another De La Soul reference :)

Damn, you are on point: Jennifer oh Jenny
 
Big Schwanz Acht;726378 said:
...so I gave her a dollah (lol)

now back to the originally scheduled program, 'why anything over 8" is a waste'

I guess it goes on a case by case basis. I'm sure some guys don't care about being buried to the hilt inside a woman or are fine altering how they have sex in order to not hurt themselves or their partner. Different positions allow different things. You can hit cervix with an average size penis then change positions and have room to spare. It all comes down to knowing what you're doing.

I stand by my previous statement though that I don't want "chew jobs." She doesn't need to be able to swallow every last inch, that's what you have hands for, but life without blowjobs is one I don't want to live lol.
 
cladre60;726188 said:
I have a friend who was naturally gifted with a huge penis. I've seen him flaccid a few times and he was almost 6" and very wrinkled. He won't give an actual length but said he can stack 3 of his hands and the head still sticks out. Based on that I figure he's around 11" and he just smiles and says "something like that."

His first wife was a tiny little thing from the Philippines. We're talking 5' nothing and 90lbs wet. He said after a month he still had about 1.5" he couldn't fit in. After a few years and having a kid he could finally get all the way in if they were going slow but if they picked up the pace they would stop at about 3/4 of the way in so both of them didn't get hurt.

He used to try to win arguments by saying "at least I'm hung like a man" until I retorted with "at least I can get a good blow job." It was impossible for him to enjoy a blow job because it was teeth constantly scraping on whatever a woman could even get in her mouth.

So there are legit downsides to being huge. I want to reach a size where I'm still able to lay back and enjoy a long blow job but big enough that is a "damn that's big!" size. I don't want chew jobs or cervix imprints permanently on the head of my penis. That's just me though and everyone is free to do what they want.

So to recap, your friend is bigger than all pornstars (and potentially second largest on the planet), and his little wife took more than virtually all pornstars who have been with Mandingo. Hmm I think I can smell his BS from here... lol

Maybe he actually is 9", but no way he is 11" if measured properly.
 
Phoenix7672;726416 said:
So to recap, your friend is bigger than all pornstars (and potentially second largest on the planet), and his little wife took more than virtually all pornstars who have been with Mandingo. Hmm I think I can smell his BS from here... lol

Maybe he actually is 9", but no way he is 11" if measured properly.

He wouldn't show anyone how big he was hard nor provide a measurement so I have to go on what I've seen and have been told. While stumbling drunk one night he was walking around in sweat pants stroking and saying he was going to show everyone just how big he was. He pulled his cock out with one hand wrapped around the base with another handful worth flopping around past that while going up to people at the party asking for help getting hard. It's one of those images I just can't get out of my head lol.

I'm also not asking him to see it again. Now that our alcohol fueled living in the barracks days are over we're a little more reserved :o
 
cladre60;726421 said:
While stumbling drunk one night he was walking around in sweat pants stroking and saying he was going to show everyone just how big he was. He pulled his cock out with one hand wrapped around the base with another handful worth flopping around past that while going up to people at the party asking for help getting hard. It's one of those images I just can't get out of my head lol.

Technically I can do that, and I am a lot smaller than 11" lol. Again, seems most guys seem to like to add at least 2" to their actual measurement when boasting, so that likely applies for him as well. Not asking you to confirm, just mentioning it to bring things back to reality given all the misinformation on the Internet (that would point to the average guy packing 8-9" or bigger these days).
 
Phoenix7672;726495 said:
Technically I can do that, and I am a lot smaller than 11" lol. Again, seems most guys seem to like to add at least 2" to their actual measurement when boasting, so that likely applies for him as well. Not asking you to confirm, just mentioning it to bring things back to reality given all the misinformation on the Internet (that would point to the average guy packing 8-9" or bigger these days).

There is actual mathematic equations to this that I have created :)

A man says he is size (X) subtract 2" and you have the correct size
A woman, when first in love with you, adds 2" to your dick but when she leaves you she deducts 4"
 
Phoenix7672;726495 said:
Technically I can do that, and I am a lot smaller than 11" lol. Again, seems most guys seem to like to add at least 2" to their actual measurement when boasting, so that likely applies for him as well. Not asking you to confirm, just mentioning it to bring things back to reality given all the misinformation on the Internet (that would point to the average guy packing 8-9" or bigger these days).

Thank you. I really didn't wanna go there if I didn't have to lol
 
doublelongdaddy;726504 said:
There is actual mathematic equations to this that I have created :)

A man says he is size (X) subtract 2" and you have the correct size
A woman, when first in love with you, adds 2" to your dick but when she leaves you she deducts 4"

Most women don't even know how big dicks are anyway from guys lying to them about size over the years.

I've seen the deduction first hand. A girl I had dated told her next boyfriend I was so small she could wrap her hand around and just a little bit of the head poked out. That would've made me about 3.5" if that was true. He told all his friends about it (high school drama) and they believed it until they split up and all of the sudden HE was tiny according to her.

I only found all this out because a few years after high school we had become friends.
 
doublelongdaddy;726504 said:
There is actual mathematic equations to this that I have created :)

A man says he is size (X) subtract 2" and you have the correct size
A woman, when first in love with you, adds 2" to your dick but when she leaves you she deducts 4"

yep simple as that..
 
LONGERDICK7+;726566 said:
yep they have different standards for measuremnt..:Orofl

And it all has to do with how much they like you multiplied by some factor of how well you satisfy them. The better you are in bed and the longer you last the bigger they think you are.
 
cladre60;726582 said:
And it all has to do with how much they like you multiplied by some factor of how well you satisfy them. The better you are in bed and the longer you last the bigger they think you are.

That is a good equation too :)
 
doublelongdaddy;726599 said:
That is a good equation too :)

It makes no sense at all! Lol

While hanging out with a couple one night the subject of size came up. She insisted he was huge and he kept saying he was just average. She refused to believe it. He turned to me and asked, "if I'm just shy of 6" would you call that average?" I had to agree with him on that. She was kind of embarrassed lol.
 
Not true. If you know adult entertainment you know that female adult entertainment stars are not turned on during their shoots. Its very clinical. That's why it won't fit in. In my experience I can fit all 9 inches in about 50% of women but ONLY when they're fully turned on. When aroused the vaginal expands massively.
 
cladre60;726541 said:
Most women don't even know how big dicks are anyway from guys lying to them about size over the years.

I've seen the deduction first hand. A girl I had dated told her next boyfriend I was so small she could wrap her hand around and just a little bit of the head poked out. That would've made me about 3.5" if that was true. He told all his friends about it (high school drama) and they believed it until they split up and all of the sudden HE was tiny according to her.

I only found all this out because a few years after high school we had become friends.

Honestly, to be perfectly honest....there are very few women on the planet, that a measurement reference even means anything to! As much as we like to brag about numbers, even to the ladies......most of the time, it don't mean shit to them! I mean, lol, I was gone working for months, and had told my wife, not long before I came home, that I had put on almost a half inch of length, and an eighth inch, or better girth, more at the base, and she was all like, wow.......then I got home, and the first time she pulled it out of my britches, she said, "oh my God, you may have fucked up! I don't know if that thing is gonna fit!" Lol, she had no idea what I was telling her, when I was gone......they need to see, and feel, to even compare! A woman's ex, may have been 7", and you may be 8", but, most women have no idea, how much longer, an inch longer, actually is! Lol.
 
mrchino;726297 said:
are we talking BP or.NBP

I think, unless it's really extreme......8"and above......I don't think it matters, BP, or non BP! And in my case, it would be only, 1/4"-1/2" tops, difference.
 
I'm going to make a broad guess here and say that with a lot of guys the difference between bp and nbp is not greater than 1". That still would make 8" BPEL quite large as it would be somewhere between 7-8" long. Still quite bigger than the recorded averages.
 
A true 8-inch dick is very rare, bone-pressed or not. If you measure inaccurately, you can easily come up with 10 inches. LOL.

I am 7.4 bone-pressed (measured right). I want 1/2 of an inch in length to make a solid 8-incher. That's it! Done. I was blessed with super big girth.

I will then be a "big boy" in adult entertainment (NOT!).

I might do a spread in Playgirl's "HUNG" edition. LOL. ;)
 
Iceman338;726666 said:
A true 8-inch dick is very rare, bone-pressed or not. If you measure inaccurately, you can easily come up with 10 inches. LOL.

I am 7.4 bone-pressed (measured right). I want 1/2 of an inch in length to make a solid 8-incher. That's it! Done. I was blessed with super big girth.

I will then be a "big boy" in adult entertainment (NOT!).

I might do a spread in Playgirl's "HUNG" edition. LOL. ;)

"Super big girth" is definitely something that can come in very handy haha. Its good that you brought in accuracy with measurements cause we all know that certain outlets are notorious for inaccurate measurements lol
 
chargains;726667 said:
"Super big girth" is definitely something that can come in very handy haha. Its good that you brought in accuracy with measurements cause we all know that certain outlets are notorious for inaccurate measurements lol

Got a super fat dick from dad (it's a family thing).

Just a little longer....and I'll quit.:)
 
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