The Enigma of finding the right size!

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Solid Snake

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Hey guys, I've been doing PE on and off for a few years and I'm starting ANOTHER progress thread tonight...it's like my 4th lol.

I've made some decent gains, when I first started I was 5" NBPEL now I'm 6.25, was about 6.2 BPEL now I'm 6.8-7.0 BPEL (I'm still the same weight). I think my girth is still about 5.5 MEG and I'm about 6.25 BEG I'll measure tonight.

When I first started I wanted to be 9" NBPEL but I feel I'd be more than satisfied with 7.5-8 and it's probably more realistic. I love girth though and I really want a thick dick. But I've been looking online and articles about women having sex with big dicks and a lot of them seem to complain about "the girth" how it was painful, Bjs were hard. When I'm out of my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] and I'm 6.5-7 girth it feels so thick, I love it! But I can imagine oral would be a problem especially taking it deep. I'be not had masses of experience so how do the thicker guys on here find oral and sex and is anal also out of the question when you're getting into 6" Meg territory?

Also I think my dick looks a little weird being thicker than it is longer. When I'm done with a good girth session )lots off [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words] my dick looks too short. If I'm going for say a 6.5-7" MEG what should my length be to make the proportion right?

Thanks
 
Solid Snake;592025 said:
Hey guys, I've been doing PE on and off for a few years and I'm starting ANOTHER progress thread tonight...it's like my 4th lol.
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New progrès thread is rededicating yourself to this, it is admirable!

Solid Snake;592025 said:
I've made some decent gains, when I first started I was 5" NBPEL now I'm 6.25, was about 6.2 BPEL now I'm 6.8-7.0 BPEL (I'm still the same weight). I think my girth is still about 5.5 MEG and I'm about 6.25 BEG I'll measure tonight.
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Those are awesome gains! Be sure to get very accurate measurements so to not miss a gain.

Solid Snake;592025 said:
When I first started I wanted to be 9" NBPEL but I feel I'd be more than satisfied with 7.5-8 and it's probably more realistic. I love girth though and I really want a thick dick. But I've been looking online and articles about women having sex with big dicks and a lot of them seem to complain about "the girth" how it was painful, Bjs were hard. When I'm out of my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] and I'm 6.5-7 girth it feels so thick, I love it! But I can imagine oral would be a problem especially taking it deep. I'be not had masses of experience so how do the thicker guys on here find oral and sex and is anal also out of the question when you're getting into 6" Meg territory?
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My goals changed as I got further in, I originally wanted to beat the ruler but really understanding how big this is I kind of refocused myself. The good news is easier goals are easier to attain.

Solid Snake;592025 said:
Also I think my dick looks a little weird being thicker than it is longer. When I'm done with a good girth session )lots off [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words] my dick looks too short. If I'm going for say a 6.5-7" MEG what should my length be to make the proportion right?
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I would put the focus on Length and maybe just put a small effort into girth, this will help you elongate while keeping girth solid. I would say making an inch gain as a long term goal with your current girth would be perfect symmetry. You could always add more girth later if you are not satisfied.
 
I had girth of 5.2 to 5.5 in my last sexual relationship. The girl said it was a lot. Now... from my perspective could she had sucked it up and taken more... yes. But 6.0 girth would be the tap out limit for her. And she was a normal sized female who had plenty of sex before me. In person I've heard my share of ladies list more cons of excessive girth that pros. Remember that if you have too much length you just don't penetrate as deep but if you have too much girth... there's nothing you can do.

I think at one point I read on the this forum, under a girth discussion, (it's now my take on it as well) that once you hit 6.0 girth, just keep it there. If you get a life long partner, you can begin testing her girth limits. I would go as far as to only do that after years and years on that relationship because if you marry a woman at say... 25 years old... divorce her at 35... and have increased your girth all the way to 7 inches in those 10 years... say goodbye to even an easy hookup. Hell, say goodbye to a willing prostitute. Now you're left with a big, fat dick that you can't put inside anything.
 
Yes, surprisingly most women see 5"-5.5" girth as perfect. When I shot adult entertainment, most actresses would not shoot big girth/big dick adult entertainment. 6" girth is considered monster cock status in the adult entertainment industry. You needed to find size queens which charged more money. Finding fresh meat size queens in adult entertainment is actually allot harder than one may believe.

If you hurt a woman in sex it is very rare that she will ever want to do it again. Yes, us as men with our egos feel achieved when we do damage. But, I have spoke to countless women/adult entertainment actresses/whores/sluts/strippers about big dick sex and allot were traumatized at a younger age by a freak of a race (Italian, black, spanish, indian, whatever) and they think because of that one experience in that race that all men in that race have the same penis size. It's funny because me growing up around spanish dudes, I always thought spanish dudes all had big packages and my ex was a spanish slut and screwed allot of Spanish dudes and said that they all had small packages, so what gives?

Big dick dudes have the hardest time getting laid, even though allot of us here wish we had a huge cock to beat some pussy with, there is not a whole lot of pussy out there looking to get beat.

So I agree, 6" girth is the absolute max and probably too much for most women, unless you plan on fucking a horse ;-)
 
Well, to be honest this thread and the comments made me really think about it! My goal was (idk if it still is :D) 6.5 of girth (MSEG, base would be even thicker rofl), but to be HONEST sex it more about pleasure and NOT pain. It is true that if you are too long for a girl you would just not stick it all in, no problem. But for girth- this is a serious problem- sex with NO bjs (I love them rofl ) and no anal (still havent tried it though) would feel kinda different... If I have a long term partner- she would get used to my size in a few months and sex would be awesome, but after a break up, when you try to go for other girls- I agree- it might be really hard to get it so easily. It is more likely that women would never sleep with a man again if he gives them pain instead of pleasure (though, some like it pretty rough and painful though.....). But please guys, lets make a discussion, cause so far it sounds VERY interesting and I would like to hear more of you on this. Bigger is not always better! My dad is now divorced and he fucks women like crazy. He is a small size of 14 cm (feels great to be bigger than him rofl) and women all LOVE him in bed. Some of them have even told him that their husbands are way too big and it hurts them when they fuck, so they love him better (he has a girth of 5 inches exactly).

Vagina size differs and so does preference (whether she likes it more painful and dominant or not), but lets just all say what experience we all have so far and see what is good. We all know that the bigger we are, the better we would feel (A LOT more confidence!!!!!!!!!!), but aside from our pride and ego (rofl) lets just see what is actually better in sexual relationship. :)
 
I posted a study a few weeks back about how women in relationships with men with large penises are more likely to cheat on them for a man with an average size penis. This is due to them not being able to reach an orgasim during sex due to discomfort.

My lady that I am with now has been with allot of partners before me and she confirmed the same thing. She was unable to reach orgasm with large penises during penitration due to discomfort even though she said she still enjoyed the sex.
 
The last study I read on dildo preference pegged women at right about 6.5 x 4.5, if men took the same study it would look like 8.5 x 6:)
 
Well big is good, but too big is not. NO ONE can give a definition on how big is enough since vagina size and plasticity vary, but after reading this I would assume 7 x 5.5 is a pretty good size rofl. DLD- 4.5 of girth just sounds too small, maybe it was done in China (rofl!). But yes, I guess too big is definitely NOT good....
 
We deal with one of the biggest sex toy distributors in the world that distributes our [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]dvd[/words]. A few years ago I asked them to look up what was that most popular dildo sold online and in stores. The brands all differ but the relevant size was 6" insertable length x 5" girth. They also sold more dildo with balls than without.
 
LIGHTNING;592245 said:
We deal with one of the biggest sex toy distributors in the world that distributes our [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]dvd[/words]. A few years ago I asked them to look up what was that most popular dildo sold online and in stores. The brands all differ but the relevant size was 6" insertable length x 5" girth. They also sold more dildo with balls than without.
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Ok let me be honest, the most popular selling 6" x 5" dildo was molded off my cock. ;-)
*In Heavy D's voice* "Girls and Girls they love me, I'm the overweight lover n they want my D' "
 
LIGHTNING;592245 said:
We deal with one of the biggest sex toy distributors in the world that distributes our [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]dvd[/words]. A few years ago I asked them to look up what was that most popular dildo sold online and in stores. The brands all differ but the relevant size was 6" insertable length x 5" girth. They also sold more dildo with balls than without.
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Yea I'd say 6 x 5 is good. Most girls will be more then satisfied with that if the guy can last and knows how to use it. Most girl can probably take up 8 x 6 and really enjoy it. some may just need to take it slower than others at first.
 
LIGHTNING;592247 said:
Ok let me be honest, the most popular selling 6" x 5" dildo was molded off my cock. ;-)
*In Heavy D's voice* "Girls and Girls they love me, I'm overweight and they want my D' "
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Lol. Dilly dilly dilly dilly Dildo D
 
LIGHTNING;592247 said:
Ok let me be honest, the most popular selling 6" x 5" dildo was molded off my cock. ;-)
*In Heavy D's voice* "Girls and Girls they love me, I'm overweight and they want my D' "
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lol
 
LIGHTNING;592245 said:
We deal with one of the biggest sex toy distributors in the world that distributes our [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]dvd[/words]. A few years ago I asked them to look up what was that most popular dildo sold online and in stores. The brands all differ but the relevant size was 6" insertable length x 5" girth. They also sold more dildo with balls than without.
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Well I am past that mark at 6" 1/8 x 5" 1/2 girth. I will have to lose some gains and re-plan my routine to stay right at 6x5 then. ;)
 
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ADF;592278 said:
Well I am past that mark at 6" 1/8 x 5" 1/2 girth. I will have to lose some gains and re-plan my routine to stay right at 6x5 then. ;)
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The new [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] PR (Penis Reduction) routine coming soon! Brought to you by me aka SLD (singlelongdaddy). Here is the first hint, eat allot of fattening shit and gain a huge fat pad, problem solved! Stay tuned for my special fat pad gaining diets!
 
well this thread is very interesting but we are forgetting one thing the foreplay for most women having a one night stand foreplay/oral sex will be out of the picture hell even woman in relationships rarely have a guy go down on them and if they do the guy most likely wouldn't be that good I stick to the belief that if you have the patient to properly warm a women up between 30 minutes to an hour then she would be able to handle pretty big size. There was also a young turks segment (look them up on youtube) that showed when it comes to cheating on a spouse that the women preferred a bigger penis vs the average size so really this thread will be going in circles about what the perfect size is when in reality you should be more focused on a. growing your dick to whatever size you want and b. having more patients with a female in the bedroom and upping your foreplay,oral, or fingering game and I would guarantee that she would be able to handle your size with relative ease and more pleasure then if you didn't at all.
 
I see this wanting a bigger dick possibly going wrong one day. Like all the big booty chick's that needed that big ass and got those injections and no longer work at the strip club. Now they get all the attention on the street that they don't want and there ass is big, drooping and itchy and cannot be reversed. Now we are all going to be old men with huge cocks and nothing to stick them in. What is worst? We are all going to have to search for those old bug booty granny's that were strippers in the Ole days. Lol
 
going all out;592288 said:
b. having more patients with a female in the bedroom and upping your foreplay,oral, or fingering game and I would guarantee that she would be able to handle your size with relative ease and more pleasure then if you didn't at all.
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This is so true but I got so tired when I read it thinking about an hour of foreplay lol. If my chick puts 30-60 minutes into jerking and sucking my cock I may do the same in return but I cant even remember the last day I got more than a 5 minute blowjob and she thinks hand jobs are for high schoolers. So what gives?
 
LIGHTNING;592282 said:
The new [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] PR (Penis Reduction) routine coming soon! Brought to you by me aka SLD (singlelongdaddy). Here is the first hint, eat allot of fattening shit and gain a huge fat pad, problem solved! Stay tuned for my special fat pad gaining diets!
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rofl
 
Thanks for all the comments guys, I think it may just be my ego, when I'm done with a hard girth workout and I'm well in 6" territory my dick feels so big in my hands, it feels so good! I think I will focus on length then and maybe when I reach 7" NBPEL I'll go for the 6" MEG. My base is already over 6", 6.25" I think.

Here's an old pic I found, I'm about 6" NBPEL and between 5.5-6" MEG here I think :S, what do you think I have to be get to, to be proportional. Lol it's a flattering angle :P I think one more inch in length and I'm not looking too bad. What do you guys think? Also I'm about 40lbs overweight, does anyone know how much NBPEL I'll gains if I slim right down?

Thanks!
 
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Solid Snake;592306 said:
Thanks for all the comments guys, I think it may just be my ego, when I'm done with a hard girth workout and I'm well in 6" territory my dick feels so big in my hands, it feels so good! I think I will focus on length then and maybe when I reach 7" NBPEL I'll go for the 6" MEG. My base is already over 6", 6.25" I think.

Here's an old pic I found, I'm about 6" NBPEL and between 5.5-6" MEG here I think :S, what do you think I have to be get to, to be proportional. Lol it's a flattering angle :P I think one more inch in length and I'm not looking too bad. What do you guys think? Also I'm about 40 overweight, does anyone know how much NBPEL I'll gains if I slim right down?

Thanks!
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I would say an inch would put you into monster territory!
 
doublelongdaddy;592307 said:
I would say an inch would put you into monster territory!
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Haha no this angle is so flattering, I feel insecure about my length :/ DLD is it possible to get your fad pad down to like 0.2/0.3" because if I slim right down that's 0.5 inch gain already :)
 
Solid Snake;592313 said:
Haha no this angle is so flattering, I feel insecure about my length :/ DLD is it possible to get your fad pad down to like 0.2/0.3" because if I slim right down that's 0.5 inch gain already :)
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I gained 2" in visual length loosing weight. I went from 280 to 145 and my fat pad went from 2.5" to .5", so yes, it is very possible! That combined with PE will tack on an inch in no time. Never feel insecure, you have a big cock, your just l;poking to perfect it...keep inspired on your journey!
 
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