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I have been using the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]uncle Jims[/words] wrap and stretching a lot lately and I just noticed that some of the folds below the glans and next to the frenulum seem to have bunched up together.
 
Yes it is soft. What should I do? Should I take a break from pe. I have been trying to send a pic, but it is not working.
 
How constrictive is your [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]UJW[/words]? Are the folds puffy (like edema)?
 
@tkto I just started last week doing 300 kegels a day. I also do about 450 jelqs a day. Other than jelqing, I do not get morning erections or spontaneous erections.

@smerc my head usually turns purple by the time I take it off. Usually 1-2 hours at a time. A little puffy, but does not feel like liquid.
 
I am doing nofap. It has been something like 8 days since I last masturbated. I am also not easily aroused. Do you think this would still apply?
 
Why are you doing that bra hooked on adult entertainment? I notice when I ejac after edging I'm hangin fuller, and some hours later ill stimulate to a pretty good bone. It's ok to cum sometimes hell dld comes everyday
 
I have been hooked on and off adult entertainment for a while now. I started when I was 12. I am now 18 and can not get hard with a real girl. My boners used to feel really good when I was 10,11,12,13 years old. But since then they do not happen on their own and when I get them they are not that full and do not have a lot of sensation.
 
EGOD;613934 said:
@smerc my head usually turns purple by the time I take it off. Usually 1-2 hours at a time. A little puffy, but does not feel like liquid.

You might be having it too tight. I would try a different wrap method, maybe not wrap too much near the head.


8 days nofap is damn good. Have you noticed any motivation increases or agitation?
 
I am going to try not wrapping that area as tight.

I have done 60 days before. It did not make that big of a difference. I have a lot of unfounded sexual and size anxiety. I am working on picking up the pieces with a psychiatrist.

I almost lost my virginity last week to this hot slut who wanted me, but could not get aroused. This problem has been ruining my life. I am just trying to figure everything out.
 
Ah man idk what to say about that, your definitely desensitized probably from adult entertainment right?
How to get you out of that, what does arouse you? Can you say clear ur mind, and meditate on the things you want that way feel a little more alive? Have you tried any sort of counseling its cool if we pm
 
I am so desentized that I even have a hard time getting it up to fetish adult entertainment.
It is just very hard to arouse myself. I usually think horrible emasculating, thoughts were other guys fuck the girls I like because my dick is too small. It is very twisted.
 
That's your problem fear. Dont be afraid my man your a good guy with lots to offer, maybe you've had your mind to far in the gutter its ok bra you can get fixed. At least you want to get fixed so you will. Look at me I've had anxiety too, but I tell myself "you can do it tecato...you gotta". And we do gotta bra no matter what we gotta better ourselves. Also to be honest if it wasn't for Jesus I wouldn't be so positive I may have even harmed someone by now
 
I am trying my best to get fixed. It is hard, but I do my best everyday. It's funny that you mention the big guy upstairs. I found Jesus and stopped being agnostic after a few close calls. I draw a lot of strength knowing my guardian angel is watching.
 
Good then you have the lord, all the tools needed to be happy. Your number one bra number one, dont forget. I'm not gonna forget about you either. U watch my bak and I got your front
 
That really means a lot, man. Since finding The Lord, all the negativity that was holding me back has left. Now, I do what I need to do to get there. I use my intuition (my soul), the brotherhood, and all other resources available to me.
 
Everything affect everything, I feel you on using intuition, cuz instinct is a trait passed down to us from our ancestors so that we survive more efficiently. Adaptive subconscious its called
 
Exactly! I feel that things tend to go wrong when I go against my intuition.
 
I'm agnostic as well. It's been very difficult as I had 3 people very close pass within the last 2 years. Almost a 4th w/ a close call. Definitely would help a passing knowing or at least believing that there is something better out there for those that can't continue to be w/ us or for our own sakes if we were to ever be in that situation or to one day meet out loved ones again.

EGOD;613941 said:
I am going to try not wrapping that area as tight.

I have done 60 days before. It did not make that big of a difference. I have a lot of unfounded sexual and size anxiety. I am working on picking up the pieces with a psychiatrist.

I almost lost my virginity last week to this hot slut who wanted me, but could not get aroused. This problem has been ruining my life. I am just trying to figure everything out.

Yeah, try that and see if you get anything better coming from it. Would hate to use the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]UJW[/words] too tight and have to take days/weeks off due to blisters/ETC head injuries.

Are you taking any supplements? You might give 15-30mg of zinc a try and see if that increases libido. I had to stop zinc since I have a current masturbation problem. It really helps w/ erection quality and spontaneous erections for me, but it makes me want to masturbate so damn bad. I hate zinc, but I love it knowing that it does what it does for me.
 
Yea man I also tend to have a gut feeling about stuff, but my emotions get in the way sometimes, that or my "sacred" logic.
So I mess up from time to time, but I just brush my shoulders off and remember the experience to later implement.
That's usually how us males react to a mess-up. Women ten to over think like "omg I messed up I suk" that's why allot of girls go with the first jerk that will accept them how they are. Although its the fear again someone who's afraid tends to do things that they wouldn't normally do such as mess-up
 
@smerc That is horrible am sorry sorry to hear about that. I can relate with the uncertainty. Since finding God, I have become much more certain about a lot of things including seeing my family members that have passed in the afterlife. It is almost strange how certain I feel about somethings now. One of the big things I realized is that you cannot force god on another person. That is evil and wrong. It is just something you feel, something you know.

I am currently on vitamin D and fish oil. I am going to talk to my doc about zinc. She is trying to work with supplements in a specific way for unrelated health issues.

@tkto I get into the habit of overthinking quite often, but I am trying to stop. It only makes me feel bad and is not productive. I have a lot of negative thought patterns that do not stop on their own. The cognitive therapy that I am going to start will help a lot with this.
 
Unlok that precious mind of yours, that's the largest sexual organ there is. You can become so wise and intelligent that people will acclaim u. You'll have sooo many haters though
 
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smerc;613956 said:
I'm agnostic as well. It's been very difficult as I had 3 people very close pass within the last 2 years. Almost a 4th w/ a close call. Definitely would help a passing knowing or at least believing that there is something better out there for those that can't continue to be w/ us or for our own sakes if we were to ever be in that situation or to one day meet out loved ones again.

i read something about biocentrism a year or so back. it was very interesting in its explanation of the universe, biology, and consciousness. i have a lot more reading to do about it but what i really took from it is that our consciousness creates the universe. conciousness can be seen as a wifi signal and our biological human bodies as a antenna that picks up the signal and is able to create the wonderful thing we call life :) AAWWWWWEEEEE!

Just b/c the antenna won't be there one day does not mean the signal will disappear forever. it will find another antenna. that other antenna doesn't have to be another human body or anything biological at all. at that point it is something that only exists outside of our current knowledge and consciousness. Believing this to be true puts my mind at ease about my and everyone's inevitable "end".

smerc;613956 said:
Yeah, try that and see if you get anything better coming from it. Would hate to use the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]UJW[/words] too tight and have to take days/weeks off due to blisters/ETC head injuries.

Are you taking any supplements? You might give 15-30mg of zinc a try and see if that increases libido. I had to stop zinc since I have a current masturbation problem. It really helps w/ erection quality and spontaneous erections for me, but it makes me want to masturbate so damn bad. I hate zinc, but I love it knowing that it does what it does for me.

damn i need to start taking zinc regularly. i never got that effect but was always sporadic with it
 
youknowme123321;613975 said:
i read something about biocentrism a year or so back. it was very interesting in its explanation of the universe, biology, and consciousness. i have a lot more reading to do about it but what i really took from it is that our consciousness creates the universe. conciousness can be seen as a wifi signal and our biological human bodies as a antenna that picks up the signal and is able to create the wonderful thing we call life :) AAWWWWWEEEEE!

Just b/c the antenna won't be there one day does not mean the signal will disappear forever. it will find another antenna. that other antenna doesn't have to be another human body or anything biological at all. at that point it is something that only exists outside of our current knowledge and consciousness. Believing this to be true puts my mind at ease about my and everyone's inevitable "end".

I also heard something about this. That were all connected in some particular way. It was in regards to emotions/being sick and how it impacts us to almost mimic those portions of other people if we surround ourselves w/ them. What you're saying is a bit different though. Almost like were all computers and there is a server that were connected to somewhere where we all pull from (intangible though). Or maybe I'm off-base w/ that analogy.

I did listen to a podcast from joe rogan about what you alluded to though. It's just I can't recall what was there. It probably was an un-openminded day where I couldn't retain much memory or had lack of critical thinking :blush:

youknowme123321;613975 said:
damn i need to start taking zinc regularly. i never got that effect but was always sporadic with it

The reason it may work for me could be due to hormonal issues. If you currently have a good hormonal homeostasis, then there might not be an effect or could be very little. Just depends on how your body reacts when flooded a bit w/ zinc or I guess any other hormonal compounds. I guess it would be the same thing straight across the board. Hopefully it works though. I have yet to get a hormone panel test, but I'm looking forward to it later on down the road. I kind of just take things and do the feeling out process w/ my body/mind, for anything more potent I would get a before/after panel test done (say for instance TRT or something w/ negative liver effects).
 
I have to say I am very proud of the Brothers here and how much they care for one another. This thread is new and has gotten so many responses already. I am very proud to be a part of a community that wants to help each other so much. Good work men!
 
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