New Motivation Found :(

[smallbrownguy]

So I just went through another frosh week at school and I have found my motivation.

I had opportunities with some very sexy women, but my inner conscience told me I wasn't endowed enough to please them and that lack of confidence made me sissy out of the opportunity.

I know that the ultimate goal of Penis Enlargement isn't to go out and get laid, but having a small unit is still effecting my social abilities. At my age (20) I still have the desire to have some sexual encounters with some members of the opposite sex, but my penis size is really holding me back.


I am STILL stuck at 5 inches in length and 4.7 inches girth.
I know these girls have had other partners before and the fear of being the "smallest" is really getting to me.

I'm trying to use this somehow as motivation to get to 5.5 x 5 I think at that size my confidence will be so much higher.

I just need to think of a way to get there, because the stretch/jelq method just isn't working for me. It's not the method in itself its my inability to stick with the routine.

Thinking of hanging/pumping or something

<

 

[Big Al]

So I just went through another frosh week at school and I have found my motivation.

I had opportunities with some very sexy women, but my inner conscience told me I wasn't endowed enough to please them and that lack of confidence made me sissy out of the opportunity.

I know that the ultimate goal of Penis Enlargement isn't to go out and get laid, but having a small unit is still effecting my social abilities. At my age (20) I still have the desire to have some sexual encounters with some members of the opposite sex, but my penis size is really holding me back.


I am STILL stuck at 5 inches in length and 4.7 inches girth.
I know these girls have had other partners before and the fear of being the "smallest" is really getting to me.

I'm trying to use this somehow as motivation to get to 5.5 x 5 I think at that size my confidence will be so much higher.

I just need to think of a way to get there, because the stretch/jelq method just isn't working for me. It's not the method in itself its my inability to stick with the routine.

Thinking of hanging/pumping or something

<

There's no way you're going to gain with Penis Enlargement unless you can commit to it. I just posted this article to Pegym.com, but it applies to your situation as well-

Penis Enlargement- Be prepared to give it time!

Recently, I've been getting requests for "quick fix" advice and "quick routines" for beginners. It seems that a lot of neophytes are impatient, and want something that they can do as an afterthought and expect to make gains. Let's go over some possible answers for these beginners...

"Is Penis Enlargement 'easy'?": Relatively speaking, yes. We've laid out most of the ground work for you with the routines available in this forum. The only thing left to do is to FOLLOW THE ROUTINES. Getting assistance and advice is important, but in the end, you're going to have to do the exercises YOURSELF.

"How long before I see results?" A lot of guys start seeing noticeable changes within a few weeks. A few genetic marvels have added up to an inch or more in less than a month! Uncommon? Yes. Impossible? No. Again, how fast you see results is entirely dependent on YOU. Here are some factors that will determine how much and how fast you gain:

- Finding a good routine- VERY IMPORTANT! Does the program offer consultation services? How's their support? How long do they take to answer emails? Is the info regularly updated? Are there various routines to choose from? Are the guidelines easy to follow?

- Your dedication to a routine- If you're constantly hoping from site to site in the hopes of a penis enlarging "Holy Grail", you're not going to make gains! Find a good, solid, and reputable Penis Enlargement program, and stick to it! Bottom line- Patience!

- Genetic ability: Simply put, some guys are born with bigger penises, and some guys are born with the ability to make gains faster than others.

- Your ability to follow instructions: This is a biggie! Some guys have trouble interpreting written exercise instructions. If you're of of these guys, find a Penis Enlargement program that offers online video instructions.

- Motivation: There are a nearly infinite number of possible reasons why a guy may want to add size to his penis. Some want to add a little more size for purely aesthetic reasons. Others feel it will make them better lovers. Others (unfortunately) have been embarrassed or humiliated by previous lovers due to their lack of size. Whatever the reason, motivation will surely influence whether or not you stick to a schedule, get the rest that you need, and add as much intensity to each exercise as (safely) possible.

A lot of the same guys that are seeking quick fixes are also complaining that the routines "take too long". Granted, there are some sites that recommend doing hours of exercises (we don't recommend those). For the sites that we DO recommend- "Do the exercises take a long time to do?" Relatively speaking, no. Unless you're VERY advanced, the exercises shouldn't take more than 30 minutes a day (hanging weights is the exception, but that doesn't require anything more than setting up a weight at the end of your penis- no actual manual exercise there) to perform.

People talk about being pressed for time. Take 20 minutes a day to devote to Penis Enlargement. Are you willing to set aside a few minutes a day for Penis Enlargement? If you REALLY desire a bigger penis, you'll MAKE the time. Take that time that you normally spend watching TV and use it for Penis Enlargement. Wake up a few minutes earlier or go to bed a few minutes later. Do it on your lunch/coffee break. Get the idea?

How badly do you want it?

Hope this helps!

 

[fedora]

So I just went through another frosh week at school and I have found my motivation.

I had opportunities with some very sexy women, but my inner conscience told me I wasn't endowed enough to please them and that lack of confidence made me sissy out of the opportunity.

I know that the ultimate goal of Penis Enlargement isn't to go out and get laid, but having a small unit is still effecting my social abilities. At my age (20) I still have the desire to have some sexual encounters with some members of the opposite sex, but my penis size is really holding me back.


I am STILL stuck at 5 inches in length and 4.7 inches girth.
I know these girls have had other partners before and the fear of being the "smallest" is really getting to me.

I'm trying to use this somehow as motivation to get to 5.5 x 5 I think at that size my confidence will be so much higher.

I just need to think of a way to get there, because the stretch/jelq method just isn't working for me. It's not the method in itself its my inability to stick with the routine.

Thinking of hanging/pumping or something

<

I´ve also missed out on a lot of opportunities with sexual encounters with women in my younger days because of that I wasn´t confident with my penis size. Now it has changed though!
You should ask yourself this: How much do you want a bigger penis?
If you find the answer to be extremly much, if it´s extremly important(like it was for myself), it´s worth missing some parties, taking a red bull sometimes to be able to do your girth routine at evenings when you don´t have the energy. You must have this dedication. If you complete this journey, the rewards are fantastic!

It doesn´t matter what kind of pe technique you do, whether it is hanging, [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] use, jelquing, clamping, or manual stretching. It all comes down to your dedication, focus and how strong your mind and commitment are. There are no quick inches out there, they require pretty much the same amount of work.

Somedays, especially the first 3 weeks most guys do their routine and they are dedicated and everything is going fine, then the inner voices tell us that " you can skip one day in your schedule, that don´t make a difference", then the next day comes and the inner voices tell us that it is ok to skip one day more, because it is a friends party etc... etc.... The inner voices try to make us take the easy way out of things... This is were your mindset needs to be prepared. Then you must let nothing, NOTHING disturb you from your goal and vision. No excuses, this is the key for success.

And if you choose to take this journey, there are a lot of wonderful, helping Penis Enlargement guys at this forum who is here to support and help you out!

 

[10inchadvantage]

I&#180;ve also missed out on a lot of opportunities with sexual encounters with women in my younger days because of that I wasn&#180;t confident with my penis size. Now it has changed though!
You should ask yourself this: How much do you want a bigger penis?
If you find the answer to be extremly much, if it&#180;s extremly important(like it was for myself), it&#180;s worth missing some parties, taking a red bull sometimes to be able to do your girth routine at evenings when you don&#180;t have the energy. You must have this dedication. If you complete this journey, the rewards are fantastic!

It doesn&#180;t matter what kind of pe technique you do, whether it is hanging, [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] use, jelquing, clamping, or manual stretching. It all comes down to your dedication, focus and how strong your mind and commitment are. There are no quick inches out there, they require pretty much the same amount of work.

Somedays, especially the first 3 weeks most guys do their routine and they are dedicated and everything is going fine, then the inner voices tell us that " you can skip one day in your schedule, that don&#180;t make a difference", then the next day comes and the inner voices tell us that it is ok to skip one day more, because it is a friends party etc... etc.... The inner voices try to make us take the easy way out of things... This is were your mindset needs to be prepared. Then you must let nothing, NOTHING disturb you from your goal and vision. No excuses, this is the key for success.

And if you choose to take this journey, there are a lot of wonderful, helping Penis Enlargement guys at this forum who is here to support and help you out!

While the above is true, if you're young, I'd argue to not miss a party or any other social event, especially if you really want to go. Life's too short to be worried about a part of your body which will keep you back from going out and having fun.

As far as the size thing, most guys are average, and you are average. I know it's easier for us bigger guys to say, "Oh, it's not that big of a deal." I remember when I was smaller and it was, however, you aren't small by any means. In reality, after you've bedded a girl, who cares what she thinks of your size? She just slept with you. I know guys who were admittedly smaller than average who had an attitude of, "I've got a penis and I know how to use it to give whatever girl I choose the best time of her life." They had no problems getting ladies. Reframe your beliefs, and you will rule.

 

[wesb]

Dude, you're not small you're average. Nothing to be ashamed of. Size isn't everything, one of the members here was relatively huge but could not last more than a minute or two - his wife cheated on him with a guy much smaller but who could make her cum. You'll never know till you get in there, read all you can about how to please women and go practice! Don't be afraid to ask her what feels good, not all women are the same. Some like it hard and fast, some don't. It won't do you any good to have a big dick if you can't make her cum with it. It's easy to think you're "small" when comparing your average size with big ones, but size is not a big factor in actually pleasing and satisfying a woman. If you can make her cum several times, she won't be saying anything about you being too small. If things don't go well, try again. I wasted years of my life not knowing any better, no Internet back then, I didn't have a clue about what I was doing. No confidence, damn I hate now to think about all the pussy that I turned down. Listen to 10inch, he's spot on.

 

[anth1225]

dude it's not the size of the wand that counts but the magic that it contains.

We're here to get bigger because we want to, not because we have to.

 

[longstretch]

It takes 30 days to make a habit a habit. Resist any resistance and just get going. I've learned the hard way that women respond much more to your personality and charisma than the size of your dick. After all you most likely can't just whip it out and expect to have women fall for you. You have to seduce them first. Like 10inch said don't let ANYTHING stop you from enjoying who you are and don't let it stop you from having the life you want.

Remember in Fight Club, "you are not your bank account, you are not the contents of your wallet..." well you can add you are not the size of your penis!

 

[D-termined]

Excellent replies, all. Stick with it, man!!! Consistency. You _are_ average. And missing out on opportunities because of insecurity (that you can move past!) is something most folks have experienced. Don't get too bogged down. Do the exercises and you'll build the motivation!

Good luck!

- D