My story - trying to follow a 9 incher

[Modest]

Hi,
Just joined yesterday after having dabbled since end of March and made some modest gains with some streching and some hanging. The reason I started, and now will make a renwed effort is easy. I started seeing a new girl i january. She is very outspoken and I learned very fast that she had been with about 30 guys (she is 33 btw). Anyway, once while licking her, she wanted me to fuck her and I asked in a bit of horny way "so you want some big cock in your pussy"? Should not have said that, beacuse then she countered with, "no, I want an ordinary one, about 8 inches is perfect". Well, I was 6 and a half and almost fell out of bed. This started some serious questioning to find out her preferences. Two of the guys she had been with had had 9 inch dicks. The way she knew? Well "does not all guys measure? The one with big guns also talk about it". The smallest one, which she laughed a lot about, had been 5 inches. And then a lot of dick in between. I was very upset, and then she tried to comfort me with: "what is the problem, you are average". If words could kill..... Btw asked her about girth and she answered: "well its not usual for big ones being skinny, is it" What really bothers me is that she is still friends with one of the guys and I know that they have fucked also in recent time, not while together with me as I know, but anyway.

So I started the next morning with looking on the net for pills, but found Thund3rs Pl@ce and started doing some stuff. In a few weeks I had grown half an inch and a bit in girth, and actually got a "it looks much bigger from this angle" and you are above average", which of course still does not repair the other stuff she said. Have not really made any real gains since, and last month I have been busy with vacation, moving, etc. But now I will start over.

So I started at 6,5/5 and am 7/5,2 now, and am of course aiming for +9 inches in lenght with some real girth going with that (7?).

Wish me luck, because I have really been depressed about this and need some self confidence back.

Modest

 

[SlamInTheLamb]

Some girls just don't realize how much it can hurt. By her saying you were average was probably meant as to comforting to you but she obviously didn't know that being average to us guys just doesn't cut it.

You need to try and turn this around to a positive, and have a 'I'll show you' kinda attitude.

Most girls who have had a few partners are more than likely to have had a bigger dick, but that doesn't mean they got any more pleasure. So long as you're big enough to hit the right spots (and you are) then technique goes a lot further.

Also, these 'big guns' are more than likely to be exaggerating and probably add at least an inch when bragging.

Good luck with your gains, just a couple of questions:-
1. Are your measurements bone pressed?
2. Does she know that you Penis Enlargement?

 

[Modest]

1) Yes, bone pressed
2) No she don´t, and I will not tell her, at least not until it is so obvious that she really starts asking.

Yes technique is important and when I asked her if there was not anything wrong with the 9 incher she said that he was a bit fast and had to do her twice to make her cum. Well that was comforting for a while because I have always been able to go for long times. Until i started Penis Enlargement that is! Now I come very fast, still make her come every time but it is very annoying that I have lost my one advantage! Need to make short strokes, stop quite often and so on. Will make efforts with the kegel, which I have not so far, because I read in another place that it actually made things worse.

Also, I think it really was 9 inches, and I think she has measured it herself. She wanted to measure mine too but I declined. Asked her if she had measured any other of her dicks. She answered: "no, of course not". As a comparison, she took my naked picture and when I asked her if she had many she said: "no, of course not". Well, i accidentally found her "pack" of old boyfriend naked pictures, at least of half a dozoen of them. Of course she has taken pictures of all, of course she has measured them. Btw, the 9 incher was not in the pack. She told me that was in another place.....

Although she really tries not to, she says things that makes it obvious that she liked the big one very much. For example when I asked if it felt good when she was doing his dick, she said, "I was not doing that BIG dick, it was doing me!" or "it was really TOO BIG, I had to become really horny and wet to mount it without it hurting me".....well she probably thought she was comforting me again by saying so....

Sorry for sounding depressed and going on about it, but I have not had any one to talk to and this has bothered me so much.

Modest

 

[SlamInTheLamb]

JEEZ...you let her keep pics of her past boyfriend dicks :O

If she's serious about you, then make her throw out her past and concentrate on the present.

 

[Modest]

Well, maybe I was unclear there, it is really not penis pics, its coming out of the shower pics and that sort of stuff.

And she would never trow out pictures. Its just the girl she is, saving old memories and stuff. With or without pics, she would still have the memories. That is not a problem though as long as I am better than the memories. Just that, I´m not, at least not in my own eyes.....

We are serious though, we are actually going to have a baby this summer!

Modest

 

[hangh]

keep going dude and don't give up, that 9 incher will be yours! maybe you should chat with your gf and maybe she can help you out with it? I bet she would be pretty excited about hte whole thing

 

[SlamInTheLamb]

Well, I hope you can get your head sorted a bit. I've come to terms with the fact that I'm never gonna be the biggest guy and I dont let it get to me.

You can look at yourself as privilidged that you know about Penis Enlargement and can turn to your girl in a few years time and laugh about the insecurities that you had.

I wish you all the success in acheiving your goals. Keep posting 'cos there's a lot of support here for you when you need it.

 

[REDZULU2003]

This bird *slut* sounds like a complete fucked up nut-case....I would get rid of this baggage before it de-moralizes you anymore.

 

[SlamInTheLamb]

Originally posted by REDZULU2003
This bird *slut* sounds like a complete fucked up nut-case....I would get rid of this baggage before it de-moralizes you anymore.

lol Never one to mince words

 

[Synthetic]

I completely agree with Redzulu. This girl is a nutcase. Before you get too close drop her like a bad habbit bro. Sorry to say this.

 

[mowinman]

If she is not marriage material, why have a child. Are you so independantly rich you can afford child support when she or you moves on. Reconsider having a kid till ya know.

 

[Modest]

Come on guys, you have only heard the bad parts. Of course I would have dumped her if there was not all the good stuff. She is lovely in many ways, and i might also be very sensitive to the dick stuff.

Very nice to get all the support though, and I do see that I can not let this keep me down. Funny thing, I never ever thought about my dick size before that time when she commented, only in terms of I am probably a bit above average, there is probably not much difference and the girls probably does not care that much anyway. Boy, was I in for a rude awakening!

Modest

 

[REDZULU2003]

Come on guys, you have only heard the bad parts. Of course I would have dumped her if there was not all the good stuff. She is lovely in many ways, and i might also be very sensitive to the dick stuff

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Tell us the good than [being nosey bastard]
I can only advise on what has been posted...I hope it didnt cause offense??? I was actually funny enough REAL pissed of at the time of posting the advice :blush:

 

[Blade]

That woman lacks something we call "social antennas" where I come from - you just don't say that to someone. Turn the situation around, and ask how she would feel if you made comments like:

"You have a big ass, my last girlfriend had a really nice petite one"
"Your tits are ok, but I've dated a few girls with really big, juicy, firm ones"
"Your pussy is pretty good, but I've been with a couple of girls who just had these tight little holes, almost couldn't get my dick in..."

etc etc

Women have hang-ups with just about every part of their body, so if this bitch doesn't understand how sensitive a subject the penis is to a man, you need to let her go...a man doesn't need people like that in his life, neither friends nor girlfriends.

 

[Godsize]

That sounds like my ex girlfriend. She kept pictures of her exes, not naked of course, but still.... I fucking HATE that shit. Hated it enough to break up with her... quite a few times.

She never alluded to her past lovers' dick sizes, and I never asked, but it still haunted me. And, she would still talk to her exes too... that bothered the shit outta me. She didn't seem to understand, though.

Asking questions like that is like sticking your head in an alligator's mouth. I would also never refer to my dick as "big" no matter how huge it was... especially with someone new. You never know what they've had in the past and you definitely don't wanna remind them.

Don't get me wrong now, I totally can empathize with your problem since I went through something very similar. Seems to me that your girl is very thoughtless. If that kind of thing happened to me, it would definitely kill it for me. I'd lose interest right away.

If you plan on being with her a long time (if you're actually going through with having a kid with her then you must be) then perhaps you can arrive at 9" someday and feel better about being with her. I wouldn't be able to wait that long, though. I'd be crushed.

Well, you're on the right track. If you're looking to increase your size, you're in the right place.

 

[bigbutnottoo]

Originally posted by mowinman
IfReconsider having a kid till ya know.

If she is already having a kid, I think its too late to reconsider.

 

[wesb]

Originally posted by Modest
Hi,
Just joined yesterday after having dabbled since end of March and made some modest gains with some streching and some hanging. The reason I started, and now will make a renwed effort is easy. I started seeing a new girl i january. She is very outspoken and I learned very fast that she had been with about 30 guys (she is 33 btw). Anyway, once while licking her, she wanted me to fuck her and I asked in a bit of horny way "so you want some big cock in your pussy"? Should not have said that, beacuse then she countered with, "no, I want an ordinary one, about 8 inches is perfect". Well, I was 6 and a half and almost fell out of bed.

Ahh....you ever think that maybe she thought that <i>you</i> were 8 inches? I see no reason for her to say that 8" is "ordinary" and later tell you that you're average?

 

[DLD]

Originally posted by REDZULU2003
This bird *slut* sounds like a complete fucked up nut-case....I would get rid of this baggage before it de-moralizes you anymore.

LOL, RED never pulls a punch...Thats why I love him

 

[quijjiboo]

Originally posted by Blade
That woman lacks something we call "social antennas" where I come from - you just don't say that to someone. Turn the situation around, and ask how she would feel if you made comments like:

"You have a big ass, my last girlfriend had a really nice petite one"
"Your tits are ok, but I've dated a few girls with really big, juicy, firm ones"
"Your pussy is pretty good, but I've been with a couple of girls who just had these tight little holes, almost couldn't get my dick in..."

etc etc

Women have hang-ups with just about every part of their body, so if this bitch doesn't understand how sensitive a subject the penis is to a man, you need to let her go...a man doesn't need people like that in his life, neither friends nor girlfriends.

that exactly it man.
also, I really doubt she just doesn't know, she's 33 she should have an idea about these things by now