Lasting a long time in bed!?!

[sweets]

I had always had problems lasting in the sac, I remember one time I was hitting it raw, and took a couple of strokes and had to pull out, nutted and that was it, the whole thing couldn't of lasted for more that 30 sec.( I know, ouch) So anyway, I think it was the same girl on a different occasion,(there were a couple experements that I tried ), Next time I tried those delay condoms, and that didn't prove any different then the last time, it was like stoke, stroke, stroke, (ahhh, this feels to good) and then nut!
OK, soooo, the very next time or so I got some desensitising cream and spray saturated my penis with it and the out come wasn't that much better.

At this piont, I'm like holy shit yo, I have a serious problem fellas, I can't last for a fucking minute. This brought me to my next time, and what I did next was starting on the right path, I rubbed one out before hand so when I was actually fucking the "Well" wouldn't be "full" so to speak and I might get some good time in. This was good for like 45 secs and then bam, had to nut, and no matter how hard I tryed to hold that fella in, it was to late, a condom full of sperm ( god damn it, shit mother fucker!!!!!!) So rubbing one nut before hand didn't get me any closer to lasting then delay condom, desensitizing cream and spray, and masterbating before the actual sex.

Now, I continue to get laid a couple of times a year hear and their when I get "lucky" (my god, nothing wrong with that) but I know going into it, that's it's just to get a nut off, and if I was ever serious about pleasing a girl I'd have to get act together.

This brings me to a pretty cool experience with some 40 something year old, not even close to a Milf, but she had big tits and liked young boys, so the odds where in my favor. Basically I had rubbed out not 1, but 2 nutts that day, and when I went over her house, I fucked this lady 7 ways to Sunday, fucked for as hard and fast as the kid could for what seemed like 45 minutes (give or take, it had to be an official 30) and I was like oh shit, that's the KEY.

Now every one knows that when you rub one out, theirs a hormone drop and the last thing that's on your mind is busting a load, so part of the delema, although not sooo much is rubbing 2 out before either hitting the bars, unless I wounld't plan on having sex, or didn't care if I met a stranger and busted quickely, or just say "give me head", and make up an excuse like I'm just not in the mode to have sex, but really cuz I don't want to be imbarressed by coming to quickley ( and alcohol will also play a role in this breaker story shortly), or on just planning on having sex with a girl, where your pretty sure you'll be able to score and just have to plan an hour or so of rubbing 2 out before hand( nothing we are not used to, use planning and Pe'ing) which is not so much of a big deal, it helps if she's hot, or you two vibe, cuz when your "well" is this dry you definetly aren't as horny. but the thing is for "us kind of people are...

We just want to be able to last, even if it's for the sake of just fucking, a dutie, a fucking right, so what ever I gotta do to be able to fuck like a champ, well darn it, this is what I'm going to do ( and from the older lady story, trust me this technique is the anwswer)

So getting over the well not so horney, and having to plan a min. of an hour to masterbate and rubb "2" nuts out, were ready to roll.

This brings me to the other night, my folks were outta town, the house to myself, fridge full of beers, music thumpin, 2 nutts rubbed out and this fine looking Dominican bird rubbing my balls What a way to go for me!
So I'm drinking maybe 3 beers nothing two much, just to get a buzz, got her panties of sucking on her titties and what not, she was like "hell yeah", you gotta condom, I'm like "for sure".... but now I can't get it up this time.

Not enought testosterone left, and a mild buzz, no I can't even get it up
No big deal, we messed around for a little bit, and I took her home, shit I know she got hers in so that's basically it.

I know 200% that if I want to fuck like my life depended upon it, coming from somebody who couldn't last a minute... I gotta rub not one, but two in the coarse of the day and go about my business like it's a job. My slight delema, having the juice expecially if drinking( and that's happend to many fellas whether it woudl be drunk dick or coke dick... somebody reading this will relate) NOre do I condone coke, but it's happened, and this not even being much of the problem, but I need some "pill" either viagra/cilias or something maybe a liquid version, that I can take like 20-30 minutes before to get me steel again. I took viagra once or twice and it didn't do anything for me.

I have tried those pills at the gas stations before and their pretty darn effective, so I'd have to get my mitts on them and hope( cuZ some alcohol is usually involved) that it would over ride the booze.

AND thats my story and revalation, a man with a plan! so to speak!
any body ever try rubbing a few off before sex, or premature ejacutation, or viagra/cilias( I think that's what's it called) or any "get your shit hard" pills with sucess, please tell me What you think, or if you think this could work for you, or if you just liked the fucking story, DLD.... tell us what you think aswell you big cock motherfucker!

 

[DLD]

How long have you been doing Penis Enlargement? Jelqing will help you last longer just because of the desensitization it promotes. Ejaculation is also a great deterrent, especially for people like yourself that have THAT MUCH ENDURANCE.

For me, pre-mature ejaculation usually accompanied over-horniness or even mental obsession. If I thought about cuming too much low and behold I would cum but when I was able to put it out of my mind and satisfy Jen, putting all of my mental thought into making things good for her, ejaculation was usually more difficult for me.

There are also many therapies for this problem, here are a few:

Pre-Mature Ejaculation is something many men suffer with. I have found many different ideas in helping with this that I have included below. I do want to say that this problem will fade from simply doing my program. When most men, myself included, got familiar with manual penis enlargement exercise the problem just seems to fade. The reason this problem does go away is the constant stimulation of the exercises. This constant stimulus trains the penis to last longer and longer. In the mean time here are some great techniques. Some are my own techniques, others I found around the web.

Becoming in touch with your orgasm
There is a very fine line between cuming and about to cum. making this distinction is the first step in having more staying power.

Identify your brink of orgasm
You will want to identify the fine line that separates cuming from about to cum. During this period pay special attention to what brings you almost to orgasm. What are your thoughts? How long does it take to get there? Keep Track of this information for future reference. The goal here is to paint a mental picture of your orgasm and identify just what brings you to this brink and what you can do to stop it.

Breathing to Reduce Excitement
Simply taking a deep breath at the brink of orgasm is a very effective way to reduce your excitement level and reset your orgasm. It does not work for everyone but it is worth trying.

Breathing to Reset Orgasm
When you feel that you are getting too close to orgasm, just completely stop and take a deep breath. Give yourself a minute or two to reset your mental orgasm. Once you feel that you have reset this mental orgasm continue with the confidence that the physical orgasm is far off. You will find with practice this process will give you longer and longer periods of staying power. Eventually this mental reset will happen automatically with no pause.

The Squeeze Techniques
When you feel close to your orgasm completely stop, pull out, take a deep breath and apply one of these two squeezing methods. One method usually works better for men than the other so try them both.

BASE SQUEEZE:
at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the OK grip squeeze the base of your penis and squeeze until the urge has faded.

UP SQUEEZE:
at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the forefinger and thumb squeeze the top and bottom of your penis just below the glans until the urge to orgasm has faded.

DLD Push
The DLD Push is a technique to prolong orgasm and remain erect after orgasm. This method involved a hard reverse kegel right at the brink of orgasm. It takes some practice but once it is mastered 4-5 orgasms are possible.

Reverse Psychology
A great technique that seems to work very well for me is the Reverse Psychology method. Previously to having sex I convince myself that I am going to have problems ejaculation.

 

[sweets]

Your a kind person DLD, i've been trying to enlarge my penis for 3+ years, started pumping for one year, did jelqs for about a month, but never got into it, because I found hanging, then hung for 1 year= no results
hung for another 7 months W/ [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words] =0 results
came to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] at the end of 2005 learned the LOT
theory and am gaining since,
I was under 5 BP X 5 and now i'm between (on a good morning just a mere
2 1/2 months later after all
that time, 5.5-5.75 NBP, and
growing, i'll be conquering 6+
next year)
Once I get to a good 6-7 I go back to jelqs and work on girth.

Back to the topic at hand though, even if I were to at the base and glands when I felt I was going to orgasm, that would be retarted cuz it would be like during the first minute or so. I like the sound of the reverse kegal to continue to penetrate after orgasm untill the next one, that would be sick, and I also like the reverse phycology, this all sounds good, but I think I (cuz I do have lots of endurance, and I hope getting older is not going to change that to fast and drastically, like maybe the other night was a coincedence) have found what works at the moment. I basically need a pick me up after getting ready and rubbing two out and to be able to get hard to the touch like if I was fresh. Scince viagra didn't work for me the 2 times I tried it, I want to hear from any one who's tried cilias. or even a liquid form which i've remember reading.

(DLD, I sent you a personal email like on the 7th, if you could get back to me)

and also if you could keep this on the NewPost for a good week or two just so I can get as many responses if any on this topic of mine, Thanx

 

[9cyclops9]

There's a link in my sig to a post I wrote a while back called "Killing pre-ejac" or something like that. Try it out, it helped me a ton, along with many other guys.

 

[penguinsfan]

I have to say I've never really had this problem, but I think it might get worse as I get older, or so I suspect. There's no question but "running one off" has been a pre-ejac method as old as time itself and I think there is some merit to it.

 

[sweets]

TOday being Valentines Day, this would get some more coverage, any other opinions or testiments on my experience ??

 

[swolejah]

Hey sweets so basically you masterbated twice during the day before having sex and that made you last at least 30? I have pre-ejac as well and it's pretty bad. I can masterbate and bust in less than a minute if I was turned on enough. I just wanna be able to last as long as I want and not have to reverse kegel, or use some sort of mental power, I just wanna do it like normal.

 

[sweets]

I though a SuBathmateitted a reply the day after Valentines, YO...
Every thing went down to the wire, I took this chick out to eat, brought her back to the crib and smashed this girl for like as hard and fast as I could man, we both couldn't even take it, it was exactly how it should be done yo.
At the end she told me she'd see me in a year! I think we fucked for more than an hour, and we just stopped, because it was alot!.
Ya I a l ways had problems, I mean you can read the beginning of this
tread, I had the day off and basically rubbed 2 off during this time, one taking me about 5 mins and the second about 20-25 mins.( I also copped some a different package of get your shit hard and took them and for the third time around type thing and this worked like a charm) A couple hours later, I met up with this chick..., we hung out and had a nice time, I was sitting across from her enjoying my self, I was laughing at her jokes, and I was thinking, oh shit girl, your gonna get it, your in some serious trouble and you don't even know it Any way so it was an over all success, I must admit, I don't think one could do this every day, but a good once a week probably wouldn't be to taxing.