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eugine8plz

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So me and my girlfriend just started having sex at the beginning of August and whenever we would have sex I would last anywhere from 30 minutes to 90 minutes, and with head I could last about 45 minutes. But as of about 3 weeks ago I literally haven't been able to hold it in!!! I cum within about like 2-5 minutes and once I came like right away and I don't get it!! I used to be able to go on for 90 minutes!

Someone please help me find a way to last longer, and if someone has an idea as to why this might be happening and could tell me that would be great! Thanks my brothers!!
 
Happens. Just that you became relaxed and let go of things in your head that kept you holding back. I went through the same thing. Work on your kegels and pelvic floor muscles. When having sex, feel how your body is reacting and how it's different than before. I lost my holding ability because I quit jelqing and kegeling after I got in my relationship. It took me years though. That mind and penis connection is what helped me to control and love how everything felt. Don't rush through sex either, like you think someone is gonna come in any minute. Relax. Go through whatever is different at all, anything minimal can be something big. You know.
 
shortdick;679658 said:
you got a bigger penis n you get overexcited LOL JK:)
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I used to get the same thing XD, but after lots of edging /kegel practice I pretty much have good sync with my gasms
 
runningignus;679664 said:
Happens. Just that you became relaxed and let go of things in your head that kept you holding back. I went through the same thing. Work on your kegels and pelvic floor muscles. When having sex, feel how your body is reacting and how it's different than before. I lost my holding ability because I quit jelqing and kegeling after I got in my relationship. It took me years though. That mind and penis connection is what helped me to control and love how everything felt. Don't rush through sex either, like you think someone is gonna come in any minute. Relax. Go through whatever is different at all, anything minimal can be something big. You know.
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Alright I see. I tried not thinking about it yesterday and still came in literally like 2 minutes which really pisses me off cause I used to be able to last for so long and all of a sudden I can't last long at all :( I'm gonna start doing kegels way more and try to change my mind set when it comes to sex and hopefully that helps!!!
 
templnite;679675 said:
I used to get the same thing XD, but after lots of edging /kegel practice I pretty much have good sync with my gasms
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yeah grabbing our huge monsters is so exciting so thrilling lol
 
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I'm having the same problem. When first starting I used to make her come 3 times in a single sex session. We've been having sex for 5 months now and it started happening at the 3rd month. I think it is two things... First being when you first have sex with a girl you got a lot to prove and you give it all you got. The second and maybe more accurate reason would be, at least for me, being single a while before my new girl... I would jerk off a lot, edging without realizing it. Now I don't jerk off because of sex on demand.

That being said... I've been doing lots of kegels and taking zinc supplements. I'm starting to improve. Just bought [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]Titan[/words] Pills and my girl has been gone for a month on vacation so I will see how it goes when she returns.
 
huge-girth;679439 said:
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You get a full inch worth of expansion, dang man, what's your pumping routine look like?

I'm more of a girth person when it comes to PE which is why I'm concentrating on length until I get to my length goal. I do 10 X 3 with 5 mins of [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words] in between sets.
 
doublelongdaddy;679800 said:
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Right now for some frickin reason, I can throw a condom on with some lube and only last 5-6 minutes tops. I'm making sure my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]fleshlight[/words] doesn't have babies lol. Seriously though, I feel more sensitive with a condom on than without, just frickin freakin me out. I'm already starting to last longer, so it's working but just weird. I wanted to see what it was like so I tried it. Turned out to be completely opposite.
 
I think since they're made of rubber there's a better kind of friction
 
It takes time and practice and plenty of fuck ups to master lasting as long as you like but it is very possible. Like I said, the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] feels identical to a vagina and edging using the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] is fun and with each session you will gain more an more control until you are able to cum on command!
 
When emotions are evolving in a relationship. This is quite common.

Try and have a longer foreplay. And let the sex start slowly. Very very slowly.

I mean penetrate her and stay still. Now do one pump in and out.

Now do it at a very slow phase. Most young people think sex is like adult entertainment it doesnt have to be full speed all the time.

Do a phase so slow you arent going to come (1 beat on 10 secs for example. ) and relax your breathing!

Now slowly ibcrease speed until you can feel tension build up.

And then slow it down again.

Still control your breathing.

This will take some time. But will be a hands on experience on what to do.

Which has happened to everyone who have had sex.

Now a great way to get clmfprtable with a higher speed is dld's method. Mix those 2 and you will have a happy girl again :)
 
mahoney1234;680714 said:
Just memorize the lyrics to wu tang triumph and repeat the song in your head as you have sex, trust you'll last long as shit
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shortdick;679734 said:
yeah grabbing our huge monsters is so exciting so thrilling lol
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templnite;679922 said:
I think since they're made of rubber there's a better kind of friction
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Astropelite99;681072 said:
I have a question I'm new to this website how can I get contact with experts on to message them, everytime I click on messages it says I'm not registered but in my profile says I am. Any help please?
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This was hapenning to me in first few days I registered. I think the registratiuon needs to be aproved by admin or something like that.
It should be working for you real soon.
 
BigBeardBig;681128 said:
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mm i got registered years ago,n when i started posting everything worked out ok...:) maybe would take a few days before he could post..nothing to be worried about..:)
 
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Cuming too quickly is not a problem bro, there is no such thing ! "If I cum, it was right on time !"

Woman: baby how could you? How could you cum ?
Man: I was fucking ! What were you trying to do, huh? ...oh, cum ??.. well, I beat you
 
BigBeardBig;681324 said:
Cuming too quickly is not a problem bro, there is no such thing ! "If I cum, it was right on time !"

Woman: baby how could you? How could you cum ?
Man: I was fucking ! What were you trying to do, huh? ...oh, cum ??.. well, I beat you
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Haha. The man tends to always lose if it's a marathon lol.
 
Ohhhhh ok. All I ever remember is if I ever shot and killed a black guy, to sprinkle Crack on his body. No matter what, I laugh like a crazy person whenever somebody says it.
 
You have to be police, or they'll attribute it to standard negus fuckery
 
BigBeardBig;681337 said:
Haha yea its from Dave Chappelles standup.
"Im a speed fucker, I tried to beat my best time"
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Remember when Ron Jermey was on and Dave went into the internet? He got spammed big time by penis enlargement [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words]. It was hilarious! If someone has that video please post, it is soon funny.
 
Found it!

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runningignus;681672 said:
After so long, it's still funny as hell.
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Hilarious! One of the funniest things I have ever watched, mainly because I am a PE-er.
 
Thanks everyone I'm all good now! the last few times that we had sex i lasted an average of about 30-45 minutes. I feel that i was just over thinking everything, i just had to calm down and stop thinking about it so hard. All is well now!
 
Shit man what do you do for 45mins with her, playing video games ? :D
My preference is rather 3x10 mins session during some hot steamy day than 1x30mins :cool:
 
BigBeardBig;682014 said:
Shit man what do you do for 45mins with her, playing video games ? :D
My preference is rather 3x10 mins session during some hot steamy day than 1x30mins :cool:
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We just try all sorts of positions and shit bro aha. I like having a nice long session but thats just me :P :)
 
eugine8plz;682013 said:
Thanks everyone I'm all good now! the last few times that we had sex i lasted an average of about 30-45 minutes. I feel that i was just over thinking everything, i just had to calm down and stop thinking about it so hard. All is well now!
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Overthinking negativity will always bring negativity. When we are able to be mindful and keep our concentration on the now you will last so much longer in bed. Premature ejaculation happens psychologically in two ways, either you are obsessing on the past and how you didn't last or you are thinking on the future when your thoughts may be relating to the past failures. This is a vicious cycle and can only be dealt with by bringing your attention to the now and keep it there! If anyone has issues with these things I highly recommend practicing DBT, there is some good information HERE.
 
great to hear that you got over the problem.

on another note.

dave chapelle was without comparison the funniest show on tc. i rewatched all of them a few months ago.

only then i actually realized that those "real life hollywood stories" where fucking real.

that story with prince and basketball made me fall down my chair.

i can just imagine prince dressed as a male ice skater. completely obliterate the murphy brothers and friends in basket.

or rick james who keeps calling them "darkness" and bitch slapping charles.

"im rich james bitch!"
 
I never did Cocaine...... Cocaine is a Hell of a Drug :)

You kicked me in my chest nigga
 
doublelongdaddy;698589 said:
For real? Have you tried?
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Salmon I could do. But no way could I eat crab or shrimp. Can't put ketchup on those.

Sex for me I last anywhere from 4-9 minutes. But my refractory period is quick, so I am able to go again soon after my first orgasm. But I wish I could last longer but I'm pretty good at getting a girl off quickly. Besides that's what oral is for, for a woman. Get them right to the brink, and then slam it home.
 
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PGApro;699292 said:
Salmon I could do. But no way could I eat crab or shrimp. Can't put ketchup on those.

Sex for me I last anywhere from 4-9 minutes. But my refractory period is quick, so I am able to go again soon after my first orgasm. But I wish I could last longer but I'm pretty good at getting a girl off quickly. Besides that's what oral is for, for a woman. Get them right to the brink, and then slam it home.
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4-9 minutes of intercourse is great as long as you spend some time in foreplay. Having a quick refractory is awesome, I have this same ability.
 
PGApro;699292 said:
Salmon I could do. But no way could I eat crab or shrimp. Can't put ketchup on those.QUOTE]

please tell me you don't put ketchup on salmon. Try grilling it in some aluminum (or aluminium for you Euros) with lemon, freshly cracked pepper and (don't think I'm crazy) Best Foods/Hellman's mayo.
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Big Schwanz Acht;699466 said:
PGApro;699292 said:
Salmon I could do. But no way could I eat crab or shrimp. Can't put ketchup on those.QUOTE]

please tell me you don't put ketchup on salmon. Try grilling it in some aluminum (or aluminium for you Euros) with lemon, freshly cracked pepper and (don't think I'm crazy) Best Foods/Hellman's mayo.
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Its aluminatium
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Big Schwanz Acht;699466 said:
PGApro;699292 said:
Salmon I could do. But no way could I eat crab or shrimp. Can't put ketchup on those.QUOTE]

please tell me you don't put ketchup on salmon. Try grilling it in some aluminum (or aluminium for you Euros) with lemon, freshly cracked pepper and (don't think I'm crazy) Best Foods/Hellman's mayo.
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Thanks for reminding me! I need to pick up some ketchup :)
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We all know, ketchup makes everything better. I barely go a day without eating something with ketchup

DLD- quick refractory periods are a damn good thing. I'm the king of foreplay. Always do that get my 5-10 mins in back to some foreplay and go back at it. Repeat until I'm out of time.

Also the downside of hookers though..usually you only get one time and that's it. Not to much foreplay in that.
 
Kegels have taken my penile health and sex game to the next level. Long holds and slow release (into a light push or Reverse Kegel) have helped tremendously.
 
PGApro;700051 said:
We all know, ketchup makes everything better. I barely go a day without eating something with ketchup

DLD- quick refractory periods are a damn good thing. I'm the king of foreplay. Always do that get my 5-10 mins in back to some foreplay and go back at it. Repeat until I'm out of time.

Also the downside of hookers though..usually you only get one time and that's it. Not to much foreplay in that.
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Yup, it is a blessing. I can get it up almost immediately and I can last as long as I like. The power of KEGELS is highly underrated!
 
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