Help me out

[jaws_mcKlaine]

Hi guys. First post here. Dont know if this is the correct section of the forum...

I am 19 years old. From the UK. I have lots of issues on my mind and am hoping you guys can help me out with some of them.

I have never had sex and get very nervous every time the opportunity arises. So much so that i am unable to get an erection.

This may stem from the fact that i feel that my penis isn't very big.
Maybe i wouldn't be so anxious if i had a larger flacid penis. Are pills generally considered useful in this instance around these forums?? There must be some pills that make you bigger, even if only temporarily, in a flaccid state. I once took a diet pill called 'thermorexin' that had this effect.

Saying that, In most of these occasions i had been drinking and had some cocaine. Im wondering if this (the coke especially??) played a role.

Maybe something like viagra could help. Use it to get my confidence up and then hopefully be ok without it??

Another question. How comes some day my flaccid penis is bigger than on other days?? Does everyone have this? What can we do to make sure that each day or penis's are, at least as large as they can be. Water intake?? diet? It just seems randon to me. Some days bigger than others.

Thoughts please.

 

[Juggers]

wow...You came to the right place. You need to start a Penis Enlargement routine and stop doing drugs. About the flaccid state, yes, it will be different day to day. When you get out of the shower it is usually bigger because it has been warmed up and blood has been drawn into it. However, after doing Penis Enlargement for a little while, my flaccid length has went from 4 inches to a little under 5...or just about 5...I gained and inch! And it hasn't gone down yet (After a three day break)...So all Im saying is that if you do Penis Enlargement you will get bigger.

 

[iwant8inches]

Water should help flaccid size....the coke isn't going to help you in any way especially not in penis size...everyone's flaccid size varies from practically hour to hour depending on temperature, arousal, clothing you are wearing, etc.

If you are 5 inches or bigger you're not alone and if you're bigger than 6 you aren't small you're actually above average in erect length. Just do the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] and try not to look back or at least get down on yourself so much about penis size. I've increased my penis size nearly 2 full inches in length and a little over 1 inch in girth in about 1.5 years of Penis Enlargement, yet I still haven't got any since I was 5 x 4. It's all mental. Think about what you've just typed. You said you think you have a small penis.

The next time you have a woman wanting sex. Want it for yourself too. Take her and just go with it. Don't think. Just fool around with her until you are turned on to the point you are hard and have sex. You're 19 for God's sake. Have a little fun and don't worry about performance. I'm sure your first time won't be your last time. But the longer you think about feeling sorry for your size the longer you're going to be lonely and feeling inadequate. How do you know you are going to be small for the girl you have sex with? A woman has her insecurities and issues to deal with and she doesn't need to feel that you have insexurities yourself to the point where you can't feel adequate. Every woman wants to feel in control, but more does she want badly to be with a man she can just feel safe with and a little less in control than she normally feels. Damn. I need to start taking my own advice.

 

[jaws_mcKlaine]

thanks to both of you. i wasn't sure whether this board would be full up of morons wanting to give me a rough time. The problem does get me down. Without trying to be to 'up myself' I do get hit on alot. The thing that prompted me to actually start this thread is, because believe it or not, I turned down the advances of a model two nights ago. A freaking model! Goregeous. I was just too nervous. I am sure that the coke made it worse. My penis does shrink when i do coke. My friends say they dont notice a change in theirs. Everyones different.

I do plan on taking up the advice about the excersies. Are there any pills that help the flacid size aswell. I dont think that my erect penis is particulary small.
Does nitric oxide have any effect on the penis? I ask, because i belong to a bodybuilding website, and i've heard some posters mention that their penis's become kinda 'blood filled' but still flacid. Kinda semi-errect, whe taking the stuff..

 

[iwant8inches]

I took some NO2 and other types of that crap for almost 8 months or so non-stop and I never really noticed much of a difference in flaccid hang. Veins got bigger in my arms and everywhere else and seemed to have more energy but really nothing in the penis department. It's good you're looking to improve yourself in some areas despite being hit on by models. lol Good luck.

 

[ctmwm]

Me personally would stop the coke. I have heard that if you have the slightest problem getting erect it will multiply it by 1000 times. The viagra and others will only keep you hard longer. You will still have to get a hardon. It wont do it for you. At 19 I wouldnt use any of them. If you really want to try something to help you try 2 pills of Kava Kava that will take the edge off and you wont have any cares about not performing or being small it will just happen naturally.

 

[jaws_mcKlaine]

^^thanks for that. It does make me feel better knowing that without the coke I may be ok. For the record im not a coke addict or anything. Do a little maybe every few weeks.

Another thing. I've noticed that I dont tend to wake up with an erection. Would this imply a possibly low testosterone level??

 

[insearchof9inch]

My girlfriend does drugs a lot. I've tried to stop her and I guess the only way to show her how bad she is would be to give her an ultimatum. Not sure which she would choose, she is that serious about drugs. I guess this is another matter anyway, I got a bit carried away there.

The point is, drugs fucking suck. I am so opiniated over this due to several bad experiences involving my friends and drugs that have a direct effect not only on them, but on me also. They also screw with your dick. I'm not being harsh or anything but I believe its your own damn fault if you get erection troubles from drugs. You shouldn't do them if you aren't prepared to accept the consequences.

Do the DLD [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]. It will help. Also stop with coke. It's ok to drink but some people still find it hard to get up when they have been drinking.

 

[Godsize]

dude....coke will totally ruin any chance you have to get an erection. It depends on how much coke you do. If you do just a bit, you can still get a nice hard on, but cumming will be tough. Any more than a couple lines, and your cock will shrivel up like a raisin in the sun. Trust me...do too much coke at once and you'll be hung like an infant. Cocaine CAN enhance sex, but it has to be the right amount. Not too much.

As for being nervous with the girls, get some Viagra. It works like a charm every time. Just don't take Viagra AND cocaine at the same time... you'll have a fuckin heart attack.

I had the same problem with pre-sex nerves keeping me from attaining a good hard on. Taking 25 or 50mgs of viagra totally helped me out. You wont grow dependant on it, so don't worry. Once you fuck a few times, bust your nut with a girl, you'll find it easier to relax and "just do it" without the pills. If you do it once, you'll trick yourself into having confidence with women. By "trick" I mean that you really dont have a problem...it's all in your mind. Viagra can and will help you "get over the hump" so to speak. Heh heh heh. Try it and good luck.

 

[jaws_mcKlaine]

Thanks Godsize. I was confused because my friends sometimes talked of having great sex after having been on the cocaine. I understand now.

If i chose to try the viagra or something similar, do you have any good sites ect for me to try. I live in the UK and dont have too much money at the momnet. Can you buy in very small amounts? Also, when I was looking at the vig-rx pills, i came across something called vig-rx oil which they referred too as: 'topical viagra'. Have people had much to say about this product that you know of??

thanks