After what my girlfriend said today I am more motivated than ever!

[wickedshlong]

Ok so earlier today I was discussing penis size with my girlfriend and I already knew that I wasn't the biggest she has ever had. I asked how much bigger the guy was than me. Apparently the guy was just over half an inch longer and a little bit thicker.

I want to be the biggest she has ever had. I've always hated not being this and now I know what to aim for. I am going to do the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] that DLD did and piss pulls whenever I go to the toilet for a pee at work (30 seconds straight down before I pee).I also am going to reverse kegel during every stretch so as to get the maximum stretch.

How long realistically if I do this everyday do you think it would take to achieve this?

This has finally motivated me to take Penis Enlargement seriously as I can visualize how much bigger than me the biggest guy before has been and I HAVE to beat this!

 

[Medicating]

I'm in a very similar position to you in the fact that one of my girlfriend's previous sex partners is bigger than me. It's a fantastic motivation to really spur you on in order to get your gains. However, it does take time and dedication. Nobody can tell you how long it will take to gain over half an inch in length and some girth. It could take a month, it could take a year. You just have to put your head down and work on it until you see the numbers your want on the ruler.

Stick to it and you'll get what you want. Be patient though. Good luck!

 

[DLD]

It was not my main motivator but after I started dating Jen she came clean about the men she was with. In the LONG list that finally came out there were two guys that were bigger than me. This was a huge motivator but it also kind of messed with my head. Eventually I was bigger than all but the insecurities still lingered somehow. I wish I had separated myself from her past and not attached as much as I did to my own self-worth. It took me losing her in order to get my head straight. I learned a lot in this game and not all the victories were sweet, sometimes the bitterness remained.

My advice is to feel as though you have it already. Be the man you want to be now and trust that the gains you desire will come. The biggest turn on in any relationship is confidence, without this gains mean little.

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Sun Tzu said: "No true warrior ever fights anyone but himself."

You cannot hope to compete, let alone defeat, with an opponent you have never nor will never see. Nor take the measure of. Nor even begin to understand just why he is your opponent. If he truly is.

Compete with yourself, instead; the one "opponent", the only "opponent" you can ever truly understand and truly, fully, obtain the measure of.

 

[bandit12]

DLD and Maxameyes are right. If you are truly always worrying about your girls partners it will eventually get jn your head and she will notice. Confidence is key. Besides she is with you currently for a reason. Thats what you should put all your energy towards.

 

[Dapper Dan]

These last three responses are GOOD. Take them to heart homeboy.
I really don't care about the other guys a girls been with, as long as her pussy's tight and I'm fucking her right, that's all that matters. The rest is trivial.

 

[anth1225]

Good replies but DLD said it best. I think as we age we mature but when we are young men we get all bent out of shape from things that we have no control over.
Somehow because we are not as big, not as handsome, not as muscular ect we feel inferior.

These are impossible standards to be better than everyone at everything.

We have to accept our mate for who they are; accept ourselves and just do our best.

Think of it this way: are you going to love your woman less if she is less endowed than another woman? That would be ridiculous.

My dad told me years ago: "You young kids think you've invented sex. What do you think has been going on all this time before your generation?"

Just enjoy the life and the relationships God has blessed you with.

 

[DLD]

My dad told me years ago: "You young kids think you've invented sex. What do you think has been going on all this time before your generation?"

Just enjoy the life and the relationships God has blessed you with.

Now we have Penis Enlargement, what will we tell our kids? Sex has a much different outlook now

 

[wickedshlong]

I wish I had separated myself from her past and not attached as much as I did to my own self-worth. It took me losing her in order to get my head straight. I learned a lot in this game and not all the victories were sweet, sometimes the bitterness remained.

My advice is to feel as though you have it already. Be the man you want to be now and trust that the gains you desire will come. The biggest turn on in any relationship is confidence, without this gains mean little.

I agree with you completely on this DLD, but it is not insecurity that motivates me (which is what the others seemed to have perceived as well). I know I am the best lover she has ever had. What motivates me is that I could also give her something else than no other guy has given her. That is the prize for me. I'm not competing with the other guys, I'm competing with her perception of what a large penis is. I intend to change that and SMASH the sizes of any previous encounters down to size

I know that once I have grown and done this she will appreciate the effort I have made and I can only see it bringing us closer. It's a long road of effort and sacrifice ahead of me. But if it adds some more self confidence to me and makes her see that I am still able to grow there even as a grown man then it will be worth it.

I have known about this game of Penis Enlargement a long time. I've never had something to motivate me though. Finally I do, and I will achieve my goals.

Watch this space.

 

[DLD]

I agree with you completely on this DLD, but it is not insecurity that motivates me (which is what the others seemed to have perceived as well). I know I am the best lover she has ever had. What motivates me is that I could also give her something else than no other guy has given her. That is the prize for me. I'm not competing with the other guys, I'm competing with her perception of what a large penis is. I intend to change that and SMASH the sizes of any previous encounters down to size

I know that once I have grown and done this she will appreciate the effort I have made and I can only see it bringing us closer. It's a long road of effort and sacrifice ahead of me. But if it adds some more self confidence to me and makes her see that I am still able to grow there even as a grown man then it will be worth it.

I have known about this game of Penis Enlargement a long time. I've never had something to motivate me though. Finally I do, and I will achieve my goals.

Watch this space.

Excellent outlook and an excellent approach. I allowed her past to haunt me too much, it was very counterproductive to my training and gaining as I could not feel good about the gains, I was always comparing and obsessing with her past. I found my freedom when I stopped doing things for everyone else and started doing it for me. I have gone way beyond what she would have wanted but I realized inside of me that is what I wanted. My dedication to Penis Enlargement is what I truly love. I want to share everything that helped me and help anyone that needs it. My growth has gone way beyond the penis too, I have learned to be a better man because of my mistakes, lessons and losses.

 

[MAXAMEYES]

I agree with you completely on this DLD, but it is not insecurity that motivates me (which is what the others seemed to have perceived as well). I know I am the best lover she has ever had. What motivates me is that I could also give her something else than no other guy has given her. That is the prize for me. I'm not competing with the other guys, I'm competing with her perception of what a large penis is. I intend to change that and SMASH the sizes of any previous encounters down to size

I know that once I have grown and done this she will appreciate the effort I have made and I can only see it bringing us closer. It's a long road of effort and sacrifice ahead of me. But if it adds some more self confidence to me and makes her see that I am still able to grow there even as a grown man then it will be worth it.

I have known about this game of Penis Enlargement a long time. I've never had something to motivate me though. Finally I do, and I will achieve my goals.

Watch this space.

Not to be Captain Buzzkill; but don't invest too much emotional comittment on what someone might do.
Her level of appreciation will never equal your level of physical investment.
And may never match your expectations.
Penis Enlargement is, if nothing else, a solo journey aiming for results for YOU. Nobody else.

But hey,if she loves yer new dick...more power to ya!

 

[jhontexas]

The biggest turn on in any relationship is confidence, without this gains mean little.

Second to that. Yea DlD is right dont let that this other guy that was bigger before you get you delusional that your not big enough. Trust me with my current chick that can be such a bitch at times... ( thats what taming them is for, get my ebook now How to Tame A Bitch haha)

Anyways to the point yeah she told me i wasnt the biggest and that this other dweeb had like a 8in cock that she dated for ever. Well it didnt even phase me to tell you the truth one bit. I still acted like my usual self, being confidant and shes know im no pushover. This alone has cause her to have this incredible turn on for me since day one. She has now become psycho jealous and obsessed, which causes fights but key to point is confidence out wins cock size in my opinion in a lot of cases. But the coin toss to this is, a bigger cock gives you more confidence so either way you look at it Penis Enlargement away buddy!

 

[DLD]

Second to that. Yea DlD is right dont let that this other guy that was bigger before you get you delusional that your not big enough. Trust me with my current chick that can be such a bitch at times... ( thats what taming them is for, get my ebook now How to Tame A Bitch haha)

Anyways to the point yeah she told me i wasnt the biggest and that this other dweeb had like a 8in cock that she dated for ever. Well it didnt even phase me to tell you the truth one bit. I still acted like my usual self, being confidant and shes know im no pushover. This alone has cause her to have this incredible turn on for me since day one. She has now become psycho jealous and obsessed, which causes fights but key to point is confidence out wins cock size in my opinion in a lot of cases. But the coin toss to this is, a bigger cock gives you more confidence so either way you look at it Penis Enlargement away buddy!

Women sometimes will use past experiences, real and made up, to test the confidence of a man. This is one of the biggest places men feel insecurities and most women know it. A remark about size usually is a test of confidence. Women do not want to be with the man that has the biggest dick, they want the man who is confident. A little bit of confidence goes a long way. The ultimate male status would be to have both, size and confidence...double threat!

 

[wickedshlong]

Excellent outlook and an excellent approach. I allowed her past to haunt me too much, it was very counterproductive to my training and gaining as I could not feel good about the gains, I was always comparing and obsessing with her past. I found my freedom when I stopped doing things for everyone else and started doing it for me. I have gone way beyond what she would have wanted but I realized inside of me that is what I wanted. My dedication to Penis Enlargement is what I truly love. I want to share everything that helped me and help anyone that needs it. My growth has gone way beyond the penis too, I have learned to be a better man because of my mistakes, lessons and losses.

One day I hope to be in your position and see it this way. But right now as far as I see it it is all about gains nothing else. In time I hope I am enlightened by the experience like you have been DLD

 

[MikeShlort]

One day I hope to be in your position and see it this way. But right now as far as I see it it is all about gains nothing else. In time I hope I am enlightened by the experience like you have been DLD

What's your starting size?

 

[DLD]

One day I hope to be in your position and see it this way. But right now as far as I see it it is all about gains nothing else. In time I hope I am enlightened by the experience like you have been DLD

You will get there, just remain committed to your Penis Enlargement work. When I started I had similar anxiety about gaining but once it kicked in and I was getting bigger the anxiety was gone. Once I had full belief in Penis Enlargement the gains came with ease.

 

[wickedshlong]

You will get there, just remain committed to your Penis Enlargement work. When I started I had similar anxiety about gaining but once it kicked in and I was getting bigger the anxiety was gone. Once I had full belief in Penis Enlargement the gains came with ease.

Good to know i'll keep this in mind over the coming weeks.

 

[DLD]

Good to know i'll keep this in mind over the coming weeks.

I wish you the best!

 

[Powersnake12]

These last three responses are GOOD. Take them to heart homeboy.
I really don't care about the other guys a girls been with, as long as her pussy's tight and I'm fucking her right, that's all that matters. The rest is trivial.

Totally true Dapper Dan.

The past is the past, unchangeable.

The future is the future, unknowable.

Live in the present.

 

[DLD]

Totally true Dapper Dan.

The past is the past, unchangeable.

The future is the future, unknowable.

Live in the present.

We need a time machine application! The point to this is we have no past nor a future, the only reality is the moment. Giving energy to the past or future robs you of the energy you have in the moment.

 

[MikeShlort]

We need a time machine application! The point to this is we have no past nor a future, the only reality is the moment. Giving energy to the past or future robs you of the energy you have in the moment.

That's a good quote, I'm going to remember that

 

[DLD]

That's a good quote, I'm going to remember that

It is the truth. We have so much energy, power, ability in the moment. Once we start fretting on the past we lose some of this ability, when we start obsessing over the future we give even more away, by the time we are done worrying about it all the moment is wasted.

 

[huge-girth]

Ok so earlier today I was discussing penis size with my girlfriend and I already knew that I wasn't the biggest she has ever had. I asked how much bigger the guy was than me. Apparently the guy was just over half an inch longer and a little bit thicker.

I want to be the biggest she has ever had. I've always hated not being this and now I know what to aim for. I am going to do the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] that DLD did and piss pulls whenever I go to the toilet for a pee at work (30 seconds straight down before I pee).I also am going to reverse kegel during every stretch so as to get the maximum stretch.

How long realistically if I do this everyday do you think it would take to achieve this?

This has finally motivated me to take Penis Enlargement seriously as I can visualize how much bigger than me the biggest guy before has been and I HAVE to beat this!

You have to grow even fsr bigger than that guy. I know this is an old post and maybe yourself and that lady might no longer be together.

Do PE for you and not for any lady at all.