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Straight up...
That's a BAD question. We don't know your girlfriend, your relationship dynamics, or anything else that would even relate to this.
Do you trust her, are you confident in yourself? We cannot just say yes or no.
That's a BAD question. We don't know your girlfriend, your relationship dynamics, or anything else that would even relate to this.
Do you trust her, are you confident in yourself? We cannot just say yes or no.
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Sigh................
If you have any doubts at all you shouldn't be marrying her.
You really don't want my opinion on this one.. I'm a negative prick.
You seem insecure. Maybe you aren't ready for marriage? Just because being alone all the time is unpleasant, doesn't mean you should compromise and marry just someone to avoid being alone.
I'm 25. There is no way in hell I will ever get married until my penis is the size I need it to be. 11 months ago I told myself I would not even have a girlfriend or have sex until I was desired size. But in that 11 months I have been dedicating my life to becoming a "real man" and now I would have a girlfriend or have sex if the proper situation came about. I am unhappy with the size of my penis but I know that I could still fuck the shit out of a woman. Just nothing that a woman would want to be stuck with for any long amount of time.
I guess what I'm saying to you is I have had these doubts that you have. I used to be a pussy. Doubting of myself. But I am slowly becoming an alpha male. It's a long hard road and in reality, I'm pretty sure I won't be ready for a serious relationship for at lest 3 years. Sometimes you need to stop and work on yourself so that in time all things will be the way you know they can be. Never compromise.
If I was in your situation.... well I would not be engaged to a woman first off. I'd grab her by the hair and tell her marry me right now or leave me. Fuck the Western World and their ways. I'll buy one ring. Or not even get married. Just live together and know that you love each other. But that is a far away dream that may never happen.
If I was with a girl and she was going to go on vacation with her girl friends to a place like Miami, I'd tell her "cool, have fun, I'm going to Vegas for a week with my single male friends. I'll see you when you get back." The point is, obviously you aren't positive she loves you. So in that case, you need to make sure she isn't the only one who is capable of getting meaningless sex. You need to make sure that you are a threat too, that you can go to a bar and pull pussy. It may be the last thing you want to do, but it's necessary. Women need a man that other women want to fuck. They have fragile egos and usually look outward to others to please themselves inward.
Take my opinion with a grain of salt. I am a jaded prick that detests this cultural North American wasteland, full of selfish mannequins stepping on others to please themselves for a quarter second.
The point of my rant is that if you're feeling like this before you even marry her, chances are you are an insecure man and you may very well end up a cuckold. I suggest working on your penis and your body and mind, becoming a strong man that shits where he pleases, even if getting there means years of sacrifice, loneliness and discomfort.
Ditch the woman or tell her exactly how you feel. What's the point wanting to spend your life with someone you can't even be honest with. She'll either lie to you to spare your feelings or give you a genuine reaction. Have some balls. Grab her by the arm, look her in the eye and say "I'm afraid you're going to cheat on me. Prove to me that you love me." Maybe she'll respect you. Not to knock you, but right now asking that kind of question, being suBathmateissive, sitting there worrying and having no power is not something that is respectable. Any man can become a real man. I was once a dickless coward. I am now becoming a man and my testicles have been growing. Good luck to you.
If you have any doubts at all you shouldn't be marrying her.
You really don't want my opinion on this one.. I'm a negative prick.
You seem insecure. Maybe you aren't ready for marriage? Just because being alone all the time is unpleasant, doesn't mean you should compromise and marry just someone to avoid being alone.
I'm 25. There is no way in hell I will ever get married until my penis is the size I need it to be. 11 months ago I told myself I would not even have a girlfriend or have sex until I was desired size. But in that 11 months I have been dedicating my life to becoming a "real man" and now I would have a girlfriend or have sex if the proper situation came about. I am unhappy with the size of my penis but I know that I could still fuck the shit out of a woman. Just nothing that a woman would want to be stuck with for any long amount of time.
I guess what I'm saying to you is I have had these doubts that you have. I used to be a pussy. Doubting of myself. But I am slowly becoming an alpha male. It's a long hard road and in reality, I'm pretty sure I won't be ready for a serious relationship for at lest 3 years. Sometimes you need to stop and work on yourself so that in time all things will be the way you know they can be. Never compromise.
If I was in your situation.... well I would not be engaged to a woman first off. I'd grab her by the hair and tell her marry me right now or leave me. Fuck the Western World and their ways. I'll buy one ring. Or not even get married. Just live together and know that you love each other. But that is a far away dream that may never happen.
If I was with a girl and she was going to go on vacation with her girl friends to a place like Miami, I'd tell her "cool, have fun, I'm going to Vegas for a week with my single male friends. I'll see you when you get back." The point is, obviously you aren't positive she loves you. So in that case, you need to make sure she isn't the only one who is capable of getting meaningless sex. You need to make sure that you are a threat too, that you can go to a bar and pull pussy. It may be the last thing you want to do, but it's necessary. Women need a man that other women want to fuck. They have fragile egos and usually look outward to others to please themselves inward.
Take my opinion with a grain of salt. I am a jaded prick that detests this cultural North American wasteland, full of selfish mannequins stepping on others to please themselves for a quarter second.
The point of my rant is that if you're feeling like this before you even marry her, chances are you are an insecure man and you may very well end up a cuckold. I suggest working on your penis and your body and mind, becoming a strong man that shits where he pleases, even if getting there means years of sacrifice, loneliness and discomfort.
Ditch the woman or tell her exactly how you feel. What's the point wanting to spend your life with someone you can't even be honest with. She'll either lie to you to spare your feelings or give you a genuine reaction. Have some balls. Grab her by the arm, look her in the eye and say "I'm afraid you're going to cheat on me. Prove to me that you love me." Maybe she'll respect you. Not to knock you, but right now asking that kind of question, being suBathmateissive, sitting there worrying and having no power is not something that is respectable. Any man can become a real man. I was once a dickless coward. I am now becoming a man and my testicles have been growing. Good luck to you.
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Hit the nail on the head.
And im good in the penis dept she even told me i need a dick reduction lol, and we talked about it already so its all good , a cheater will cheat regardless of the location so i not all that worried about it , whatever happens happens , but i will be like "bitch give me my ring back cheating as hoe" lol
Yeah and i'm 8x6 and i'm currently using the size genetics to get to 9 by 7
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parker06;492607 said:
So 8 inches goes all the way in her without bottoming out?
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MikeShlort;492627 said:
Every woman has a different depth. I have bottomed out at 4" and there are plenty of women where I could not feel bottom. It is all different. Someone told me that shorter women have deeper depths but I don't think there is much truth to that.
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doublelongdaddy;492714 said:
You mean there are women who could take your whole 10.5?
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if you are in a relationship where you have to worry about her whoring around then you lack confidence and she has the upper hand. just be cool, be nice, and wait for the post vacation sex.
If she does cheat on you, well then who wants her? I wouldn't.
You have to have attitude. Besides, she's on vacation: how does she know you aren't gonna bang a different girl every night while she's gone? It goes both ways my friend.
So while she's gone make sure to be out when she calls you. Phone call goes like this...
Hi honey have you missed me?
Hang on Im in a bar i can't hear you. Yeah i have missed you.
What have are you doing?
Oh just out with the guys.
After that it's a done deal, she'll be thinking she needs to get back before something happens. LOL
If she does cheat on you, well then who wants her? I wouldn't.
You have to have attitude. Besides, she's on vacation: how does she know you aren't gonna bang a different girl every night while she's gone? It goes both ways my friend.
So while she's gone make sure to be out when she calls you. Phone call goes like this...
Hi honey have you missed me?
Hang on Im in a bar i can't hear you. Yeah i have missed you.
What have are you doing?
Oh just out with the guys.
After that it's a done deal, she'll be thinking she needs to get back before something happens. LOL
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AdmiralLongDong;495973 said:
I really hate the games that need to be played but I guess they are necessary.
I like your approach to things Admiral. I've noticed reading your earlier posts compared to now you have gained a lot more self confidence and testicles. I've noticed that from a lot of users.
Hopefully I can gain like you have, as my testicles are expanding at a decent rate, it's just reality holding them back.
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AdmiralLongDong;495973 said:
You are too right. Making assumptions usually ends badly, trust is paramount to not having to make the assumptions. The same things we conjure up the women can conjure up too. It is all how you play the game.
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Mikeshlort,
I guess I have changed.... There is a huge difference between being a push over and being sensitive. Girls like sensitive guys who listen to how they feel. They don't like whimps who are always asking the girl if what they are doing is ok. So while you need to tell a girl directly what you think, you also just have to be open to hearing what they think.
It's amazing how hard it is to overcome an inability to actually tell people what you need. But once you start saying what you need the world around you responds and you get it. And once other people around you actually say what they need, it's easy for you to respond in kind.
I actually watched a buddy who had been married a long time make his relationship disintegrate. His wife wanted to have an open relationship. He was like, well I love her so much I can't stop her from being herself. (For those in open relationships, I'm not slamming open relationships, I'm slamming people who don't have any balls to say what they really mean.)
I kept telling him that I thought he was giving her too much slack. He was obviously not into the situation. He ended up letting her and her BF live in the same house as him, but he was totally pissed off. Eventually they got a divorce.
So who's fault was it that all this happened? It was his fault, he didn't just allow it, he helped it along. In the end he let her walk all over him and he knew, but he was pretending to be open minded and all PC.
I've watched this guy turn into the most walked on dishrag since. He has zero self esteem. He's one of those people who will do things to you behind your back to get revenge because he has no balls to tell you not to do something anymore.
I guess I have changed.... There is a huge difference between being a push over and being sensitive. Girls like sensitive guys who listen to how they feel. They don't like whimps who are always asking the girl if what they are doing is ok. So while you need to tell a girl directly what you think, you also just have to be open to hearing what they think.
It's amazing how hard it is to overcome an inability to actually tell people what you need. But once you start saying what you need the world around you responds and you get it. And once other people around you actually say what they need, it's easy for you to respond in kind.
I actually watched a buddy who had been married a long time make his relationship disintegrate. His wife wanted to have an open relationship. He was like, well I love her so much I can't stop her from being herself. (For those in open relationships, I'm not slamming open relationships, I'm slamming people who don't have any balls to say what they really mean.)
I kept telling him that I thought he was giving her too much slack. He was obviously not into the situation. He ended up letting her and her BF live in the same house as him, but he was totally pissed off. Eventually they got a divorce.
So who's fault was it that all this happened? It was his fault, he didn't just allow it, he helped it along. In the end he let her walk all over him and he knew, but he was pretending to be open minded and all PC.
I've watched this guy turn into the most walked on dishrag since. He has zero self esteem. He's one of those people who will do things to you behind your back to get revenge because he has no balls to tell you not to do something anymore.
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Sounds like a real twat. Another casualty to feminism and the ol' "give me everything and then some because my reflection is pretty." That is what I will never become. Even when I was a raging twat, I was still a stern asshole. I'm willing to be alone the rest of my life to not compromise for another human being. I strive to never need anything out of my immediate grasp.
You are a good example of how Penis Enlargement gives a man confidence. Not just Penis Enlargement, but for a man to have the balls to even try something like Penis Enlargement, he likely is just as determined to better himself as a whole. I'm certainly happy with the results in the past year, even if they have fallen well short of my numeric hopes.
You are a good example of how Penis Enlargement gives a man confidence. Not just Penis Enlargement, but for a man to have the balls to even try something like Penis Enlargement, he likely is just as determined to better himself as a whole. I'm certainly happy with the results in the past year, even if they have fallen well short of my numeric hopes.
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Well, there's a big difference between being a bitch and being a feminist.
Being a bitch: "give me everything and then some because my reflection is pretty."
Being a feminist: Equal pay for equal work. Being treated as an equal citizen by the law. (I think a lot of women have no clue what feminism is really about, or maybe a lot of feminists have a very broad, he he pun, idea of what it means.)
I suppose what I was talking about in my previous post is boundaries. Most of us assume we know what other people want. Half the time we're wrong. We also can't control what other people do. If someone does something to you that you don't like, you can let them know what your boundaries are; as in "When you do x it makes me feel like crap , or whatever."
But you can't expect them stop doing what you want. All you can do is see if and how they react to your clear statement of a boundary. If they stop, then everything's cool. If they don't stop, then it's up to you to decide if that person is even worth being with anymore; you can only control your own actions.
So if a GF is just whiney about everything, she's just being bitchy. But if she says something like, "I need you to help me clean the house". She isn't just blowing hot air, she's making a boundary to see how you react. She wants to know if you respect her. If three months later she hits the road leaving you high and dry, well buddy... you we're warned. But i've dated girls who had endless rules or else they thought I'd change. That's a whole other ball game. Nagging is nagging.
I once had a guy tell me, " People will treat you the way you let them treat you." It was just a casual conversation with a near stranger, but I took that to heart.
Hydromaxmm... Wonder how things turned out for the OP?
Being a bitch: "give me everything and then some because my reflection is pretty."
Being a feminist: Equal pay for equal work. Being treated as an equal citizen by the law. (I think a lot of women have no clue what feminism is really about, or maybe a lot of feminists have a very broad, he he pun, idea of what it means.)
I suppose what I was talking about in my previous post is boundaries. Most of us assume we know what other people want. Half the time we're wrong. We also can't control what other people do. If someone does something to you that you don't like, you can let them know what your boundaries are; as in "When you do x it makes me feel like crap , or whatever."
But you can't expect them stop doing what you want. All you can do is see if and how they react to your clear statement of a boundary. If they stop, then everything's cool. If they don't stop, then it's up to you to decide if that person is even worth being with anymore; you can only control your own actions.
So if a GF is just whiney about everything, she's just being bitchy. But if she says something like, "I need you to help me clean the house". She isn't just blowing hot air, she's making a boundary to see how you react. She wants to know if you respect her. If three months later she hits the road leaving you high and dry, well buddy... you we're warned. But i've dated girls who had endless rules or else they thought I'd change. That's a whole other ball game. Nagging is nagging.
I once had a guy tell me, " People will treat you the way you let them treat you." It was just a casual conversation with a near stranger, but I took that to heart.
Hydromaxmm... Wonder how things turned out for the OP?
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