Trouble getting aroused for Bathmate use

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So... I can't get boners to use the bathmate. I can get hard-ons normally if I'm with a girl or if I'm going to masturbate, but I can't get aroused at all to even get a little hard to use the bathmate with a lil chub. This is probably amplified by the fact that I have never enjoyed bating-it in the shower or bath because I also can't ever seem to get wood when in the shower or bath... it's very frustrating. Like I said I don't think it's ED because I don't really have trouble getting it up when I want to (except when I need to use the bathmate lol). I wonder what would happen if we placed a Fleshlight sleeve in the BM hahaha LMAO I could probably get a little harder by using some lube and masturbating a bit before going in, but didn't know if this was good for the valves or if it would clog or what. Thanks guys.
 
If I were you, I will tune down the rate at which I masturbate. Try to use the bathmate in your room or somewhere else if that will allow you have an erection.
 
The less you masturbate the easier it is to gain an erection. Remember, as I have always said the best time to stretch is after an orgasm and that is because the penis is completely fatigued. An over-fatigued penis will never have good eq.
 
jorgsmashh;721941 said:
I wonder what would happen if we placed a Fleshlight sleeve in the BM hahaha LMAO I could probably get a little harder by using some lube and masturbating a bit before going in, but didn't know if this was good for the valves or if it would clog or what. Thanks guys.
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I was under the impression that The Fleshlight was a 'closed system' in that the lube stays within it. If that's the case, this would be a genius idea, just use water soluble lube and clean the BM after each use. Please give it a try and report back, (also, if it works where would one purchase Fleshlight sleeves and do they come in various sizes?)
 
Big Schwanz Acht;722034 said:
I was under the impression that The Fleshlight was a 'closed system' in that the lube stays within it. If that's the case, this would be a genius idea, just use water soluble lube and clean the BM after each use. Please give it a try and report back, (also, if it works where would one purchase Fleshlight sleeves and do they come in various sizes?)
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No it is open. I was going to make a post yesterday on this but I will today. For those who have issues getting arroused in the BathMate a Flashlight sleeve inserted would remedy much of that issue. It will also help get pre-mature ejac become a issue of the past.
 
So problem there is I masturbate less than once a week... it's really sad. I wish I was horny enough to want to do it more but my sex drive is just not there. I'm relatively in good shape, 6'1" 190lbs, athletic build, but I just don't masturbate much. I haven't been getting morning wood for the last couple of years either so I read too much ���� could cause that. I stopped watching ���� about a month or more ago (slipped up once or twice) but I didn't see any improvement in the morning wood department. The only thing that has improved it has been the BM. I have had some throbbing woodys the past two days, but obviously that's just two days... I don't have a fleshlight either so I can't test that but it just popped in my head as a funny idea but hell if it works then I'd try it. Wouldn't wanna bust a wad in my new BM though. Lolzz
 
And so he did! http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/89222-bathmate-fleshlight-training-stay-hard-in-the-tube-and-no-more-pre-mature-ejac.html

Most of the sleeves are quite universal sized, but there is few that are slightly smaller, like the Blade model and some models of the Flight series. (And Sex in a can series.)

I personally feel that imagining your real sexual encounters helps a lot with getting inside the BM hard or semi-hard. (As long as encounters have been good! ;) )

I haven't had problems with my BM regarding lubricants sticking to the valve. Just maybe use a small squirt of liquid soap and shake the pump, rinse and dry.
 
doublelongdaddy;722000 said:
The less you masturbate the easier it is to gain an erection. Remember, as I have always said the best time to stretch is after an orgasm and that is because the penis is completely fatigued. An over-fatigued penis will never have good eq.
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See below plox

huge-girth;721971 said:
If I were you, I will tune down the rate at which I masturbate. Try to use the bathmate in your room or somewhere else if that will allow you have an erection.
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Hey I replied earlier today but I don't know if it went through because my posts are still being checked by moderators. The only problem is I only masturbate about once per week or less. Largely due to lack of interest or desire for it, but also time scheduling sometimes. I wish I was more horny and had the desire to do it more often. Don't get me wrong when I wait a long time the orgasm is spectacular two thumbs up but I just feel like I should be more horny. For the past couple of years I haven't been getting morning wood very much at all either so I looked that up and read it could be due to too much ���� so I quit watching ���� about a month or two ago (may have slipped up once or twice ;)) but my woodys didn't return in the morn's. So really the only thing that has helped with the morning wood has been the BM and that has just been the last two mornings. But they were pretty excellent, throbbing boners haha. Don't last long after I get up though :/ Sad to watch them die.
 
jorgsmashh;722099 said:
So problem there is I masturbate less than once a week... it's really sad. I wish I was horny enough to want to do it more but my sex drive is just not there. I'm relatively in good shape, 6'1" 190lbs, athletic build, but I just don't masturbate much. I haven't been getting morning wood for the last couple of years either so I read too much ���� could cause that. I stopped watching ���� about a month or more ago (slipped up once or twice) but I didn't see any improvement in the morning wood department. The only thing that has improved it has been the BM. I have had some throbbing woodys the past two days, but obviously that's just two days... I don't have a fleshlight either so I can't test that but it just popped in my head as a funny idea but hell if it works then I'd try it. Wouldn't wanna bust a wad in my new BM though. Lolzz
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It varies for everyone though. I always get morning wood despite my bad masturbation habit all these years. But its good to abstain from masturbation though.
 
If Silence is Golden then Discipline is Platinum!
 
I also have a hard time to get an erection in the shower. It is weird. The water turns me off somehow. I have to stroke longer until I get an erection. Especially if I had an orgasm one day before. I really enjoy PE when I am horny but nowadays I also enjoy when I am not.

But: If you don't have an erection you put the Bathmate on and pump. As soon as the penis expanded you can take it out and then you can stroke from the expansion you just had by using the Bathmate for a few seconds. That works for me. Also this expans my area around the base which is important to get a good suction. So the second time I go into the Bathmate, the suction is also much better.
 
Chaoskampf;722669 said:
I also have a hard time to get an erection in the shower. It is weird. The water turns me off somehow. I have to stroke longer until I get an erection. Especially if I had an orgasm one day before. I really enjoy PE when I am horny but nowadays I also enjoy when I am not.

But: If you don't have an erection you put the Bathmate on and pump. As soon as the penis expanded you can take it out and then you can stroke from the expansion you just had by using the Bathmate for a few seconds. That works for me. Also this expans my area around the base which is important to get a good suction. So the second time I go into the Bathmate, the suction is also much better.
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This is something that I have found easy to attain since I have stopped masturbating. Erections come with the slightest stimulation.
 
doublelongdaddy;722756 said:
This is something that I have found easy to attain since I have stopped masturbating. Erections come with the slightest stimulation.
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I'm in the same situation with you DLD but I want to give girth work a trial without watching ����. I'm 100% confident viagra will do the magic.
 
huge-girth;722878 said:
I'm in the same situation with you DLD but I want to give girth work a trial without watching ����. I'm 100% confident viagra will do the magic.
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Either Viagra or just see if it comes naturally. Like I said, my dick gets hard when the win blows so I would never need anything more. When I was masturbating constantly and using ���� it got to a point where that just did not work anymore. Now, getting natural erection by simple stimulation is a huge blessing on the abstinence front.
 
doublelongdaddy;722959 said:
Either Viagra or just see if it comes naturally. Like I said, my dick gets hard when the win blows so I would never need anything more. When I was masturbating constantly and using ���� it got to a point where that just did not work anymore. Now, getting natural erection by simple stimulation is a huge blessing on the abstinence front.
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I've never had problem with getting erect, it always come to me as a gift whether I masturbate daily or not but no more masturbation.
 
Oh yes, Viagra (or generic) works well, I've personally had good results with 12,5 mg, as I split a 50mg to 4 pieces. I let the piece dissolve under my tongue, that was it's in the bloodstream much faster, also this way smaller doses like 12,5 mg can be effective, where as taken just like a pill I think the effect might be sligthly lesser if you use smaller dose. Naturally your build matters as well, I'm about medium built, little bit buff 5'7" (Yeah, I know :-D ), so if you're bigger then naturally you might need a bigger dose of Viagra.

I've had good results with L-Citrulline, I couldn't quickly find a thread about the member suggesting heavy single doses of the stuff; it sure does work!
Here's my thread about some supplements: http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-pills-and-supplements/89251-the-array-of-supplements-ive-tried-health-and-pe-wise.html
And here's something just about L-Citrulline: http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-pills-and-supplements/71531-l-citrulline.html

I've taken it in powder form mixed in with some tea or other relatively hot drink. So far I've chosen tea most of the time as for usually lower caffeine content, because most of the times I'll have this kind of "juice" before a pump session which usually are closer to the evening.
 
Viagra is really the best way to go, effortless erections.
 
doublelongdaddy;723031 said:
Viagra is really the best way to go, effortless erections.
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I can agree about this, but just mentioning the other possibilities, as some Brothers might be out there without a very easy option of getting the Viagra.
Therefore the L-Citrulline could be easier product to get, but still effective.
To my understanding in the States it isn't a big thing to get generic Viagra from a reputable source, but somewhere else it can be a down right pain in the ass acquiring certain medications.
Customs might come in to play when ordering from outside your native country and what not. Heck, I can't even order cigars (or any tobacco products for the matter)
online anymore due to new laws ... Not that I would smoke that often, but it's the principle of things; so many laws and restrictions where I live.

Certain good things though, but quite often I think of living in a different country.

Stay hard brothers!
 
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