Staying motivated when you have plenty..

my ex tries to get me for sex constantly but its not gonna happen after she broke my heart
 
acromegaly;729808 said:
my ex tries to get me for sex constantly but its not gonna happen after she broke my heart
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WOW she is not getting what she "despised" once lol jk
 
acromegaly;729808 said:
my ex tries to get me for sex constantly but its not gonna happen after she broke my heart
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Straight out of The Vagina Owners Handbook:
"I don't want the world, I just want your half"

Stay strong, my brother!!
 
It was said a while back that when a woman loves you she adds 2" to your cock but when she hates you she takes at least 2" off.

For her ex's sake I hope she's exaggerating a bit to you about how small he is (and I think she is because of the above statement). I have small hands for a guy and my palms are about 3.5" unless I'm flattening them out and my hands are still as big or bigger than a lot of women's. Unless she has really big hands that'd put that dude at under 5" and that'd suck for him.

It is true though that they get used to what you're giving them. For an average size guy I've blown women's minds with my performance. A few have told me, after getting with someone else, that they missed the great sex. Guess they eventually think all sex is going to be that good. They graduated to a better level of sex, they can't go backwards with the next guy right? Well that's what they think at least.

I think that's part of my wife's thing saying I don't need to be any bigger. She's only ever slept with me and her ex husband (unless she lied to me but I believe her), sex with me is way better, and she's never had big. I should find a dildo that was my size when I started so I can show her the difference over time.

Staying motivated is totally up to you. Like others were saying its all up to you can no one can make you do it. Same as if you were going to the gym or building some project in the garage or whatever, you'll do it if you want and stop if you don't. Staying around people into the same things as you does help though. You don't hang out in a nursing home during all your free time if you wanna run a 5k.
 
The single discipline that gives you the most advantage to succeed at almost anything -- CONSISTENCY

Inconsistency is the subtle thief of dreams...
Inconsistency kills the momentum of progress...

...it's not how you start; it's how you continue
 
Threak-X;729838 said:
The single discipline that gives you the most advantage to succeed at almost anything -- CONSISTENCY

Inconsistency is the subtle thief of dreams...
Inconsistency kills the momentum of progress...

...it's not how you start; it's how you continue
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unfortunately true, inconsistency is the subtle thief our dreams :p
 
Threak-X;729838 said:
The single discipline that gives you the most advantage to succeed at almost anything -- CONSISTENCY

Inconsistency is the subtle thief of dreams...
Inconsistency kills the momentum of progress...

...it's not how you start; it's how you continue
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poetic Threak, well put
 
For me, motivation isn't really a factor. I guess you could say I'm addicted to pe and the gains that come with it. I've been doing it so long that it is ingrained into my life, and I don't know if I could stop if I tried. Even though I'm reaching a size that causes some problems for the wife, we have changed techniques over time to accommodate, which we will continue to do if needed. I just can't imagine ever quitting, we have an amazing ability to change something people said was impossible, and we achieve the impossible here at the brotherhood every day. This site has been my motivation for years, and that would be my best advice, come here and read! The awesome people here will keep you motivated even if you just skim the forums. There is so much knowledge, and we will never hesitate to help a brother out!
 
ThatDude512;729879 said:
For me, motivation isn't really a factor. I guess you could say I'm addicted to pe and the gains that come with it. I've been doing it so long that it is ingrained into my life, and I don't know if I could stop if I tried. Even though I'm reaching a size that causes some problems for the wife, we have changed techniques over time to accommodate, which we will continue to do if needed. I just can't imagine ever quitting, we have an amazing ability to change something people said was impossible, and we achieve the impossible here at the brotherhood every day. This site has been my motivation for years, and that would be my best advice, come here and read! The awesome people here will keep you motivated even if you just skim the forums. There is so much knowledge, and we will never hesitate to help a brother out!
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gains are real!we support each other and help each other we have changed things we didnt even imagine..
 
"He made broken look beautiful and strong look invincible. He walked with the Universe on his shoulders and made it look like a pair of wings!"
 
cladre60;729836 said:
It was said a while back that when a woman loves you she adds 2" to your cock but when she hates you she takes at least 2" off.

For her ex's sake I hope she's exaggerating a bit to you about how small he is (and I think she is because of the above statement). I have small hands for a guy and my palms are about 3.5" unless I'm flattening them out and my hands are still as big or bigger than a lot of women's. Unless she has really big hands that'd put that dude at under 5" and that'd suck for him.

It is true though that they get used to what you're giving them. For an average size guy I've blown women's minds with my performance. A few have told me, after getting with someone else, that they missed the great sex. Guess they eventually think all sex is going to be that good. They graduated to a better level of sex, they can't go backwards with the next guy right? Well that's what they think at least.

I think that's part of my wife's thing saying I don't need to be any bigger. She's only ever slept with me and her ex husband (unless she lied to me but I believe her), sex with me is way better, and she's never had big. I should find a dildo that was my size when I started so I can show her the difference over time.

Staying motivated is totally up to you. Like others were saying its all up to you can no one can make you do it. Same as if you were going to the gym or building some project in the garage or whatever, you'll do it if you want and stop if you don't. Staying around people into the same things as you does help though. You don't hang out in a nursing home during all your free time if you wanna run a 5k.
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Yea she did underestimate him I think. I actually saw a pic of him tho... we were hanging out and he snap chatted her a nude (hard) and he's definitely not "long" but not abnormally short either. Probably right on average. I'd say prob 5 length 4.7 girth. I think I have atleast 2-2.5 or 3 inches on him. But she legit does think I'm twice his size LMAO. She can fit him entirely in her mouth and she always stops half way with me (I think the girth difference plays a role in that too). Also I asked her what she thinks I am and she said "well you said u were like 7 a year ago but I can tell you've grown since then so I'd say ur 9in now." (She doesn't know I PE at all). It's just funny how girls really can't comprehend size very well at all. You're either "small" or "huge" to them and their sense of estimating inches is ridiculous. One of the other girls I hooked up with told me I was "really big" and was scared to fit it all in. And i know for a fact she's sleeping with a couple other guys who most likely aren't "small". I just don't believe all these other dudes are below average. But it just shows that if you're even a little bit longer and thicker than average, girls perceive it as "you're huge and the other guys are small". Damn... and inch here or there really makes a difference guys. And I'm seeing that the way girls compare average to 7.5 is like....massive difference in their eyes lol.
 
acromegaly;729916 said:
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Xxxi;729939 said:
Yea she did underestimate him I think. I actually saw a pic of him tho... we were hanging out and he snap chatted her a nude (hard) and he's definitely not "long" but not abnormally short either. Probably right on average. I'd say prob 5 length 4.7 girth. I think I have atleast 2-2.5 or 3 inches on him. But she legit does think I'm twice his size LMAO. She can fit him entirely in her mouth and she always stops half way with me (I think the girth difference plays a role in that too). Also I asked her what she thinks I am and she said "well you said u were like 7 a year ago but I can tell you've grown since then so I'd say ur 9in now." (She doesn't know I PE at all). It's just funny how girls really can't comprehend size very well at all. You're either "small" or "huge" to them and their sense of estimating inches is ridiculous. One of the other girls I hooked up with told me I was "really big" and was scared to fit it all in. And i know for a fact she's sleeping with a couple other guys who most likely aren't "small". I just don't believe all these other dudes are below average. But it just shows that if you're even a little bit longer and thicker than average, girls perceive it as "you're huge and the other guys are small". Damn... and inch here or there really makes a difference guys. And I'm seeing that the way girls compare average to 7.5 is like....massive difference in their eyes lol.
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Women really don't know how to judge size at all. It's partially our own fault because us guys will say we have 7 or 8" when they're really just the average 5-6" in length. Plus she's stroking your ego telling you how "small" he is. Enjoy it! I've had my penis praised before and it feels good.

Average is average though and it encompasses over 90% of men. Women judge your size by how good the sex is and how much they like you at the time (unless you're too big to ignore your size).

Have you ever tried to put a penis size object in your mouth? I messed around when we used to have toys and it gives you much more perspective as to what women are dealing with when giving a blow job. We used to have a vibrator that was just a little bit thicker than I was at the beginning of my PE journey and I didn't see anything a woman could complain about. I haven't set a girth goal yet but I don't want to be so thick that it limits blow jobs. It's always a massive let down when the BJ ends way too early because "my jaw hurts." I've heard that crap 2 minutes into a BJ and really it's "I don't want to do this." I'm not going to contribute to excuses lol.
 
cladre60;730073 said:
Women really don't know how to judge size at all.
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Now that all depends on the state of the woman's mind. When I was loved I was huge but when I was hated I was small. Pretty much a general rule of penis :)
 
doublelongdaddy;730111 said:
Now that all depends on the state of the woman's mind. When I was loved I was huge but when I was hated I was small. Pretty much a general rule of penis :)
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i think they just go after what ever insecurity is your biggest. if you were a broke ass they would say one thing or if they knew you had a penis insecurity they would call u small. my ex is started saying i treated her bad which is basically my biggest fear, i like to spoil women and i have never smacked a woman out of anger.
 
acromegaly;730123 said:
i think they just go after what ever insecurity is your biggest. if you were a broke ass they would say one thing or if they knew you had a penis insecurity they would call u small. my ex is started saying i treated her bad which is basically my biggest fear, i like to spoil women and i have never smacked a woman out of anger.
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Sometimes you gotta smack that ass though to let them know you're thinking about it ;)
 
acromegaly;730123 said:
i think they just go after what ever insecurity is your biggest. if you were a broke ass they would say one thing or if they knew you had a penis insecurity they would call u small. my ex is started saying i treated her bad which is basically my biggest fear, i like to spoil women and i have never smacked a woman out of anger.
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Females oh them females LOL

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cladre60;730206 said:
Sometimes you gotta smack that ass though to let them know you're thinking about it ;)
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hahaha wise advice

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doublelongdaddy;730111 said:
Now that all depends on the state of the woman's mind. When I was loved I was huge but when I was hated I was small. Pretty much a general rule of penis :)
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simple as that:p:O
 
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