She Wants it Rough...REALLY Rough

I was video chatting with my woman the other night and we were talking about sex. What surprised me and made me uncomfortable was that she said she wanted me to rape her. Next time I see her, she wants me to be really rough and mean with her...to punish her basically. Is that shit normal? She wants me to squeeze her ass and tits really hard, not just aggressively. She wants me to pound her hard and deep as fast as I can while slapping her all over and pinning her down. She wants me to keep going and try to make her hurt even if she tells me to stop.

I can't remember all that she said but the main point is that she doesn't want it rough, she wants it damn near violent. Should I do it? Is this normal behavior? Hell, I'm wondering if I am capable of that kind of aggression. She seemed to get offended by the look on my face when she got through telling me what she wanted me to do to her. I guess I looked freaked out.

I mean, I can understand being aggressive and somewhat rough but she is wanting me to take it to a whole new level. Hmm...?

She doesn't want to be ABUSED.
She wants to lose absolute control.

There's a very fine, yet very real difference.

And as she loses her control....you are to take over.
A situation like this is much less (usually) about "punisHydromaxent" THAN IT IS ACTUALLY ABOUT TRUST.

She doesn't want to just give you the pussy; she wants you to take it.
It's a fine line to walk but; you can be rough, you can be "punishing"....hell, you can even be brutal....without! Being "abusive".

Talk while you're fucking her, once the heat's up properly, of course. The dirtiest, nastiest, filthiest, most graphically descriptive shit that comes to mind.
My Ol' Lady LOVES the way I growl in her ear as I'm treating her like my li'l whore.

She doesn't want you to treat her BAD.....she wants you to make her YOURS.

Go slow and pay close attention!
And, good luck.

Ha ha alright man, thanks. That is one thing I've yet to do since losing my virginity...take absolute control and just make her mine. Thanks for putting that spin on what she said. I didn't realize that is what she meant but it makes perfect sense.

Are you sure shes a REAL female? That sounds a little beyond sick, for a chick at least, I would decide if it was really a girl first and not some queer fantasy of some weirdo online. Sounds like a guy wants you to "grab 'her' butt and 'pound' it..." uh uh

Be careful, she may want to pin you with a rape charge!

I am a paranoid type so would record a convo with her beforehand and while i pound her too (just in case she calls rape or something. she probably wont but thats my paranoid self - lol). of course in the convo have a word to mean stop for real (like a code word in case you get a little too rough!)

I would love a chick to want me to do that!

Oh..... where has the romance gone?

MAXAMEYES;398348 said:

Oh..... where has the romance gone?

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Right? The internet is responsible for so many desensitized freaks!

When we were kids the closest you could get to seeing sex was a magazine or a 8 mm tape...

I remember once at a very young age a friend of mine and I climbed on the top of a building that was a shopping center. We walked over to this open cubby where someone had been living and there were dried up old pornos in there. Those were my earliest wacking days and my parents ended up finding them under my mattress. Bad hiding place hahah. And I remember the girls had long curly hair and furry bushes

Turnover;398464 said:

I remember once at a very young age a friend of mine and I climbed on the top of a building that was a shopping center. We walked over to this open cubby where someone had been living and there were dried up old pornos in there. Those were my earliest wacking days and my parents ended up finding them under my mattress. Bad hiding place hahah. And I remember the girls had long curly hair and furry bushes

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I found my first mag in the woods behind my Uncles house. I was very confused when I first saw what nudity way.

Dude.. Did you do this??

I would love to be able to do that provided that we used a safeword to stop properly such as .... elephant (unless she compares your dick to one its never going to mistakenly come up).

I don't think i would go as far as chocking or slapping the face like in some ���� however forcing and making her gag on the cock ect.. would be great as well as really spanking her ass.

I think if you like been dominant then this would be really great, if you like the girl in control then probably not.

I would say take it easy at first, until you know the girl. I have been with my girl for 1year and a half and we are talking about getting serious. I know her now though and we take turns being dominant. I can't lie I love when she chokes the shit out of me and cums while on me. I don't choke her but I pull hair, slap ass and make her beg and tell me who's ass it is. I you have the right woman it is all fun and foreplay, pretty much part of the experience.

DLD

I too found my first mags with a bunch of friends in a forest. Later I saw Debbie as my first ���� star video from a friends fathers collection. Then a young Traci Lords who was like 16 when she started (my personal guess). Actually the first time a seen a penis pump was in a ���� movie. 70's ���� was very different from today's and at that time guys weren't hung and the woman still loved it. Taboo had to be the most controversial ���� I had seen at that time. Even though it was fake, during that time I had no idea.

I had two girls in my life who loved it hardcore and likes giving it back I loved them hitting me with a belt across the back and ass, they were amazingly attractive with one being a Russian model. Imagine perfect Russian beauty but she was brutal. She liked to bite my penis and that weirdly turned me on as she was SO sexy and looked so into it that it made me so aroused as she bit into my fat shaft. Many times she would dig her nails hard and very deep into my chest and back which marked me and drew blood but it was FANTASTIC ... I in return scrated her ass, spanked he till it was blood red and pounded her pussy till she squirted everywhere and couldnt walk straight. We even tied ourselves up and used various whips incl a Buffallo whip on my ass but that was too painful ... VERY painful indeed.

I dont see it as bad but many would think we were weird or perverted for doing this. Now and again its cool but I couldn't do it all the time otherwise I'd not be able to sit down for weeks and aswell the girl couldn't either.

Something she loved and I loved doing was biting her ass cheeks really hard while fingering her on all fours, she loved it ... this was a very hard bite, it sometimes drew blood but made us both cum so hard.

I'd stick to what Max said up the top there and look at what Red's saying.

She wants you to take full control and she wants you to be rough in terms of pleasure. She doesn't want a broken nose and her two front teeth knocked out. She wants to feel like she is powerless to you and that she has no control at all. You may well find pleasure in it too.

My current girlfriend and I smack two shits out of each other about when we really go for it, but i've never had as much pleasure as when we do. Unfortunately at college we can't really do it as of room mates, but if we check into a hotel we always do it. The biting, slapping, grabbing of throats, the dirty talk, the scratching, the pushing, the slamming against walls and furniture and the very rough nature of what we're doing just builds up to a crazy climax. The bruises fade and the pleasure is well worth it.

... I'd just say don't hit her in the face. Unless she wants you to.

Well there is rough and their is pain.
Walking that line is fun. In essence she is trusting you very much.

Yep that Russian chic I had used to slap me across the face and ask me to fuck her harder .. harder .. HARDER. I never hit her in the face though, didnt actually like mine hit tbh.

REDZULU2003;480030 said:

Yep that Russian chic I had used to slap me across the face and ask me to fuck her harder .. harder .. HARDER. I never hit her in the face though, didnt actually like mine hit tbh.

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hahaha! I think that might be a symptom of watching too much __________. He loves to slap woman that guy, can be a bit too rough at times.

lol yeah he is and so to Nacho Vidal ... not really my thing the face but an ass YES .. will slap that with the belt if she wants