Here's a thought - all women are different, so just listen and keep communication open, pay attention to how she reacts to things. Sometimes there is instantly great sexual chemistry with people, sometime you have to work at it. One thing I would advise against: trying to impliment somebody's 'sex technique' that you read on the internet when trying to mkae things happen. Women can see right throught that kind of shit for the most part. Just relax and enjoy yourself, she'll do the same. Certain pointers like taking it slow and such are generally always good advice, other stuff like specific positions, rhytHydromaxs, etc, is all unique to the individual. Be confident, keep her pleasure in mind, and it'll be all good.