Longer sex ... tips plz

hi!

my prob is .. my sex isnt long enough for me ... my girlfriend think it is enough ... so is it !

what can i do fo longtime sex ??? plz help me !

need more info, how long does it usually last, how many times do you/her get off, do you go through all the bases i.e. kissing-fingering/handjob-oral-sex???????

Just a few things off the top of my head. I noticed a difference if I breathe different. I think most people have a tendency to breathe from their chest. And during sex, at least I have a tendency to breathe more shallow. I started breathing from my stomach, deeper breaths and it helped. What I mean is, when you breathe, what part of your body rises, your chest or your stomach? With this one though, you almost have to be careful not to overdo it, as I've lost a few erections doing this. Which is the other thing I was thinking about. If you focus on your breathing, then all of your focus isn't on what you're doing. Doesn't mean you have to not be into what you're doing, if the sex is good its kind of hard not to be. But slightly averting part of your attention could help you to not climax too quickly. Do this from closer to the beginning, and then you can go much longer, as you're not playing "catch-up" when you start feeling you're going to orgasm. Once that happens its sometimes too late, or it won't work the same way.

One of my friends from work says when he wants to prolong things, he thinks of something completely different. He starts naming off the players from the 1984 Detroit Tigers. I don't like this as it basically takes all your attention away from the girl. But whatever you have to do I guess.

Keep legs bent. Start slow. Take it out and change positions when you get close, or just plain take it out. Start doing kegals and edging. You will be able to hold it.

edging? (i do kegels, what is edging?) thanks.

Chester said:

edging? (i do kegels, what is edging?) thanks.

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Building yourself up to ejaculate then stopping the session, before you do so.

jelqs help a lot!

If you want your sex sessions to last longer, don't let her reach orgasm so quickly the first time around. When she gets real close, stop for a few seconds to let her come down a bit then start again. It would help if you know her well enough to know when she's close, if not then have her tell you when she's close. You can do this for as long as you like, but realized that each time she gets real close the time to get there will get shorter and shorter. You are actually doing a reverse edging where instead of stopping when you are close, you stop when she is close. The first time i do this to any woman, they usually feel a little disappointed 'til you start again. Continue to do this until she begs you to let her cum. When you actually do make her cum, she will go thru the roof. I love doing this to my wife and when i finally let her go, she sometimes sees stars and feels faint right after.

sikdog speaks the truth...by doing that the pleasure for both is increased. i would advise trying it.

sikdogg said:

If you want your sex sessions to last longer, don't let her reach orgasm so quickly the first time around. When she gets real close, stop for a few seconds to let her come down a bit then start again. It would help if you know her well enough to know when she's close, if not then have her tell you when she's close. You can do this for as long as you like, but realized that each time she gets real close the time to get there will get shorter and shorter. You are actually doing a reverse edging where instead of stopping when you are close, you stop when she is close. The first time i do this to any woman, they usually feel a little disappointed 'til you start again. Continue to do this until she begs you to let her cum. When you actually do make her cum, she will go thru the roof. I love doing this to my wife and when i finally let her go, she sometimes sees stars and feels faint right after.

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that sounds good if you can actually outlast her...which is probably part of shafti's problem...i know a lot of guys use reverse kegels to prolong sex....i haven't been able to do it yet...honestly i haven't really tried..but some guys here use it and say it works well

I hear ya... i understood it differently the first time i read his post. If the problem of not lasting longer is him and not her then edging and kegels are definitely a way to go. Another way is to squeeze one off before you two hook up... the second time around, i can go for at least another hour or so.

I noticed if I focus on relaxing the PC muscle well I'm going I can last a lot longer also I sometimes pull out and squeeze the glans and that seems to start me over again.