keeping you interested

i was just wondering if any of u men had a few ideas on how to keep a man interested give me ideas here telll me YOUR fantasies ect.
need the help
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your fucking hot. If you got a good personality that should be enough.

Good blowjobs always help

Make yourself rare, don't always phone or mail him first...
There should always be some mistery around you so don't tell him everything
on the first day.

If I know that i can have a girl easily there's no hunting drive anymore

For me, that works - great blowjobs, too of course

Bathmate

I'm particularally fond of surprises, at least, as regard sex. The reason men love sports is because we never know who's going to win, we love video games because we don't know what's coming next, we love getting drunk for the same reason. (Nascar is kind of the exception in all of that.)

When things become casual or common, they stagnate, and that has a hell of a deliterious effect on both the mental and physical aspects of a relationship. Now mind you, keeping things interesting doesn't necessarily mean "Hey Honey, look what I bought at the store today!!" "Oh... it's a strap-on that's bigger than I am..... great." but waking him up with some unexpected sex, or even just unexpected intamacy. Help him shower in the morning. Surprise him when he gets home wearing a smile and nothing else. Tease him and make him wonder when you're going to take it to more than teasing. Or, go out and get some ���� and take notes on what he likes; or just remind him that "Hey, I can do that too."

Variety is the spice of life, as it were.

And yes, great blowjobs are important.

-Harm-

ah yes how did i know everyone would say blowjobs haha. i mean more of to get him to want me more. when we were first together for the first year he was always going wild over me. and i loved it. now its fading. i just want his excitment back from when we were first together. *i give great blowjobs* (i dont think thats an issue)

I agree with BigMiller. Play hard to get. Don't always be available.

Ah. Well, here's the sucky thing about that: Relationships change, and so do the individuals in it. We get accustomed to eachother and fall from lust to love, or at least, like. (I doubt in your case you need to worry about love vs. like if you've made it this far.) I still reccomend that you introduce some variety into the bedroom, assuming that variety is an issue.

Bathmate was right when he suggested that having an aura of mystery makes a difference. Or at least, the feeling that something unexpected could happen. Think back to when you first started having sex, everything was new: New kisses, new positions, new orgasms, new techniques, new likes and dislikes. If you want him to be interested in you like that, I'd say try something new. Such as: Dye your hair a new color, get a tan (Lose a tan?), get some new lingerie, learn some new positions, ask him for different things in bed (Seriously, men, or at least I, like it when women suggest things.).

Other options are a bit more forceful: Tell him not to masturbate for a week, to save all that energy for you and see how he reacts. Take the more dominate role in sex and in starting sex (Surprisingly enough, men like to be the sub once in a while). Have sex with him first thing in the morning, but don't let him cum, see how he acts when he gets home (Also note, tell him not to cum during the day either.)

And you could always start going to the gym with him. Men who go to the gym on a regular basis have 30% more sex, and the mutual pheramone release naturally encourages amorousness.

-Harm-

Post Script: Before I go, one more suggestion: http://www.literotica.com go there and read some stuff, and send him there to do the same. It'll have an impact, I promise.

i tryd the hard to get thing but that just frustrates him and he gets grouchy.

Make sure to let him know when you are really enjoying sex. I mean don´t ever hold back a moan or little scream or whatever. Talking dirty does it for me too, but you probalbly have to gradually increase this or it can be weird.

Blowjobs, hell yeah, and you can always get better. If you watch some ���� together ask him what was the best in his oppinion. Most guys want a girl to be really into it, lots of up and down with as much tongue as you can, and really trying to get it all in.
Sorry to push it with the blowjobs, but you asked and we guys love it.

Have you ever stripped for him? My ex girlfriend did one time, put a bandage on my eyes, tied me up to a chair, put some african music, took the bandage from my eyes and... Short story, it was easy to untie myself, but I enjoyed the show for some time before I couldn´t resist and jump over her. Fucked right there in the floor over and over. Damn I´m getting horny just by remembering it. Afterwards I kept coming for more and more. I still want to hook up with her if I were to end my current relationship.

thanks for the advise
fantasies anyone?

Ok, when it's your boyfriend which you are together with, it's something different.
I thought you meant some guy you dated recently.

Any ideas of keeping the fire in the relationship?
Do something new - not only sexual. Go to a fine restaurant, visit the zoo together,
make a small weekend trip to a different city...

Try also something new on the sexual side, like using toys, different locations like
the kitchen, bath, car, toilett of a bar or whatever comes into your mind

You can also send a text message to his cel phone during the day. "the second you get here and cross the door I'm gonna unzip you with my teeth and..." kinda stuff.

Then do it. Next dirty message will have him running home.

Study his interests and pretend your interested in the same things.

Shave your pussy, dress like a Catholic school girl, call him Mr. ___ , tell him you really need to make an A. Then proceed to suck him hard, grind his cock cowgirl style, then turn your back to him and sit on his cock, letting it slide up your ass, and then when he gets close to coming, turn around, stick a finger in his asshole, suck him off like an industrial strength Kirby vacuum, and swallow. Do all this with your sweater unbottoned and your tits hanging out, bouncing in his face, your skirt on, but no panties, BUT have on some white thigh-highs, no shoes. Then beg for more. While you're waiting on his batteries to recharge, get on all fours with your ass facing him and fuck yourself from behind with a really fat cucumber. Repeat. And video tape and give it to him to keep.

If this doesn't work, do all of the above with me and still give him a copy of the tape- that will get his attention. If THAT doesn't work, check his pulse.

Texan said:

Shave your pussy, dress like a Catholic school girl, call him Mr. ___ , tell him you really need to make an A. Then proceed to suck him hard, grind his cock cowgirl style, then turn your back to him and sit on his cock, letting it slide up your ass, and then when he gets close to coming, turn around, stick a finger in his asshole, suck him off like an industrial strength Kirby vacuum, and swallow. Do all this with your sweater unbottoned and your tits hanging out, bouncing in his face, your skirt on, but no panties, BUT have on some white thigh-highs, no shoes. Then beg for more. While you're waiting on his batteries to recharge, get on all fours with your ass facing him and fuck yourself from behind with a really fat cucumber. Repeat. And video tape and give it to him to keep.

If this doesn't work, do all of the above with me and still give him a copy of the tape- that will get his attention. If THAT doesn't work, check his pulse.

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I seriously don't understand how a man can become disinterested in a woman as attractive as Brittney. As long as everything else in the relationship (ie. communication) is ok then there really shouldn't be a problem. I kinda think it has to do with youth. (Since you are relatively young I'm assuming he is around the same age.) Being 26 ( I know it's not "old" but I definitely see things differently than i did when i was 18 or 20) I look back at when I was younger and man i had some really hot ass girlfriends. I am pretty amazed that these girl would even have talked to me let alone sleep with me. But I remember be coming disinterested, my eye would wander, occasionally cheat, and basically screwed up alot of those relationships with gorgeous and intelligent women. I think it has to do with the at that age men (and women to I think) want to explore; feel there is something always better out there. I'm sure some guys can relate here. You know it's that one girl you still think about and say "Man how did I let that one go!". I'm not sure if this has helped any. I just thought I'd voice my observation.

I'll be blunt and honest [as usual, the simon cowell of pe LOL]
Your man is ignorant of what he has, he doesnt appreciate BEUTY and thats what you have plus your a lovely lady from what I've seen and read from you.
The boyfreind needs to WAKE UP and realise how lucky he is with what hes got, ATM he's spoilt and doensn't see what he has.....until its gone, but I hope that never happens. Its your man who has the problems, not you and if he doesnt wake up than he isnt worth it. Sorry if I over stepped the mark, but I wont lie to you. Your stunning, honest and decent...its about time he took notice of you enjoyed every minute with you and made the effort to please you. I'll be morbid, but you dont know whats behind the next corner or what life will dish out to you...life is short, it isnt always sweet but you can sure try and make it that.

Goodluck to you darling.

Texan said:

Shave your pussy, dress like a Catholic school girl, call him Mr. ___ , tell him you really need to make an A. Then proceed to suck him hard, grind his cock cowgirl style, then turn your back to him and sit on his cock, letting it slide up your ass, and then when he gets close to coming, turn around, stick a finger in his asshole, suck him off like an industrial strength Kirby vacuum, and swallow. Do all this with your sweater unbottoned and your tits hanging out, bouncing in his face, your skirt on, but no panties, BUT have on some white thigh-highs, no shoes. Then beg for more. While you're waiting on his batteries to recharge, get on all fours with your ass facing him and fuck yourself from behind with a really fat cucumber. Repeat. And video tape and give it to him to keep.

If this doesn't work, do all of the above with me and still give him a copy of the tape- that will get his attention. If THAT doesn't work, check his pulse.

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Britney, this may sound over the top, but it really isn't. Guys LOVE this kind of thing. Another option instead of the schoolgirl thing is to get a matching thong, bra, garter belt, and fishnets. And stilettos. And then do all of the above. lol

i think your all taking this the wrong way, he still shows alot of interst in me i just want new exciting things that will leave him in awe. get it? sorry i worded it the rong way