Let's not get this nonsense confused with any sort of arousal states. I can be very relaxed, also, and have a massive "flaccid", but I don't count that as a true flaccid state. In a true flaccid state, where I'm walking around with stuff on my mind, I'm generally no more than 4.5" soft, which looks very little on my big frame with big thighs. When I'm relaxed, specifically if I'm going out with a cockring on, I can hang 6.5" consistently as long as I'm chill and things are right. Generally my true flaccid doesn't vary very much. It's pretty consistent day in and day out.